In the current society of material desire, what do you think is the best education you can give to children? What is the cruelest education? Which material and spiritual do you prefer?
I remember when we were in junior high school, there was a male classmate whose mother was divorced and took him by himself. In order to take good care of him, he set up a stall in front of the school to sell cakes, and worked hard from morning to night every day. , It's really not easy. But from the boy’s dressing, we have always felt that his family’s economic conditions should be quite superior, and he had never let his classmates know that the one selling cakes at the door was his mother, but later because he wanted to buy a pair of shoes, it might be his mother who really took it. Without spending so much money to buy a pair of so-called brand-name shoes, when he was rough with his mother and hit his mother on the ground, everyone learned the truth. How sad is it for a child who has not yet grown up to fight his mother and loves his mother so deeply? For mothers and parents, is it true for children?
I once saw such a story: There is a rich man who is very old and well received, and he is concerned by the family. The family treats him as a treasure and loves him. One day the rich man will come from outside When he came back, the child actually peeed on the tree and cast it on the head of the rich man. Not only was the rich man not angry, he also praised the child as being unique, imaginative, and playing differently from others.
Later, the rich man's child peeed on the tree again. Now, a scholar is passing by. The scholar is very angry. He finds the rich man's house to discuss the wealth, and always uses the money to dismiss the scholar.
Later, when he was his son pulling pee in the tree, he saw a horse galloping over. It was not someone else who was sitting immediately. He was a famous thief in the rivers and lakes. When he went to pee immediately, The thief was angry and grabbed him and threw him far away. When the rich man arrived, all he saw was the cold body of his child.
What we have experienced from the story, I always feel there will be a trace of desolation,Whose fault is this?
Love your children appropriately , every child is a piece of white paper. Whether the scenery drawn on the white paper is beautiful or not depends on how the painter behind it paints.
There must be rules when loving children . We must give our children a lot of love, but we must also set rules that cannot be done. A child is like a kite in our hands. No matter how far he goes or how high he flies, as long as we firmly hold the line in our hand and set the rules in place, then his path will not deviate.
Love is not just given at the right time, you have to ask for , otherwise it will be like Shakespeare is like a saying: Forget the of your sons and daughters Reaching out to give him food, you put the food into his open mouth, but he opened his mouth and bit off your food delivery hand.
You only taught him to ask for it, but didn't teach him to pay. Isn't this the cruelest kind of education?
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