Parents want to give their children a good childhood, but some things cannot be condoned, not as long as they are happy. If there are no restrictions, children will do whatever they want. For children who are not discerning, it is easy to go wrong. If they do not follow the rules since childhood, they will easily become such people in the future. However, there are too many people in today's society. The rules must be observed, otherwise the interpersonal relationship will be very poor, so parents should set the rules when the child is young. Before the age of 6 years, the following rules must be established, otherwise it will directly affect their future.
1. Can't take other people's things
The child has just become self-aware before the age of 6, but they still can't clearly distinguish some things, such as which things are their own and which are others' , As long as they like it, they will go straight to get it, without thinking about anything, thinking that as long as they get it, they will get it. At this time, parents must set up rules for children to distinguish between yours and mine, and let them understand that as long as they are not their own, they can’t take it at will. Only their own things can be distributed at will, and other people’s things can be done with the permission of others. In the future, I will also know how to respect others and will not occupy other people's things at will.
2. If you make a mistake, you must take the initiative to admit it
Children will inevitably do wrong things, but some parents always use their children to avoid responsibility. This makes it easy for children to be confused between right and wrong, and they will also encounter things later. It is easy to find all kinds of reasons to shirk, and some parents directly choose to beat and scold after their children are wrong. This makes the children afraid of being punished and avoiding the mistakes. They don't want to admit that they have done something wrong, and even blame them all on others. Parents should let children understand that as long as they make a mistake, they must take the initiative to admit it, but they must not be strong in communication. They should use Wen Ge's tone to say that they must not force their children to admit their mistakes, so that even if they admit their mistakes, they will not be able to get up. Any effect.
3. Let the child solve the problem by himself
Many parents feel that the child is young and will not be able to do many things, and it is very difficult to do. It is all inclusive and everything is done for the child. This will only make the child depend on his parents forever, and the ability to take care of himself is poor. When he encounters difficulties in the future, he will not know how to solve it, but will only choose to avoid it.So it is difficult to be successful. Parents should let them do what they can, tell their children what to do and what problems to solve by themselves, and teach them some solutions instead of doing them all for them. With these rules established, the child can become a useful person in the future. Otherwise, life in the future will be very difficult. Parents cannot accompany them every day. They have to face some problems.
