Although there are more and more good people nowadays, and people are willing to treat others with their kindness, as the saying goes, you should not have the intention to harm others, and you should not be without the intention to be wary of others.
You will never know the face opposite you, what kind of heart is hidden behind you, we will never truly understand a person.
While staying kind, you must also learn to protect yourself, especially in this era of materialism. There are all kinds of people in society. Some people seem to have a good relationship with you, but behind your back may you think about hurting you.
Young people lack life experience and don’t know how to hide their weaknesses. However, after 50 years old, as the saying goes, knowing destiny in fifty, you shouldn’t have any more low-level mistakes at this time.
After being over 50 years old, don’t say something randomly. The less you say, the more blessed you are, the happier your family will be.
1: Your own financial situation
My parents have taught us since childhood that we are "not showing off our money", but many people still disagree and think it's no big deal, especially now that everyone pays on their mobile phones, so there is no need to worry about these things at all.
But money has always been a very sensitive thing and is also a very easy thing to test people's hearts. How many fathers and sons and couples end up fighting each other because of money.
So don’t test a person’s heart. Sometimes it’s not about how a person is. When the reward reaches a certain level, an angel may also become a devil.
And there is an old saying that only a thousand days is a thief, but there is no way to prevent thieves for a thousand days. If you reveal your economic situation, after some dissemination, it is inevitable that someone will peek, but you cannot be prepared every day.
When you relax one day, the other party is likely to take advantage of the situation. At that time, not only will it bring danger to yourself, but it will even bring danger to your family.
Even if it does not attract outsiders' attention, a group of relatives and friends come to you to borrow money. Should you lend it to them or not? It is very likely that you will offend them if you borrow money. If you don't borrow money, you will offend them even more. In the end, you are not a human inside or outside.
2: My job income
Before, there was a friend who was relatively low in education, but he was willing to work hard and make progress, so he lived a good life in the end. When he went home for the New Year, everyone asked him how much money he made, and he told others everything he did.
As a result, some people became jealous. They had no education, but they made so much money. They must have done something shameful outside, and some people even secretly called the police to check him.
Some people came to borrow money, or asked him to help, etc. In short, they made him tireless. Some people who had good relationships before were no longer close to him because they made a lot of money.
Later he learned to be smart. When others asked him how much money he made, he would tell others that he would have 3,000 yuan a month, and his work was very trash. This time, no one remembered him, and many people also liked to play with him, and no one asked him to lend money to help.
Some people may think that living like this is meaningless, but no one comes to disturb you, but instead it is a kind of leisure and happiness, a life that many people cannot get.
These are just better relationships with you. If some people have bad relationships with you, but they don’t show it on the surface. By asking about your background and thinking of ways to harm you, such a villain is hard to guard against.
3: What do you want to do
When I was young, many people always liked to call on friends and always liked to let many people surround me, and liked the feeling of being surrounded by others.
However, as we grow older, many people have discovered that being alone is actually a rare beauty and enjoyment, and only by silent voice can you make a fortune.
Sometimes, don’t let everyone know what you want to do, and you can’t help but spread it everywhere.
It would be fine if you did it in the end. If you didn’t, you might be filled with jokes and comments behind it, and the comments of these people will also interfere with your actions.
Sometimes, just do whatever you want to do quietly. Even if you don’t vomit quickly, you will limit this scope to your own family or your circle of good friends.
We have learned to speak in a month, but we have to spend our whole life learning how to speak, and even how to approve.
Because many times you say too much and expose a lot of things, it is very likely that you will say some privacy things if you are not careful.
When people get along with each other, not everyone is so honest, so when you get close to you, just with ulterior motives.
And some people are particularly good at tricking you into what they want. This is why many people sometimes feel that they feel particularly destined to meet someone suddenly.
Sometimes it is really destined to be a trap set by others, so you must learn to control your mouth and sometimes speak less, which is also the best way to protect yourself.
