Author: Zhao Xiaoming Editing and typesetting: Ma Cui Guanli
Xiaoming's quotations:
We may not be able to increase the power of our own consciousness in our lives, but we can not protect the subconsciousness in our lives, but we can not protect the subconscious. Good self.
Continued from the previous issue:
Scans the brains of criminals, and there are many areas in the brain that are loose.
A person with a criminal personality is an expert in crime, which ordinary people cannot do.
During this time, children are in the sensitive period of , if there is corresponding stimulation, the brain will retain the corresponding neural network; if there is no corresponding stimulation in some places, the brain will begin to secrete another hormone at this time , This hormone will disconnect the neural network.
There are roughly two types of human hormones:
is the growth inhibitory effect of _span3 and span_span0. Effective.
These two types in our traditional Chinese culture, in the " Yin Fu Jing ", they are called upside down, Sheng and Ke. It refers to . One is to promote your growth, and the other is to inhibit your growth.
These two types of hormones are the most important in the human brain. At this time, the part that is not properly stimulated, the brain begins to secrete inhibitory hormones, which disassembles and simplifies many parts of the brain's neural network.
Therefore, during this sensitive period, some children may retain more neural networks, such as effective and abundant stimuli in the nurturing environment, but not excessive. The corresponding neural synapses in some children’s brains may be retained. There will be more, some children will be less.
2. Exploring the talents of the brain
For example, color, some people always wear clothes incorrectly. He doesn't want to or has no money to wear clothes, but his eyes see the color The level is not as rich as others.
In other words, some people's eyes see richer colors than others, and they have a good color and color matching beauty.
These children are not engaged in painting, but can also wear beautiful clothes, or are engaged in clothing design, which are very suitable. If children like
find this characteristic of him,There is no need to train him to Tsinghua Peking University, there is no need at all. Just let him take the professional route, even if he goes to ordinary university, he will become the top talent in the industry.
Many parents always stare at Tsinghua University and Peking University. This view is very wrong. The nature of 's view also shows that our country is seriously inadequate in the popularization of popular psychology.
so many parents judge whether a child can be admitted to Tsinghua University, as a standard to judge whether the child is good or bad?
Take a look at the top fashion design masters in the world. Which one is graduated from a prestigious university?
The brain has this ability, and he will do well in this line. This has nothing to do with diplomas!
I have not given me any formal music education since I was young.
Our generation goes to school, music education in the school is basically the same as nothing, and the teacher will not give you this lesson. But I have always liked listening to music. When I got to college, I started to write songs, and I would write songs when no one had taught them. After I finished writing, I sold them.
At that time, someone wanted to buy me a song for 10,000 yuan, but the song has not been sold until now, because I was not short of money and there was no need to sell it.
I wrote some of the songs that everyone heard and sang.
Once I went to record a song with a professional who makes music. He has never gone to college and is a high school graduate. When listening to the recording demo in the mixing room, I can hear the level of every part of the music, and he can also hear it. He said: Your ears are really good.
When you say that your ears are good, it does not mean that you have good hearing. In the professional world, what you say is that your ears are good. , your ears are just like your eyes.
Human eyes can see rich colors and color contrasts, and my ears can hear a lot of very rich and small sounds.
This is not something that music education can teach. The brain is born with this kind of talent, you will have this ability.
Let’s take a look at the children educated by various music schools across the country. Individual children of are gifted, and most children are mediocre.
In the end, you can only be a music teacher in an ordinary school. This is all professionally educated, and that's the thing.
3. Find a professional direction that suits the characteristics of the child’s brain development
So a person’s achievement is not necessarily related to what kind of professional education he receives.
If the child has this talent,If he finds a certain kind of higher education that is suitable, then the child is determined to become a talent. So what parents have to do is this!
Don’t have to fight 985 and 211, that is meaningless and worthless! What you want to find is a certain type of professional direction that suits the characteristics of your child's brain development.
He walks along this road, and will become a top talent even in ordinary universities.
Another example is that some children will have a tics during kindergarten or elementary school. Eyes often blink, voice twitches, mouth twitches , which shows that children have a nerve impulse that cannot be contained in the type of brain activity.
The impulse of the nerve can be considered as a catalytic effect, but the inhibition of the nerve is another inhibitory force.
is just like the birth and restraint in our Chinese culture. It means that the child has no problem in giving birth. There is a problem in the brain’s ability to inhibit this area, and it cannot be restrained. Nervous impulse.
Because children like this cannot control many behaviors, they will have extra actions in the class;
will also have extra actions when interacting with others.This is also true for ADHD. It is a part of suppressing nerve impulse and cannot be suppressed. Many children have similar characteristics.
Like this kind of child, we want to train him for targeted neurodevelopment, not catalysis and growth, but inhibition training.
4. Suppressive training method, how should this suppressed training be trained?
first you have to activate it.
first let him be activated by a biological force;
first let him produce a high degree of nerve excitability, and then train his inhibition.
You have to find a highly excitatory activity, and at the same time this activity should have some inhibitory sense of rules, this kind of activity is suitable for him.
For example, drumming requires a high degree of excitement; music and instrument playing require high levels of excitability.
For example, a rock band must be highly excited, but if you have only excitement without restraint, it is impossible to perform fine movements of instrument playing.
drumming is the same,Your high level of excitement is coming out, but what are you asking for?
is a completely rigid rhythm, is as precise as a timer.
Mike Jackson’s queen drummer is called as accurate as an electronic clock. His every beat is so precise, there is no need to look at the metronome ! He is not a graduate of the Conservatory of Music, but his innate brain is extremely accurate in calculating time values.
So everyone can understand that every child of finds something suitable for him, and he can live a good life.
Don’t bet everything to 985 and 211.
There are also some highly exciting competitive sports. For example, playing football and basketball. On the one hand, also requires high excitability, and on the other hand, it also needs to perform fine manipulation and manipulation of its own activities.
Shooting basketball and football requires meticulous manipulation of my physical activities.
allows certain children with neurodevelopmental problems, children who cannot control their extra activities, such as children with ADHD,There are also some children with redundant behaviors that are suitable for training.
A lot of this kind of training, The more training, the more the human body can slowly train an inhibitory ability in a state of high excitement.
5. Training methods for neurological development disorders
There are also some children with neurological development delay disorders.
In fact, there have been more and more neurological developmental delay disorders in recent years. One of the reasons is that the child's activity is too small and the exercise is simple. It also includes the neural perception , and all dimensions are not fully stimulated.
Now children don’t have the opportunity to play with water or fire, they don’t have the experience of playing fish and shrimps in the fish ponds, and for hours;
does not have many of our childhood wall climbing With the experience of turning over trees, he must have the possibility of slowness and obstacles in some aspects.
So children now have too much neurodevelopmental delay.
The method to train is also very simple,It is to stimulate the sense of perception in all directions.
For example, the feeling of touching the soil with your hands, the feeling of touching the sand with your hands, the feeling of touching every different plant and animal in nature, and the smell of different animals in your nose...,
These are all stimuli to human perceptual activity.
But how can children have such a chance now?
This kind of prison-style learning, children study questions all day long, if they have to take Tsinghua University and Peking University, they will harm today's children. This is the most critical issue.
Many parents simply cannot see where their children are capable.
Someone told me, how do I know the child is capable?
You don't let your child do this kind of thing, how do you know he is capable? In order to test Tsinghua and Peking University, he only spends the whole day in school. What abilities can you see?
6. Stimulate the growth of neural activity synapses
This is why I do summer camp now.
summer camp design idea is,It is necessary to regain the rich perceptual stimulation of this generation of children who have lost their childhood, and help them to try to find their own talents. At the same time, use 's richer perception to re-stimulate the possibilities of their bodies.
Because human synapses can grow for life.
In the past, people thought that when people got older, synapses no longer grow. But now research has found that synapses can grow for life.
I once went to the best laboratory in Tsinghua with a professor and saw a CT scan of a Tsinghua professor in his 80s.
can clearly see that the hippocampus of the Tsinghua professor's brain has been calcified.
has calcification points. means that the Tsinghua professor should have Alzheimer's (in the past it was called Alzheimer's disease, now we call this type of disease senile psychosis), but Professor Tsinghua has no performance, why ?
because other aspects of his brain have compensated.
What is compensation?
because he has a lot of activities.For example, he often talks, he likes to lecture, and there are many other areas of the brain that replace this degraded and calcified area.
This tells us that can re-develop their abilities at any age , even like a professor in his eighties, his neural network can have compensatory function .
So about everyone, my child has detected which nerves have developmental retardation problems. People can solve the problem of brain calcification at 80 years old, let alone you a child?
The key is to stop writing questions for the child all day long, and restore the child's natural humanity and naturalness. These problems will be solved naturally.
Xiao Ming’s quotations:
, so we may never know what life is in the end, so we may never know what life is. ! Find your most comfortable state.
Original public account: Heart Partner (ID: xhbeap)
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