It doesn't matter, it's not a great saying, nor is it a profound hit, but its temperature can warm a heart and make people more tolerant and understanding.

2025/07/1118:26:37 article 1600

Everyone in life has times when they mess up. When you blame yourself and worry about others being angry, the other person's words "It's okay!" can often bring great comfort and touch.
doesn't matter. It's not a great saying, nor is it a profound hit, but its temperature can warm a heart and make people more tolerant and understanding.

feels so relieved.

html When I was 36 years old, I went to my grandfather's house to play and took pictures of the camellia buds in his yard, which were used to play with "fried beans". I still remember when I was almost beaten by my mother, my grandfather stopped me with a smile and said: is okay, where is the flower more important than our Xiaolu. I think I have to cry now. I have many nervous memories in my childhood. Fortunately, my grandfather gave me unconditional warmth and protection. (@lu)

and my girlfriend climbed the mountain to watch the sunrise. When I went down the mountain, I felt so bad that I led the wrong road. I walked a long way in vain. I said, "What if this road is not a road down the mountain but a road leading to another mountain?" She said, "Then go down the mountain from another mountain." Later we went down the mountain together, and there was no resentment along the way. We also found an inconspicuous small shop and ate steaming roasted sweet potatoes. (@Nerissa)

When I just graduated, I couldn't write the manuscript well, and I got the title wrong in a panic. When I thought I was going to be criticized as a typical example, the supervisor asked me to relax and said that he made more jokes when he was young, and that he would only have the sophistication and experience he is now. Finally, I patted my shoulder and said, "Come on, boy, come on." Although we didn’t have much interaction in our later work, that encouragement has always been placed in the soft corner of our hearts. (@toast bread)

36-year-old working mother always desires to establish a sense of order in her life, but reality often catches me off guard. After working for a day, I returned home from homework, opened the homework information sent by the teacher, adjusted my status, and sat upright, but I couldn't find my child's homework book. I went to explain the situation to the teacher and got a very gentle reply: Mom Dudu, the situation has been received. Don’t blame yourself. I will tutor my children alone tomorrow for this homework. This understanding and kindness that was like spring breeze made my heart feel like it was melting at that time. (@金)

Both times I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination. I kept explaining that I had tried my best, for fear that my family would feel that the efforts I had given to me in the past two years were not worth it... In those dark days, my mother, who was not good at speaking, shared with me the story of her youth for the first time. She said that she was not satisfied with the exam that year, but this did not affect her having the career she loved. is no big deal. She said that failure is not what I want, and I can still live my next life again. (@card)

Once, my father was on his birthday, and I was holding the cake and suddenly I was tripped, and the cake fell to the ground. I was stunned at that time, thinking that I must have ruined the interests of my elders. Unexpectedly, my father took the lead in laughing with his mother and brother, "hahahaha" and said, "I'm still talking about peace." His handling of this matter made me feel the tolerance and tenderness of my family. In the future, I will have my own small family, so I will do this too. (@未到类)

I have been very nervous since I was a child, and I have been demanding perfection in everything, and I often fall into the whirlpool of "wrong-worrying others to blame others - bottomless pit self-blame". Later, after much experience, when facing problems, I sometimes have my grandma's calmness and relaxation and optimism. No matter what I did wrong, no matter how big a mess I faced, she would say that the road was still long, and that's where I went! To allow yourself to make mistakes, the important thing is not mistakes, but a spiritual leader who is not frustrated. (@Joy Xu)

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That's right, even adults don't understand most things in life. It is not shameful to mess things up occasionally, just as netizens said: I can't do everything at all.

Those moments that make you unhappy and unwilling, if the people around you can understand and accept you, and gently tell you:

doesn't matter, everything can be properly solved;

doesn't matter, you have done a good job, we have seen it;

doesn't matter, you don't have to be careful and trepidated, it's no big deal;

doesn't matter, you can take the wrong path and see the scenery, and if you mess up things, you can start again...

You may be able to draw the power of healing from this kindness, quickly cheer up, and embrace challenges more confidently than before. I hope everyone can get understanding and help when they are at a loss; they can also actively resolve and comfort others when they are embarrassed and become the one who firmly supports others.