Recently, I saw a girl named "Zhaodi" in the kindergarten school bus group. I was struck by lightning. I didn't expect some parents to show patriarchy on their daughter's name so blatantly.
After thinking about it, whether it is explicit or implicit, patriarchal, female discrimination has existed in society for thousands of years, and it cannot be concealed by name. The shaping of "females" also started from an early age.
Beauvoir mentioned in "Second Sex": the historical and literary cultural atmosphere around the little girl, the hypnotic nursery rhymes and stories before going to bed, are all endless compliments to men. Children's books, myths, stories and fairy tales are all myths that reflect the self-esteem and desires of men. Therefore, the little girl observes the world with a man's eyes and discovers her own destiny.
In history, women have low social status, and few women can get a good education, so it is difficult for women to realize their social value. However, despite the difficulties, there have always been women in history who broke through the shackles of the world, realized their life values, and left their own traces in the long river of history.
The book "Stories of Outstanding Women in China and Foreign Countries" is a collection of stories about women who have made outstanding achievements in Chinese and foreign history. Although the binding is simple, the printing is rough, and some sentences are grammatically wrong, which cannot be read smoothly, the content of this book can be ignored. These flaws. My daughter was very interested when she heard the story inside.
The book involves women from all walks of life, including Huang Daopo, who escapes marriage and realizes self-worth through textiles, and , who was awarded the first-class madam by military service. Qin Liangyu, and some wrote " Genji The author of "Story", Zi Shibu, also ordered the death of King Cyrus the Great of Persia, who was called the "King of the World," Queen Tomiris of Huangquan, and Princess Sissi, who was committed to the peaceful establishment of diplomatic relations between Austria and Hungary because of unhappy life after marriage. ,There was also Harriet Tubman who was born as a slave to help the slave escape and participated in the Civil War.
The women in the book understand their life pursuits, no matter what situation they are in, they are striving to realize their life value. They are full of courage, courage, and perseverance, . They are not called to live like a woman. To be "outstanding", but to live like a real person, is called "outstanding".
Some of them get married, some never marry forever, some follow their family's arrangements to enter the marriage, and some break out of their family's constraints and choose their own life-long partner. They used their stories to tell us that the important thing about is not what kind of choice they made at one time, but why they chose to live.
Mrs. Xu Mu values the people of the motherland most. She doesn’t care who she marries. The country that can help her is her beloved. Even if she didn’t marry in that country in the end, after Wei Guoguo was broken , She also realized the restoration of the country by her own ability.
George Eliot was originally named Mary Ann Evans. She loves literature and writes. In order to gain a foothold in the male world, she gave herself a masculine pseudonym: George Ivans Slightly special. Her first novel "Adam Peter" was a great success, and it was republished 8 times a year. After that, she published many novels one after another, becoming the most influential novelist in English literature in the 19th century.
Montessori The purpose of studying medicine is to help others better.
Regardless of her father's opposition, she chose to study medicine and became the first female doctor of medicine in Italy. However, due to social discrimination against women, she could only work as an assistant physician in a psychiatric clinic. She did not stop because of this, but started to study children's medical and educational issues with mentally handicapped children as the starting point. Going back to university for further studies, studying the natural laws of human growth, and finally becoming the most important reformer of children's education in the 20th century.
These women’s stories are shown to us everywhere,Even if we encounter gender discrimination, we can still realize the value of our lives.
The fate of women is not limited by gender, only by their own thoughts.
As a woman, you will inevitably encounter gender discrimination. The earlier you understand, the more calmly your child will face it in the future.
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