If it is too rigid, it will break, and even if you look at it, there will be no trace. If you are too straight, you will be broken; if you are too clear-sighted, you will have no friends. Once anything loses its sense of proportion, it will go to the opposite direction. If you are extremely discerning, there will be no disciples. In life, be strong and soft; when making friends, treat each other with tolerance.
Life is full of challenges, so keep a low profile and bide your time. Hidden but not revealed, using retreat as advance. Take advantage of the situation and go with the flow. Make a decision before taking action, understand thoroughly before speaking. Avoid arguments and fights. Cooperation will benefit both sides, while fighting will hurt both sides. Think differently and seek common ground while reserving differences.
If it is too strong, it will break easily; if it is too soft, it will become loose. In life, we need to grasp the principle of combining strength and softness, so that we can advance and retreat freely, achieve mastery of life, and reach the other side of success.
has principles in life and bottom line in doing things. Strength and softness complement each other and live in harmony. We can neither go along with others nor give in to others.
adheres to the organic unity of principles and flexibility. Without losing principles, pay attention to the way of doing things, not simple and rigid; improve working methods, not static.
The method must be appropriate and conducive to solving the problem; the method must be appropriate and cannot intensify conflicts. Be a person who abhors evil as much as possible, think twice before doing anything, in order to achieve an organic unity of motivation and effect.
If you obey others, you will be easily accepted by others, enter the hearts of others, and be reused by others. Similarly, when doing things, if you obey the laws of things, you can get things done. Therefore, as long as you follow the laws of things, it is appropriate to do things. .
But when you obey, you must choose a good partner. Only by obeying a virtuous and talented big man will everything go smoothly. Pay attention to being humble and courteous when getting along with others, and at the same time, you must follow the right talented person, so that you have a greater chance of success.
No matter in terms of national governance or corporate management, only with everyone's obedience can government orders be passed smoothly and corporate management be effectively promoted. However, this requires national leaders and corporate leaders to also obey the rules and obey public opinion. Therefore, obedience cannot be one-way obedience, otherwise it will be blind obedience, which will fail to achieve the goal.
Excessive humility, lack of confidence, and hesitation in advancing and retreating are conducive to brave people to stick to the right path. To be indecisive is to have a weak will and to have too many doubts. It is helpful to keep the right path like a brave man and encourage him to be strong-willed.
A gentleman must grasp the timing when doing things, advance when it is time, so as not to lose opportunities, retreat when it is time, so that there will be no mistakes in life.
It will be very auspicious to act with reverence and humility, because although masculine, you can stay centered and upright.
can turn disaster into good luck by keeping a low profile. If a person has outstanding abilities and outstanding performance, he will naturally arouse the jealousy and even rejection of others and even his superiors. If he meets a villain and is a high-profile person, he may even be trapped in a trap, which will bring him trouble.
But if you can keep a low profile and lower your attitude, you will be more respected by others, and you will not be easily grasped by others.
There will be worries if you blindly obey. The worries of blindly obeying are because you have no will and will. Being too obedient will be labeled as incompetent and cowardly, which will be detrimental to your own development.
A person who can be obedient and humble will naturally be easily accepted and appreciated by others. However, if he is too obedient, he will not dare to point out the mistakes of the organization, superiors, and colleagues. He will obey even the mistakes and will not do anything within the scope of his responsibilities. If you dare to make a decision, you must obey the instructions of your superiors. People who have no independent opinions will naturally be labeled as incompetent.
This is equivalent to telling everyone that they are not capable of handling their own duties, and if this continues, it will affect the work of superiors and colleagues.
If you obey your superiors and make contributions, you will naturally be close to success in life, so obedience is not the goal. If you want to be successful in life, you also need to make contributions, so that you will get greater opportunities and platforms in the organization, and these opportunities and platforms can further promote your own success.
But by obeying others, others will be willing to provide you with opportunities to display your talents. How can the organization and superiors provide opportunities to a person who confronts the organization and superiors every day?
Therefore, people must not only have the virtue of obedience, but also have the ability and ability, so that success can be guaranteed.
If you stick to the right path, you will get good luck. Danger and embarrassment will disappear on their own, and there will be no disadvantages. If you are in a leadership position, you must obey the will of the people and gain obedience.
When a person reaches the position of national and corporate leader, if he wants to promote national governance and corporate management, he needs the obedience of the people and employees.
However, if new policies and strategies are not understood at the beginning, they will be resisted. Therefore, on the one hand, these new policies and strategies need to be able to meet the interests of the general public and employees, that is, they must comply with public opinion.
maintain a masculine state, adhere to the principles of the country and the organization, and the country will cohere. Therefore, regardless of the country, organization or individual, the right way is to balance hardness and softness.
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