is cultivating children's strong will and qualities, especially the role model power of parents. Parents who are lazy, slack in life, do not have confidence in doing things, and often give up halfway, it is difficult to cultivate children with strong willed qualities.
Many families are now in good conditions, and many children are unlikely to experience hardships since childhood. This makes it easy for them to face dependence and it is also difficult for them to develop a strong character. In the future, children will face a complex society, and they will always encounter setbacks and difficulties. Without a strong character, they cannot adapt to the fierce social competition.
Psychologists have found that intellectual development is related to three personality qualities:
1. Persistence: be brave to face difficulties and persevere to the end.
2. Be good at accumulating results to achieve goals.
3. Be confident and not inferior.
It can be seen that a strong character is very important to life.
Different education methods create different willpower and self-confidence in children. For example: some children are tenacious, some children have the spirit of self-reliance, some children cannot bear any setbacks, some children are timid and fearful, and some children have poor self-care ability.
In order to cultivate children's good psychological quality, so that children have a strong will, a lively personality and a healthy and progressive mentality, parents should pay attention to exercise their children's will from an early age, and pay attention to their children's Cultivation of self-confidence and courage. Personality is a long-standing realistic attitude and a habit of adapting to it, and it is an important aspect of personality.
So how to cultivate a strong character for children? Parents can start from the following points:
(1) Give children the opportunity to exercise independently.
allows children to do activities alone, talk with others, interact with children, complete homework independently, and so on. Even if there are certain difficulties, let the child do it by himself. Only by letting the child complete certain difficult things can he experience the joy of success after overcoming the difficulties, thereby increasing his self-confidence and becoming stronger.
(2) Ask children to start small things.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Starting with small things and persevering is a good way to temper your will. Start with small things, from easy to difficult, and temper your children from low to high. If your child can face increasing challenges, a strong-willed child will stand in front of you.
(3) Exercising one's muscles and bones and gaining what they can't.
Everyone knows that "work on one's muscles and bones" is an important way to temper the will. More difficult labor and sports activities suitable for children can strengthen children.
(4) Believe and respect children.
Try to make children bear certain responsibilities, so as to cultivate children's self-demanding ability and perseverance.
(5) Let the child maintain a healthy body.
A weak child has no confidence in his body and is in a bad mood. He must be afraid of this. If he can't be positive about people and things, it will be difficult to strengthen his personality. On the contrary, children with good physical fitness, confidence, and courage can easily develop a self-confident and strong character.
(6) Cultivate children's positive and good morals.
Good morals are loved and respected by others, and knowledge and wisdom make people confident.
(7) Ask the child to do what he can.
If the child is unwilling to go to kindergarten and still crying loudly, then parents must find a way to eliminate the discomfort of the child going to kindergarten. In addition, they should also encourage the child to "the child who does not cry in kindergarten is the brave child", if If the child stops crying, encourage promptly and add appropriate rewards so that the child will gradually develop a strong character.
(8) Prevent the formation of prejudice due to gender differences.
Some parents think that boys are not good at playing with dolls, and girls should not play submachine guns. It seems that girls should be born to cook and take care of their children, and boys should be born with knives and clubs to do big business. This narrow view of adults is not conducive to the healthy development of children's character. Doing so will damage the independence and self-confidence of girls, and masculinity will also affect the meticulousness and sensitivity of boys.
(9) Be patient with children.
Although some children want to be independent and insist on doing everything by themselves, in fact they often have more than enough energy and cannot do everything well. Therefore, parents must have patience and let their children learn to explore and grow by themselves. Don't be too hasty. Doing everything for the child will only make the child never grow up.
Curious, love to ask is also the biggest characteristic of children.
Generally speaking, a strong character determines a person's growth to some extent. When confronted with complex issues and need to make decisive decisions, people with strong personalities will calmly analyze, judge, and finally make a decision, while people with weak personalities may be indecisive, look forward to the future, and eventually mess things up.
A strong personality is so important to the growth of a child, parents who want to improve their children's quality should not ignore this aspect.
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