Everyone should have experience in moving in Hong Kong, right? Moving is a headache. Not to mention cleaning up, carrying these tasks can’t be done without some strength. If you happen to have just graduated and leave Hong Kong, you are not familiar with the place and have limited financial ability, who can you ask for help?
Let me share the story of my friend Xiao F.
I and Xiao F had already met online before the start of school. Xiao F is in the same class as me, but in different departments. According to common sense, it shouldn't be able to hit you. Even if we hit the face, we don’t know each other because we don’t know what the other person looks like. But people who are destined to be destined to be destined, especially in the city of Hong Kong.
We lined up in front of the library at the same time on the same day, and there were more than a dozen people, and Xiao F happened to be in front of me. The queue was long that day, so we started talking to each other when we were bored. The more I talked, the more familiar I felt. When I asked about my name, both of them said at the same time: "It turned out to be you." Then I talked about Xiao F's current boyfriend is a returnee, and his background income is quite good, and he almost talked about marriage. I expected that I would hear the news that she sent a wedding invitation next time I met.
Who knew that she would contact me again when she graduated, and she told me that she had broken up with the boy. She is also preparing to leave Hong Kong. , love breaking out, graduation, leaving, and it turned out that they could have been caught off guard together.
Sometimes I think that you don’t need to meet many times to be called friends. Xiao F has a kind of power that is very attractive to me and turns decay into magic. Just in the fourth month after Xiao F left Hong Kong, I received her invitation to hold a wedding banquet in the mainland. I wondered, have you just broken up and haven’t settled down in the new city yet? My first reaction was that her old love might have rekindled. It is entirely possible to match the strange environment of the new city.
I attended this wedding banquet (there was no epidemic at that time, so I could go back and forth today), and I also saw the groom crying loudly at the wedding banquet. His face was full of promises for tomorrow and dedication to his other half. It seems to be a world of difference from the previous one Xiao F described before, which was a bit exaggerated. I am sincerely happy for Xiao F. Including this time, this is the second time I met Xiao F. I dare not disturb the busy and beautiful bride. But in my heart, I really want to know how to complete the leap of getting to know each other, dating to getting married in just four months?
I heard that Xiao F is gradually settled in a new city. I think we may never see each other again in our lives. Or, I will never know the answer to this story. Who knew that the magical city and magical fate brought us together again. Five years later, Xiao F actually returned to Hong Kong through the plan to return to Hong Kong by non-local graduates. I haven't seen each other for five years, and I'm very excited. What makes me even more excited is that I finally have the opportunity to solve the answers to the puzzles in my mind back then.
We made an appointment to meet in a restaurant. Seeing that the time began to ripe, I asked Xiao F to tell me the whole story. She also sincerely shared with me the mental journey at that time. "Indeed, before graduation, my previous parents were about to talk about marriage. Our parents also specially set a date and flew to Hong Kong remotely. In fact, the ex-girl's conditions were really good. But when the other party's parents asked me what I had plans after marriage, I said, of course I should start working first. As a result, the other party's parents were very disgusted and said, "My son is a returnee who has such a high income, so let's forget about your salary. When you get married, you will serve your husband at home. When you have a child, take care of the children. When you get married, you are here to serve my son and grandson." When I heard it, I immediately became angry. I am qualified to further my studies. Why is your son called a top student? The others are just a bunch of S?
annual salary of one million? I just don't! want! The tough little F broke up with his ex in this way and said goodbye to the opportunity to be a canary.
Xiao F then moved and handled the matter of leaving Hong Kong. She is a very capable girl and always does whatever she says. But if you move alone, you will definitely not be able to move. If you ask for help, men have an advantage. She also knows that men work for girls to a certain extent and have utilitarian purposes. I once empathized with this point. Once I was forced to move a house within three days, and I bit the bullet and called the only boy I knew. The man pushed him for a long time, but later he was forced to help, but he left the luggage at the subway entrance. Finally, I added: "Next time, don't look for me again." Then, I stayed in place.
So Xiao F, who has a clear mind, publicly looks for a boyfriend online in accordance with the principle of being a wise man and not doing secret things. And it is clear that the purpose of a man’s ticket is to move. also comes with a statement, and this time we will strictly screen carefully according to our future marriage partners. This is so stupid that I almost squatted under the table with a loud bang. "Then, are there many boys coming to apply for the job?" I continued. "More, very much!" Xiao F also opened his eyes wide in surprise. I was almost cramped when I laughed this time. Xiao F continued, "I didn't expect that there are so many boys who are single and want to find a girlfriend! I have to spend time choosing one by one."
" There are some, and my eyes are talking to the ground, I will love you for the rest of my life. I said, this sentence is correct, but try to look at me and say it again." My waist is almost unable to straighten. I completely saw an otaku club appearing in front of me. "In this way, I finally found the current husband. He is simple and can't speak sweet words; his education is higher than mine, and he is serious; his external conditions are also very good. This is how we date with marriage. You know the story of the future."
I think Xiao F takes the initiative to win back the happiness of the present. Her excellent traits actually represent many people who refuse to cling to others and rely on themselves to work silently. There are three sentences to summarize the characteristics of a person: Some people make things to happen. Some watch things to happen. (Some people witness things happening) While others wonder what has happened. (and some people don’t even know what happened)
I think Xiao F must be the first type of person.
(Author of this article: Ale)
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