Story: "My mother is hospitalized and needs 120,000 yuan." Husband: Your mother said yesterday that she had 120,000 yuan less than buying a car, so she asked me to borrow
Li Fei and Zhang Li are college classmates. They have a good relationship and have never experienced any conflicts. They entered the marriage hall. Li Fei has always believed that there is no concealment between him and his wife, and thinks that the relationship between the two is very strong.
On this day, Li Fei was working in the company. Suddenly his colleague said that someone came to him outside and said it was Li Fei's mother-in-law. Li Fei felt that his mother-in-law must have something important to him, otherwise he would not have come to the company directly.
So Li Fei went to see his mother-in-law with a nervous mood. After seeing his mother-in-law, Li Fei anxiously asked his mother-in-law what was wrong, but he didn't expect that his mother-in-law would speak hesitantly.
Li Fei felt bad at that time. The matter must be very big. He was wondering if his father-in-law was sick. When he thought of this, Li Fei became even more panicked, so he was so anxious that he asked his mother-in-law what happened.
At this time, the mother-in-law hesitated for a while and said, "It's not a big deal, don't worry, I came to you because of a small matter, but I don't know if you are willing to agree to me."
Li Fei then said to his mother-in-law: You are almost in a hurry, tell me quickly. No matter what the matter is, I have to say it out before I can know if I can agree.
Mother-in-law said: Actually, I wanted to borrow some money from you, but I felt embarrassed to speak, so I couldn't say it. When Li Fei heard this, he was relieved. At least it was not that my father-in-law was sick, but that my mother-in-law wanted to borrow some money.
So Li Fei asked his mother-in-law: How much do you want to borrow? What is it used for? When my mother-in-law heard Li Fei's words, she said happily: It's not much, it's not a big deal for you. I just want to borrow 120,000 yuan and give it to you immediately when I have money.
Li Fei was shocked when he heard this number, so he hesitantly asked his mother-in-law: What do you want to use for when you borrow so much money at once?
Mother-in-law said as expected: I just feel that it is inconvenient to go out now and want to buy a car, but now I am still 120,000 yuan short of buying a car. I took out all my savings, but it is not enough, so I was very helpless and wanted to ask you to borrow it.
Li Fei was helpless when he heard this: he didn't understand what kind of car was so expensive. Besides, it was just a means of transportation. My father-in-law and mother-in-law were old and there was no need to buy such a good car. Besides, the mother-in-law and father-in-law now live all on pensions. If he borrowed 120,000 from him at once, I don't know when I will pay back the money.
So Li Fei hesitated and said to his mother-in-law: The amount of money is too large. Please let me think about it again. After hearing this, the mother-in-law left unhappily.
When Li Fei returned home, he didn't know how to tell his wife about this. What if his wife insisted on lending it to her mother-in-law, because this money is indeed not a small amount, and it is not something that can be earned in just a few months.
So Li Fei didn't mention this matter with his wife, until noon on the second day when he was having dinner with his wife, Zhang Li suddenly said to Li Fei with a serious face: Husband, I have something to discuss with you. Li Fei patiently asked his wife what happened, why is it so serious? If you have something, just say, we are both old husband and wife, so I'm embarrassed to tell me.
Then Zhang Li said to Li Fei: Then if I say it, you must promise to help our family, right? Li Fei said, no matter what the matter is, you have to say it out. I will help you according to what I have to do. Besides, your parents’ affairs are also my family’s affairs, so just don’t worry. I will definitely do my best to help. There is no need to hesitate with me.
Zhang Li said after hearing this: My mother was sick and hospitalized, and she needed 120,000 yuan...
When she heard Zhang Li's words, Li Fei's first reaction was that yesterday, my mother-in-law came to me to borrow money. How could she be hospitalized today? So Li Fei instantly understood that his wife was lying to him. His mother-in-law was not hospitalized at all, and it was an excuse to say that she wanted 120,000 yuan.
is just to buy a car for mother-in-law. At that time, Li Fei was quite disappointed with Zhang Li, feeling that the two of them should not deceive each other for so many years.
But this incident proves that Zhang Li did not choose to believe Li Fei, but deceived her husband and said that her mother-in-law was hospitalized, so Li Fei said disappointedly: Your mother said yesterday that she had 120,000 yuan in purchase of a car, so she asked me to borrow money.
When Zhang Li heard what Li Fei said, his face turned pale in an instant, and then he explained to Li Fei anxiously: I didn’t lie to you on purpose. I feel afraid that the money is too much, and you won’t lend it to my mother, so he thought of this method. Can you forgive me and never lie to you again in the future.
When Li Fei heard his wife's words, he did not feel relieved. Instead, he felt that his wife was perfunctory. Then he said to Zhang Li: It is correct for you to have concerns. I really won't lend this money to your mother, because your parents don't make money now and live on their pensions. When will they come to repay it?
Zhang Li said angrily when she heard Li Fei's words: You actually think so, that's my mother. She just wants to buy a transportation tool, but she doesn't want to take the bus every day. You are actually considering whether you can pay it back. You are so petty.
Then Li Fei sneered and said: Is it for me that I am petty? It’s not for this family. Your parents can’t afford to pay back the money. How many years will it take for us to earn this money? You don’t consider our situation at all, just want to lend your parents 120,000. Have you ever considered how difficult it is for us?
But Zhang Li said unreasonably: I don’t care. You have to lend this money to my mother? Otherwise, we won’t live this life.
Hearing this, Li Fei was completely disappointed with his wife, so he filed for divorce directly and quickly completed the divorce procedures. The two quarreled over borrowing money and went to the point of divorce. Others thought it was a small matter, but those in it felt that this was a deception and could see character from small matters. Li Fei must have been completely disappointed with his wife.
