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"After a relationship between the factory, the boy from Huadu, Guangzhou came to his hometown to find you. Can he find you aunt?"
"He used to come to our hometown before, and knew where my family lives. My mother didn't like this boy at that time. She thought that they were too far away from Huadu in Guangzhou, and hoped that I would marry to my hometown."
"That is to say, when you were together, he came to his hometown. This time, because he couldn't let go of you, aunt, so based on his previous impression, he drove here again?"
"Yes, at that time, I also resigned at my hometown and suddenly wanted to have a job. He couldn't accept marrying this boy from my hometown because in his eyes I was his girlfriend, but we were really a very pure relationship! "
" Then the hometown is not planning a marriage. Is this ex-boyfriend chasing him to his hometown, so there is no conflict? "
" I didn't take him to see the boyfriend's house at that time, but he just took him on the street and invited them to a meal. Think about it, someone came to a rural town in Hunan from such a far away from Guangzhou. It's normal for me to invite someone to a meal! "
" Yes~" Maike can also feel Nina's behavior of treating her to dinner, and the consequences caused were not foreseeable.
"But, everyone knows that my family was very poor at that time. Suddenly marrying such a rich and dazzling man would cause many people to be jealous and destroy~"
"I can understand the great mouths of the old ladies and men at the entrance of the village who are idle and love to eat melon seeds and gossip!"
"Yes!"
Nina took a sip of water, and seeing that Maike also drove to the service area at this time, the two of them were about to get off the car and have a simple rest, go to the bathroom, and eat something.
Maike handed Nina the water and food bought in the service area, "Auntie, why do you still remember so clearly now?"
"Haha..., it's a rest for my life before entering a new journey. Thank you very much for JM. It was you who asked me to look back at the road I took before. To be honest, I may not have the courage to look back alone."
Maike thought for a while and said, "This reminds me of a sentence that France's Roman Rolland said, 'Life is not sold for round-trip tickets. Once you set off, you must never return.'"
"Yes~"
The gentle breeze blows through the roadside of the highway service area poplar trees rustling with the cicadas in summer and autumn. The sun shines through the gaps between the leaves and sprinkles on Nina and Maike. Maike believes that he can absorb so much energy from Nina and walk the future path just like Nina.
In fact, everyone has their own unique life trajectory. There is no need to pursue the passing years, let the wind of love, hate, love and hatred blow.
"Auntie, did they have a conflict later?"
"No, I invited someone to have a meal, and then many statements came to his ears. He was very angry and angry at that time! Think about it, when he was so handsome and rich, how many girls were waiting for such an opportunity?"
"Then, were you separated?"
"It was not separated at that time. He also brought a girl back to his hometown to anger me, just to anger me!"
"Ah?"
"Ah?"
"Something happened between the two sides, causing deeper misunderstandings and affection. Negative emotions, others reposted some of the meanings of each other, and other reasons, which made the relationship between the two parties irreconcilable. "
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" That's the aunt, you chose to leave first?"
" Actually, it was the boy who said he wanted to separate from me, how much money he had to compensate me, and gave me all my things. I know he was in the emotions. In the process of getting along with us, he had already given me a lot of money..."
If there was a negative emotion, he should be expressed in time, but if there was a negative emotion, it would be of no benefit to the relationship between the two people, because both parties could not realize where the problem was, and they could not reason calmly.
"Then, did you end this relationship in a negative mood?"
"At that time, in an irrational state of emotions, especially in the environment of my hometown, people with bad intentions around me would appear at this moment, which would make the originally uncomplexing events disturbed everyone's reputation very bad!"
"Yes, you can imagine that the pressure you faced at that time~"
"And then, I went out to work and went to the factory of your uncle's relatives now. Then a few years ago, because of the support from noble people, the financial work I studied was applied here, and I only worked for two or three months before the New Year. When I went home again during the Chinese New Year, his father, mother, and everyone went to pick me up, but he didn't go~"
"Uh~, it seems he was still angry!"
"The point is that at this time, I heard a voice, a best friend who cheated me. When I was in the most difficult time, I borrowed me a few hundred yuan and I haven't paid back such a best friend until now. At that time, I said a lot of negative words about this boy to stimulate me. At least I did listen to this bad friend's words at that time, and I decided to give up! "
" Ah, why do girls' best friend always persuade me to make a difference but not to make peace? "
" I don't know this, but It's not just because of what my friend said, this is just a fuse. The deeper reason is that I don't think I can control such an excellent man. If he has flowers and plants outside in the future, I can't care about him. In addition, my own family cannot empower this man~"
Maike nodded. Everyone's life will always have a low period and a peak period,
"When I was with him, it can be said that it was his best time. In the future, he married me. If he was at the low point in his life, what do you think he would treat me? Without his parents' family, there is no good support to support him. Going forward, do you think he will cause trouble for me? "
"I don't think it's enough~"
" Then I didn't have the confidence at that time. I think standing in this place, I want to empower this man! I stand in this place, I can support this man! But at that time, I didn't have the confidence. My father passed away too early, and no one in the family could teach me how to assist this successful man, let him get on the right track, and the husband and wife grow together..."
"Yes, this is indeed the case. "
The essence of marriage is actually a cooperation between the two. As long as it is cooperation, there will be a matching problem. If one party flies too fast and the other party flies too slowly, one party will always be kicked out, people will change, and feelings will be too.
Growing together between husband and wife is a very important factor in maintaining harmony between husband and wife. The common growth between husband and wife is actually to cultivate common cognition between the two. Only with common understanding can communication between husband and wife be smooth and ensure that they are in a consistent pace in the direction of life.
What couples fear the most is that one is growing up, while the other is standing still or refusing to grow up. If this continues, one day, because they have no common language, the gap between the couple will become further and further, and eventually become strangers.
"His previous subordinates are very rich in the county towns. They are all rumored to be the richest man in a certain town, even richer than him. As a result, the boys are also walking badly now. At that time, I didn't have the confidence to live and fight with him!"
"Maybe as aunt you said, it's because you don't have the confidence to accompany him, or maybe you can't control him and control this family!"
"Later, after the first month, I returned to the factory.Then the stalls of our factory were expanding. Your uncle was the factory manager there. I was in charge of finance and all the expenses were from him. If we were in love, the boss would feel insecure, so I was transferred to the cash flow at the three stalls. At that time, the cash flow was also very high, and it looked like hundreds of thousands a day..."
"Wow, is my uncle so rich? "
" Just when your uncle started chasing me, I had not completely separated from the underworld boys in my hometown. At that time, there were always many boys who pursued me, including my eldest sister, your mother also introduced me to my boyfriend. Whenever I found a boyfriend in my hometown, the underworld boys in my hometown would cause trouble for others..."
"Haha...haha! Why is he like this? ”
