We cannot always be the protector of our children, nor can we arrange the future for our children perfectly. The only thing that can help them is to let children form good characters and make them brave. Go to life, adapt to the environment, and create your own happiness, because character determines your destiny.
People’s life is very short. Sometimes, if you want to achieve something, if you want to get happiness in life, you have to go through hard work to fight for it, willing to spend time to work hard, explore, and fight for. Most of them are strong, optimistic, self-confident, hard-working, do not shrink in the face of difficulties, have the courage to create, and are patient.
Parents hope that their children will become useful as soon as possible. In addition to investing in intelligence, don’t forget to cultivate a good character from an early age. The character of the child directly determines the destiny of his life. So what kind of character do children need now?
Don’t cry and laugh, don’t be dull and timid, and lead a carefree, unfettered life. But being lively is not just being active, it doesn't mean being noisy. We must establish a comprehensive, scientific, and "lively view". The truly lively children are manifested in six aspects: lively expressions, articulate, lively bodies, lively perceptions, lively hands, and lively thoughts. It should also show that they like to ask questions, discuss, argue, read literacy, etc. This kind of liveliness is more internal, but on the surface it appears to be relatively quiet.
2. Quiet and focused
is different from the performance of quiet and lively. But regardless of the liveliness on the outside or on the inside, concentration is necessary. When you play, you have to be attentive and devote yourself to playing to get the greatest happiness and harvest. If the child should be unable to calm down, should sit well, should not run fast, should not jump high, be distracted, distracted, and can't persevere in doing things. This kind of character is obviously not very good. Some children have no goals in play, and their behaviors are not standardized. After letting them "play wild", they will naturally lose their quiet and focused character. It is very difficult for such children to correct them when they go to school, their intellectual development will also be severely affected, and it will be difficult for them to stand loneliness in the future.
3. Brave and confident
should be ’s brave lifeAll successful people in the world must be strong and self-confident, and all achievements have nothing to do with cowards. Children's bravery and self-confidence are mainly manifested in "not afraid", not afraid of the dark, not afraid of wrestling, not afraid of taking medicine, not afraid of injections, not afraid of bugs, not afraid of climbing, not afraid of ghosts, not afraid of loneliness, not afraid of strange environments and strangers. His self-confidence is mainly manifested in his good "self-image", and he always feels that he is a good boy, very capable, and therefore very happy. Confidence is like a big bird, it will carry children upward and soaring. This kind of good character is completely different from pride, rudeness, and unfriendliness, and should not be confused.
IV. Independence
self-guarantee of growth is very little dependence. Successful people have strong self-awareness, believe in their own strength, have their own opinions, and can handle things independently. According to many multinational consortia and billionaires in the United States, their families generally decline after decades, at most one or two hundred years. But there is a family called Rockefeller that has endured for centuries, billionaires or billions. What is the reason? Researching their family history found that they paid special attention to cultivating children's independence consciousness and ability, requiring children to be self-reliant, independent, and self-reliant in order to preserve improper prodigal sons. This has been the case for generations. The spirit of independence is the foundation of a man's career. The child’s independent personality is manifested in that he can sleep, sit, play, and does not rely on adults everywhere; after he can leave, he can visit alone; he likes to do his own things; he will go to school by himself under the premise of ensuring safety. , Go to relatives, make friends with strangers, etc. Those children with keys on their chests tend to be more independent.
5. Love labor and care about people
Never lazy, sympathetic, caring for people, so hard work and kindness are often linked together. Children care about others, mainly from caring about their family and those around them, caring about other people's labor and whether they are tired; sickness is not uncomfortable; others do not wake up when they sleep; others do not make noise when they talk; they do not torture others; give good things to others first ;and many more. If a child has such a character since he was a child, he must be a person of high morals, and his lofty ideals will also emerge.
VI. Curiosity and creativity
Remembering, imitating and experimenting; I like to be creative and unique in doing things. I want to strive for perfection. If I am not satisfied, I will start over until I am satisfied. With a personality full of desire for knowledge and creative spirit, you can cultivate different thinking and divergent thinking, and can also cultivate self-learning ability. In the future, you will be a pioneering and creative talent.
So as a parent, how can children form a good personality? The following points are important:
1. Have a strong self-confidence
When children believe in their ability to meet various challenges,It is possible for him to defeat it. To do this, parents must first discover their children's talents and talents as early as possible, consciously induce them, and encourage them to have confidence in success.
2. There is full enthusiasm
, no one can succeed without enthusiasm. Enthusiasm, for most children, is born, however, it is not easy to keep them from harm and continue to maintain enthusiasm. Because enthusiasm is fragile, it is easy to be frustrated by test scores, ridicule by others, or successive failures, so that it can be destroyed. Therefore, parents must pay great attention to protecting the child's heat type and not to hurt it at will.
3. Compassionate
Most children are sensitive to the suffering of living animals. If a family always cares about others, it will naturally sow the seeds of sympathy in the young heart of the child.
4. Have strong adaptability
span 16span how do children cultivate the adaptability of ? The best way is to treat children with the love and affection of adults as early as possible.Let him mature early and avoid being too naive and fragile to withstand all kinds of shocks from the society.
5. Hopeful
makes people dare to meet the special challenge of light in the dark, so that people dare to meet this special challenge in the dark. To cultivate children's hope in life, parents themselves should be optimists. Such as educating children often: failure is the mother of success. In this way, when difficulties really come, children will dare to face reality and not be afraid of danger, thus building a strong personality and endurance. This is exactly the hope of his life's success.
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