Green Label Listen to the audio text of reading aloud/Guo Xuejun "Education is a beauty that needs no words." Cultivated people will close the door quietly when they go out without waking you; they will run outside when they receive the call without disturbing you. They will not

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Text/Guo Xuejun

"Education is a beauty that needs no words." Educational people will close the door quietly when they go out without waking you up; they will run outside when they receive the call without disturbing you. They will not embarrass others, and they will also find ways to resolve them.

They are interacting with others with sincerity and kindness.

see through or not pop

see through some things, but it is not easy to hold back and not say it out loud. In many things, people are more or less difficult. Seeing others' embarrassment and choosing not to expose it is the most basic education for a person.

Confucius One day he went out and it was about to rain, but he didn't bring an umbrella. At this time, I happened to pass by the door of my disciple Zixia . A student suggested: Zixia has, and Zixia borrowed it.

When Confucius heard this, he said: It’s not heavy, it’s important to hurry up, let’s go.

In fact, Confucius knew in his heart that Zixia was stingy on weekdays. If he was a master, if he was reluctant to lend an umbrella from him, others would think that he did not respect his teachers and elders; if he borrowed it, he would definitely feel distressed for a while. In this way, it is better not to borrow.

"Being educated does not mean not spilling soup when eating, but don't go to see others when spilling soup." People have their own privacy, weaknesses and shortcomings. If exposed nakedly in front of their face, they will inevitably hurt the other person's heart.

does not speak of personal personalities, does not expose others' shortcomings, see through them, does not expose them, and does not embarrass people. This not only controls one's own mouth, but also has the wisdom of thinking from others' perspectives.

is not embarrassing. It is the most valuable manifestation of a warm person and the most advanced expression of a well-educated person.

Help others to help them calmly

Respect is mutual. Only by learning to respect others can they be respected by others.

takes the initiative to help others, which is a kind of kindness. Relieving others without hesitation is a rare quality in life.

painter Zhang Daqian once drew a cicada. The big cicada lay on the willow branch, with the cicada head facing down, and it seemed like it was about to fly.

One day, many painters savored the paintings together, and everyone was talking about it. Qi Baishi saw the clue at a glance and said to Zhang Daqian in a low voice: "Mr. Daqian's paintings are extremely vivid. However, when I painted cicadas before, I once asked a farmer for advice. He told me that the cicadas heads are facing upwards and there are few situations facing downwards. Of course, this is the one-sided statement of the farmer, and I have never seen them myself, so it may not be correct." After hearing this, Zhang Daqian ran outside the house to observe carefully and found that the cicadas on the tree were indeed facing upwards. After returning, he put away the painting and explained to everyone that the cicadas on the tree had just been observed, as the farmers said, were not head-down. Everyone laughed it off.

Zhang Daqian already understood in his heart that Qi Baishi had known the answer, so he did not speak out loud or talk in a low voice, but was afraid that he would lose face and lied that he had heard from the farmers. Since then, he admired Qi Baishi even more.

High emotional intelligence is not a sleek and sleek, but a humility, tolerance, confidence and pattern after being virtuous.

Educated people never blame others condescendingly, but can resolve embarrassment in an understatement and protect others' dignity in things that can do. This is the best respect for people.

does not embarrass people because of their own advantages

People with good cultivation never put in the wrong because they are superior to others in some aspects, which makes people embarrassed.

When a celebrity singer was a guest on a variety show, he asked about the contestants' work. The contestant said embarrassedly, "I am an event singer." The

singer asked, "What is an event singer?" Other guests said that they were singers who sang at the opening of the building and the ribbon cutting. After listening to the

singer, he hurriedly said, "Oh, that's about the same as us." After the

competition, the contestant said in an interview: "Maybe this guest teacher didn't even notice it. How warm and confidence his simple words gave me."

's true cultivation is "silent", which can not only resolve the embarrassment of others, but also show off one's own merits. The highest level of education is to make people comfortable. The most direct manifestation of education is to not embarrass people. There is a sub-name couplet in " Dream of the Red Chamber ": "The world is clear and knowledgeable, and the understanding of human feelings is the article. "The first couplet talks about "knowing", and the second couplet talks about "not asking". People who are clear about the world are well-versed in the warmth and cold of the world; people who are well-mannered will not embarrass others.

In the world of adults, there is no need to be harsh on people, there is no need to judge people, and there is no need to cause trouble for things. Behind seeing through and not being able to expose yourself is not only controlling one's own mouth, but also putting one's mind in his shoes to understand others' shoes.

See through often requires wisdom; if you don't say it out, it can better reflect a person's true education.