People say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are enemies, but my mother and I are enemies. Just because we are on the same road, my mother and I often quarrel and have conflicts.
Today, my mother didn’t even know that my son was missing because she was playing mahjong with the neighbors. My son was only over four years old. The police from the police station called me and said that my son was alone at the subway station with no one accompanying him. He was walking around there and couldn't find his way home. He was crying "Mom" all by himself. ". The crying alarmed the passengers waiting for the bus, and someone immediately called the police.
After receiving the call, I quickly asked for leave and went to the police station to take my son home. I thanked passers-by and the police for helping me find my son.
When I got home at night, I asked my mother how her son got lost. My mother said, "It's not like you don't know that your son is so naughty. I ate a lot of ginseng and couldn't stand him. After playing mahjong for a while, he disappeared. Trace, what do you tell me to do? I'm so upset! What do you think I should do if something goes wrong with my old bones? "
My mother lost my son. It seems to be my fault. She He doesn't care about anything except money.
Her daughter-in-law didn't give her a penny, but she took care of her grandson very enthusiastically. I give my mother 3,000 yuan a month, mainly to let her take my son home from kindergarten every day. I will take my son home after get off work, and occasionally work overtime for my mother to take care of him.
I worked overtime today, and she was playing mahjong with the neighbors while taking care of the children. She didn't even know that my son was missing.
My mother and I had a big fight about our son being lost. My mother said that I don’t want your money from now on, and I won’t care about your son either.
My mother and I have been having conflicts for a long time. Ever since I became sensible, my mother has only been nice to my younger brother, while I have to learn to do housework since I was a child. She says that girls will always have to get married and learn to do housework. Be kind to yourself.
After graduating from college, because my boyfriend was from outside the country, he was sent by the company to work outside the country for a period of time after graduation. My mother was very critical, saying that if a Shanghai girl couldn’t find a husband, why would she want to find a foreigner?
When I got married, other mothers were very busy. My mother didn't care about anything. It was me and my little sisters who helped me.
My daughter-in-law gave birth to a son, and my mother wrapped her a very large red envelope. To this day, my mother has not told me how much money was in the red envelope.
But when I gave birth to a son, my mother didn’t express any reaction at all. She even said that the daughter who got married was just thrown away. Sometimes I wonder if she is my biological mother.
My mother and I once had a quarrel. I said that if you treat my son and me like this, do you want me to take care of you in the future? My mother said that I have a son, wife and grandchildren, and I am worried that no one will take care of me?
My mother loves to play mahjong. After she retired, whenever a neighbor called her and said, "Three are short of one," she would immediately take my son to play mahjong. Sometimes I order takeout for my son to eat without cooking.
Sometimes when I get home at night, I say to my mother: "My son is still so young. It's not healthy for you to eat takeaways all the time. I will make some wontons and put them at home, and you can cook them for my son to eat. This will also be a healthy meal." A little bit."
My mother said: "Can you blame me? I told you to marry closer. You have to marry a husband from out of town. Now I can't handle it alone. I'm an old man. I want to help you take care of your children, but you still say that I am not good at this and that is not the case. If you have the ability, you can take care of your children yourself and don’t bother me.”
Mothers never say a word when raising their grandchildren. Even so, the daughter-in-law should often say that she did not take care of her children well. . Sometimes her daughter-in-law says she didn't take care of her children well. She is like a student who has done something wrong and meets the teacher, with no temper at all.
I usually ask my mother to take care of my son just because I am too busy working overtime. I didn’t expect that I almost lost my son today. What if I encounter a bad person?
I really can’t understand why my mother did this to me. Today I called my husband to talk about my mother, and he advised me not to quarrel with my mother.It's not easy for her to say
. Your father left early and it's not easy to raise you two children by yourself. If you are unhappy, tell me and don't quarrel with your mother. If it doesn't work, we will hire someone to take care of you. Son, I think I can come to Shanghai to work next year, so you can be more relaxed.
After listening to my husband’s words, I feel a lot better. Sometimes I think about my mother’s difficulty. I will buy some gifts tomorrow and take my son to see my mother. After all, all mothers in the world love their children.
