Shen Fu wrote in " Six Records of Life ": "Life is mediocre, competing for the short term, but it is not said that there are numbers of prosperity and decay, and gains and losses are difficult to measure."
For this short and ordinary life, we do not need to talk about the short term. There are certain numbers when there are withering, prosperity, rise and fall. The choices and losses are also something that you and I cannot estimate.
When you are prosperous, even if there are millions of people in front of you, you will gradually move uphill. When you shouldn't be prosperous, even if you don't have any enemy ahead of you, you will struggle.
All destined in the dark are called "fixed numbers", and what can be changed in the middle is called "variable numbers". But whether it is a fixed number or a variable, it affects the rest of our lives.
Take a person's "life" as an example. Is he rich or poor? Can this really change?
For some people, fate can be changed because they exert their subjective initiative and luck also helps them. For some people, life is difficult to change because they lack the conditions of "the right time, place, and people".
Good and bad luck are determined by heaven, so how can ordinary people fight for it? These people have "poverty and sour spirit" in their bodies, and may be difficult to change for the rest of their lives.
1. People who will always realize it later have a poor and sad spirit.
The Godfather says: "A person who sees the essence in one second and a person who spends half his life cannot see the essence of a thing clearly, naturally it will not be a destiny."
can see through the truth of the world and see the essence of certain things in a short period of time, then you are the shrewd "prophets and awakens". No matter what, it is difficult for others to deceive you.
spent most of his life, and had not seen through the truth of the world, and he would always live in a confused state. Then he would be an honest person who "knows later". He was sold and helped count the money.
Nowadays, there are "cutting leeks" everywhere in the market. Why are the latter easily cut leeks and losing both people and money, while the former can keep the money in the pocket?
Because the latter did not think clearly about other people's intentions, while the former knew that all the paintings of big cakes were just tricks, and cutting leeks was the truth. In this way, the former can protect himself.
people, it is better to be preconscious, otherwise you will be in trouble.
2. People who are prone to disconnect from the times have a poor and sad spirit. There is such a joke
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In ancient times, ordinary people read books for a few years and understood Four Books and Five Classics , and it would be enough for a lifetime; more than a hundred years ago, ordinary people read books for more than ten years and went to college and could be called senior intellectuals.
A few decades ago, ordinary people could be assigned to work in certain departments after graduating from university, and their knowledge was enough; And today, the times are developing rapidly. If a doctorate does not continue to study, they will be eliminated by the times.
We always believe that the development of technology will only have a positive effect on life. But we forget that the faster technology develops, the higher the requirements for people the times have. In the future, perhaps it is not humans but robots that compete with us.
A person lacks the ability to continue learning and cannot update his thinking in time. He always sticks to the same old tricks. Then he can't make money, maybe even three meals a day will become a problem.
can only be said that in the era of inclination , the chance of ordinary people being eliminated will be greatly increased.
3. People who are extremely unlucky are filled with a sense of poverty.
If the two points of "latest awareness" and "disconnected from the times" are related to human abilities, then "having bad luck and never having good luck" is related to God.
God will make some people full of luck and go very smoothly along the way, and will also make some people unlucky, and everything they do is not smooth, and everything they do is hindered.
Some people will say, why is God so biased? In fact, it is not God’s partiality, but the mission and purpose of everyone coming to this world are different.
Some people’s mission is to become rich and enjoy a wealthier life, while some people’s mission is to become ordinary people and live a dull life. For different people, God will give them different experiences and tests.
, we just need to look at the experience of entrepreneurs and understand.
Entrepreneurs who are destined to succeed will encounter opportunities and noble people and achieve extraordinary achievements no matter how they experience setbacks. entrepreneurs who are doomed to fail, let alone encounter opportunities and noble people, perhaps they will still be defeated in various accidents.
4. People who always complain are poor and sad.
Nan Huaijin Master said that those who call poor will usually get what they want.
Many things are actually just "seeking benevolence and gaining benevolence". If you are full of hope for the future and do not care about the present and the past, then all you have is the rest of your life that is proactive and promising.
You are always full of complaints about life, either cursing here or being petty there, so what can you get? There is only the resentment around and the resentment that people can avoid.
We can find that the more poor and sour a person is, the greater his anger, as if the whole world owes him money. If you live like this, there will be no good results.
No one owes anyone, nor anyone owes others. Everything is just "those who owe themselves". As a human being, you should do "If you have lines, you should not , but look for it in yourself."
For the rest of your life, be a person who complains less and is more grateful, then your blessing will overwhelm the poor spirit.
text/Shushan Youlu
