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Bi Shumin wrote in "Remember, your eyes will betray you": "The eyes are the windows to the soul. This is an old saying that is tired of being said, but I want to say that the eyes are not just windows, they are the soul. Home. "
When we were young, our eyes were innocent and we were curious about everything we looked at. When I reach adulthood, I have feelings of joy, anger, sadness, and fear, and I even don’t want to look at anything, and there are often tears in my eyes. As people get older, their eyes begin to get older, and they often have to wear reading glasses to see things clearly.
If you think about it seriously, you will find that when people reach old age, they have seen through the past of life, take money, gains and losses lightly, and their eyes will become quiet.
If you calm down and adjust your eyes, you can capture many beautiful moments. Collecting "beautiful things" is a person's blessing.
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Look at your partner tenderly, the couple is loving.
When my grandfather was in his seventies, he often said this: "I will never go anywhere in the future. I will just stay at home."
Relatives asked him: "If I go on a trip, I won't go either." Are you gone?"
He said, "I won't go."
Later, everyone discovered that my grandfather was reluctant to leave my grandmother. Because at that time, my grandmother relied on a wheelchair to get around and couldn’t go anywhere.
When my grandfather was young, he traveled around a lot, making a living by doing small business and living in the countryside. He spent less time with his grandmother and was more away from her. In the remaining time, he wants to make up for the lost "companion".
The young couple comes to keep company. This is the gentlest happiness for the elderly. If two people still have "a hint of shyness" when they look at each other, it will evoke a lot of memories and seem to be back to first love.
Don’t think that you can hire a nanny just because you have money. No matter how high-end the nanny is, it cannot replace the affection of the wife, and she will not be as considerate and caring as the wife.
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See your children in their shoes, and I sincerely like it.
Are your children doing very poorly? As the saying goes, if you hate iron, it will never become steel.
Many parents feel that their children are working hard but not achieving the expected goals. Making too little money, working too hard, having a small family that is too disharmonious, not managing the grandchildren well... a series of problems have become "nails" in the eyes of parents.
In a charity event, singer Zhang Yadong taught the children to sing songs such as " The Best Future ", and then said: "In fact, not only actors and singers are stars, in fact everyone is a star, as long as If you help people in need, you are the best star. "
As long as children don't learn bad things and know how to be grateful, help others, and work actively, they are the best stars. Why should parents be prejudiced?
looks down on children, which is actually denying his own "education".
The ancients said: "If a son does not teach, it is the father's fault."
When dealing with children, we must learn to put ourselves in their shoes and look at the era of their birth, different opportunities, and attitudes towards life.
The more likes, the children will become better and better. As a parent, you will also receive continuous filial piety.
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Look at yourself quietly and often feel regret.
Hemingway once said: "Being better than others is not noble. True nobility should be better than yourself in the past."
If you don't have the ability, then you will definitely not be blessed when you are old; if you don't change yourself , but live as an "old stubborn", then you will still be unlucky for the rest of your life.
Those who have betrayed their families should forget about the people they are not meant for and stop contacting them. Use actions to prove your repentance, instead of constantly swearing to God and treating people around you as enemies.
People who don’t make much money should be diligent and thrifty. Don’t expect how much money your children will give you, and don’t expect society to help you. As long as you can still move around, there are ways to make money. It’s not surprising that people in their sixties or seventies still go out to work.
Look at your face, hair, and body, and you will know how to take care of your body. Be less angry, exercise more, and don’t go anywhere to eat or drink.
Make a little progress every day, and you will find that you are moving in the direction of happiness.If you always look at people in higher places, you will become "comparing others with others and irritating others", which will hinder your own happiness. No need to do that.
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Look at others with a smile, the world is beautiful.
I have read an intriguing story: Rich man Hu Xueyan suffered a lot of losses on his way to making money. There was a small ship owner named Lao Zhang who was picky about Hu Xueyan's goods for his own personal gain, causing him to lose some money.
Later, Lao Zhang took refuge with Hu Xueyan. The cashier in the store said "no".
Hu Xueyan took Lao Zhang in and said: "It was he who helped us change the carelessness in shipping. From this perspective, he is our mentor."
There is a saying that goes well, those who hurt you will be punished. He is the one who comes to ferry you.
If others make things difficult for you and make you suffer, it means that you still have "loopholes that can be used to make things difficult." As long as you make serious corrections, you will be grateful to the other person.
No one is perfect, and no gold is pure. If everyone gives you likes, then you will fall into the "realm of hypocrisy" and do yourself no good. Only those who find fault can wake you up.
People who embarrass you can be pleasing to your eyes, so who can be an eyesore to you?
If you look at people with accepting eyes, then everyone in the world will accept you. Accept each other and achieve each other, and the world will be beautiful.
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In fact, a person's eyes are not static, but can change.
British actress Audrey Hepburn When she was very young, she often heard her parents quarreling, and her father ran away from home in anger. Her eyes were full of uneasiness.
When she grew up, she worked hard at acting, but she also experienced several marriages and met a man who betrayed her family. Therefore, there was a little sadness in her eyes.
Later, she actively participated in charity activities to help children in Latin America and Africa. It has improved the height of life and gained recognition from society.
Kevin O'Kern commented on her: "Audrey has angelic qualities. She doesn't want to be superior to others; but the look, energy and light she shows from the inside are hard to look at."
If you Your eyes are terrible, just learn from Audrey. No matter how many hardships you go through, as long as you actively do good deeds and be kind to the world, you can become a bright and energetic person, improve your temperament, and change other people's views of you. , received numerous praises.
Bi Shumin once said: "Time will change a person's vision, just like painted furniture will change color. But the vision of some old friends will not change, like the clearest crystal, crystal clear for a lifetime."
Life is not easy, Let us always be kind, give life a light and give the future a "good look".
Author: Commoner.
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