In this world, there seem to be many people saying that people should be loyal to themselves for the rest of their lives and should not be affected too much by the outside world. Instead, they should retain a pure heart, free and unrestrained. Unfortunately, no matter how much I talk about it, few people can do it.
is not without conditions, but because of the human heart. Perhaps, humans are born sensitive to negative information. They don’t remember the good ones, but they still remember the bad ones. It's like it rains for two days in ten days. People just don't remember the sunshine of the eight days, but they are unforgettable for those two days of rain.
Even if you know that things have two sides, compared with most people, they seem to be accustomed to seeing the bad side but not the side that is beneficial to them. Of course, I am not saying here that people must have to experience wind and rain, suffering and setbacks, to achieve perfection. Instead, many things have happened. If you don’t calm down, this road will be even more difficult.
Since we are bound to suffer this disaster, we might as well think about it in a different state of mind: God has been destined to make us encounter bad things and bumps. This is because God has tailored the obstacles for us. I believe that it is just as Shen Congwen said in "Border Town": "Everything has coincidences, but the result is fateful necessity."
is inevitable, and it will definitely not be avoided. Since you can't get around it, then just grit your teeth. If you can't get over it, God will not let it happen. It is to make you constantly force yourself, constantly change yourself, and challenge your limits, everything is for the sake of fulfillment.
There is a passage in "Step Flowers Bloom" that says: "Life is a person's chaos. We fight ourselves day after day in order to live a free life and a heart that is not bound by others."
Life is short. How are you doing today and how will you live tomorrow? No one will give you guidance. Everything depends on your choice. You can choose to be happy, you can choose to be painful, you can choose to be strong, you can choose to be cowardly.
The result is that people who also experience adversity and suffering, will become strong people who are upright and sunny sunflower . And the weak will turn into dark and damp moss. It can be said that sometimes learning to appreciate tragedy and having joy with suffering is not the only way to be sure of the light, but filling all the sadness with wine glasses and drinking it all, tomorrow will be a new day.
Walking in this world, whether you can withstand the wind and rain and wad through the mud does not depend on the fate of fate, but on the mentality of a person. Instead of regretting for life due to difficulties, it is better to seize the present and give yourself a chance.
A person lives pessimistically because of lack of confidence. What you should do is not to wait for anyone to spur and supervise, but to learn to update yourself, constantly compare yourself with your own yesterday, and eliminate the negative energy things you have on yourself.
Just as " Fill your own cup first " says, don't wait for others to fill your cup, and don't just make selfless contributions. We should not wait for others to fulfill our wishes, especially after seeing the cold and cold world, you must be strong, and you can only be strong. Instead of living in chaos and making yourself depressed, it is better to change yourself and start by forcing yourself to change.
Life, the sea of tides rise and fall, we cannot live by our mood, but by our mentality. Even if life will not be smooth all the time, when you get into trouble, please force yourself to ride the wind and waves. You have the final say who you are. If you don’t even believe in yourself and leave your destiny to the outside world to make decisions, then how can you take your destiny into your own hands?
So, the stupidest thing in this world is to imprison yourself in other people's world and live a second-hand life. Let me tell you that instead of plagiarizing it outward, it is better to grow inward. Only when you begin to be loyal to yourself and start to polish yourself will your life be confident.
or British writer Oscar. Wilde said it well, there are "too many people who live like themselves, their thoughts are other people's opinions, their lives are others' imitations, and their emotions are other people's quotes."So, no matter whether you are a flower or a grass, as long as you live like yourself, it is the best gift to life.
You must believe that the most terrible thing in life is to fight yourself and waste time in spiritual internal friction. You really have the final say in the happiness and misfortune in life. It is precisely because it is easy to please the world and difficult to please yourself, so you must learn to please yourself.
No matter what, please follow your heart, live as a unique self, and live for yourself.
