Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
"You are just doing what you like to do and living the life you like to live. If someone feels disgusting and making fun of you because of what you like to do, that is their business."
is indeed the case. Life is your own, life is your own, and there is no need to pay attention to the bad eyes of others.
Sometimes we are too kind, care too much and do not hesitate to compromise ourselves, unable to maintain inner peace, unable to maintain the habit of considering ourselves, and in the end, we lose ourselves and lose our self-love.
, you don’t have to think too much about it, just be yourself.
Many people, once they ask but cannot get it, once they love but cannot get it, they will become very impatient and uneasy inside, and even accidentally take an extreme road.
We questioned various reasons, but lost ourselves in various results, and could not let go of the past in all kinds of unwillingness. We pushed ourselves into the abyss with our own hands, and we kept asking for help from others in the abyss, repeating back and forth.
In fact, everything in life has its own destination.
Some things cannot be changed by ourselves alone, because they do not belong to us and will leave sooner or later, even if we make efforts, even if we can do what we can do, even if we can do what we can, even if we can keep them hard.
The impermanence of the world is probably due to our own incompetence. Therefore, we cannot change the past and we cannot predict the future. We can only stand up again after failures, and we can only comfort ourselves again after losing again and again.
Many people have the habit of thinking randomly when facing difficulties, but in fact, it is useless to think more. On the contrary, the more you think randomly, the more you are, the more you are suffering and uneasy.
0 everything, do your best and do your best.
As the saying goes, "Goodness has a sharp edge, and gentleness has a stand."
No one will dislike kind people, but not all people are willing to treat kind people kindly. Some people wear gentle masks, but they just want to use kind people to achieve their goals.
People with kind thoughts are always willing to help others, always treat others with a sincere heart, and comfort others with the most sincere love. But this is true. Their kindness is not only left to those who are grateful, but also to those who have evil thoughts.
says that one should not have the intention to harm others, and one should not be without the intention to guard against others.
When dealing with people, keep your kindness, but you must leave your kindness to those who deserve it and those who treat you sincerely.
Cause and effect are destined, and good and evil are rewarded. The kindness you accumulate will eventually become your blessing, and the evil actions you have done will definitely become an irregular time bomb for the rest of your life.
People live their lives, and being at ease is where they belong. If they are worthy of their conscience, they don’t have to be in a state of fear all day, but live their lives according to their own wishes and find their own happiness.
Sometimes, we are always naive. When
fails, we always think about what if it is going to happen; when we lose, we always think about assuming to give ourselves another chance.
But in fact, life cannot be repeated, and time cannot turn back. If everything becomes the past, it can only become the past.
No effort is useless, we can always get something from hard work; there is no gain that we can get without hard work, we always have to pay something to gain something.
Don’t always fantasize that you can enjoy the fruits of your life, don’t always fantasize that you can reach the sky in one step. If you don’t have a solid foundation, everything will be a dream in Nan Ke, and after waking up, it will be broken.
Instead of thinking about it, it is better to do your own thing and live your own life.
Roman Rolland once said:
"Whether we are happy or not can't rely on what we have gained or lost, but only depends on how we are."
for more than a lifetime, don't think too much, just be yourself.
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