All the contradictions between husband and wife and friends come from conflicts caused by different values. We want to maintain a good relationship with each other, and we want to insist on being ourselves, so as to turn the "contradiction" outside into the inner self "contradiction" to get emotional.
We may use countless reasons to convince ourselves, but in the end we find that the more we want to convince ourselves, the more we are, the more we are, we tell ourselves to understand and tolerate.
In fact, we often use a compulsory way to suppress ourselves and want to forget as time goes by, but most people don’t know that it is just a brief forgetting. It is more like piled up explosives in the warehouse. One day, because of a small thing, all the backlog of emotions may be ignited at the slightest moment.
We are only a small step away from understanding and tolerance, that is, we understand.
Only by standing from the other party's perspective, looking for answers from the source of each person's life, and seeing why the other party is like at this moment, we can understand the other party and achieve true understanding and tolerance. Instead of forcibly suppressing emotions, it will only hurt your body.
