A mother said that her child was timid, inferior, and afraid to speak when there were too many people.
A mother said that her child's speech is logical and coherent, and "says wherever she thinks," and she speaks incoherently.
Some mothers say that although their children have good academic performance, they are not happy and have few friends.
They asked Xiaoyi:
The child's expressive ability is not strong, and he is afraid to speak in front of everyone. Is there any good way?
Modern society is an open and communicative society. More and more people are aware of the importance of speaking in public. Public speaking ability is not just a question of eloquence, it is actually an externalization of a person's overall quality, so cultivating a child's public speaking ability is to improve the child's overall quality. The improvement of expression ability can comprehensively improve the quality of psychology, thinking, and expression, helping children to further understand themselves, find self-confidence, and fully tap their potential.
At the same time, we can also find that talking children seem to have more luck and opportunities. They have high emotional intelligence and are often the happy fruit of people around them. Everyone likes to be with them. But the reality is that computers and mobile phones make the fingers lengthen, but the tongue is shortening, especially because the heavy learning pressure of young people makes them have no time or no need to communicate.
When the children grow up, their various expression skills are even more worrying. Children who are not good at expressing themselves are easy to be ignored. Sometimes because of their timidity, they will encounter many setbacks and obstacles when looking for a job or falling in love in the future.
Let the child learn the ability to speak in public, not to let the child be a super speaker, to exaggerate, deliberately perform and amuse, but to let the child learn to express himself correctly, to put it plainly, is to be able to express what he thinks. No longer suffer from lack of expressive ability.
For this reason, different children face different reasons for not daring to speak in public, and the practice of teaching children to practice public speaking is also different.
for different approaches,Xiaoyi puts forward the following points to the parents in front of the screen:
1. Practice regularly and be fully familiar with
. Parents can bring their children to a new environment. Be fully familiar with the environment and the crowd, and practice many times. The more familiar you are, the more confident you are and the more nervous you can avoid.
2. Increase the frequency of public expression
usually pay attention to increasing the number of exercises, such as speaking in public, taking the initiative to chat with strangers on the road A 2-minute speech, through continuous training, to enhance familiarity and avoid strangeness.
3. Limb release
usually uses dynamic and positive music to drive the release of the limbs, such as dancing and doing exercises. Physical release can drive positive psychological emotions and help overcome tension.
4. Psychological hint
Tell yourself, "I am the best. I will speak very successfully today, and I will be the most powerful applause. "What you think in your heart must be firm, convinced, and positive.
5. Improve sound energy
You can usually exercise the energy level of the voice through shouting and breath training. The louder and louder the voice, the stronger the aura. Before taking the stage, you can also use Dantian Qi to shout "Hey, ha" twice to enhance your sense of energy.
6. Image analysis
The videos of usual exercises and speeches are often reviewed and analyzed to see what is done well and what is not good, and adjust appropriately. Be familiar with the state of your speech.
7. Use more interactive questions
In your speech, use more questions to trigger the audience’s thinking, so that the audience can follow their own questions Improve the interactivity and make the scene lively.
8. Communicate with the audience before the public speech
If the child is giving a formal speech, you might as well get in touch with the audience before you start. The interest, name, purpose and meaning of the participation.In a formal speech, you can raise the sense of familiarity by mentioning the names and questions of these audiences and looking at familiar audiences, and at the same time let the audience have a sense of presence and identify with the speaker.
9. Breath adjustment method
Before speaking, you can close your eyes and relax your mind and mind by breathing slowly.
10. Outline memorization
The most likely to appear in a speech is fragments. If you are familiar with the back of the manuscript, you can avoid gaps in the outline? !
divide the content to be said into the beginning, the middle (about 3 points are extracted from the points discussed) and the end!
according to the general outline, even if the word is forgotten, it can be roughly based on the outline Tell a manuscript that you are familiar with.
In the end, there is no change. Practice makes perfect. Grasp every opportunity to speak, the more the better!
usually avoid taking manuscripts when speaking, and constantly train your memory, resilience, and on-site language organization and expression skills through outline memory. All tensions will be solved.
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