"His father, my baby called me today and asked me to help take care of my grandson, and help them cook and do some housework. What do you think about this?" Sister Tie pounded Brother Tie with her elbow and was tampering with her mobile phone.
"What else can I do? We only have this kid. It's a good thing for the kid to need our help, which means we still have value, so just go!" Brother Tie replied without raising his nose.
"You old man, I didn't say I couldn't go. I was just worried that you would do it if I left? You have to serve such a large group of sheep alone, and there is not even a person who can do laundry and cook for you. I am afraid that you will not cook well at home alone and will ruin your body." Sister Tie responded to Brother Tie's words.
"Look at you, worry about a hammer? I'm not a three or two year old. I don't know how to cook by myself when I'm hungry. Isn't there a washing machine if my clothes are dirty? You can go with peace of mind! Take the bank card with me when I left, which contains tens of thousands of dollars I just sold sheep. The secret code is our son's birthday. If you go buy vegetables, don't ask them for money. It's not easy for them. They have to pay for houses and cars. The pressure is huge. Ah! "
" Well, I know, am I the kind of nanny who is the kind of salary-saving people say now? "
" Look at what you said? What is the overpaying? We are just this precious son. After we die in the future, everything will be hiss!"
"Yes, anyway, it's hiss in the future, so why not let him read while he is alive?" Tie Sao also agreed with Brother Tie's opinion.
Soon, within two days, my son's car picked up Tie Sao.
On the road, the son repeatedly explained to Tie Sao Tie Sao's life and eating habits, making Tie Sao a little more comfortable. He also said that this city is not as good as the countryside, and some of Tie Sao's living habits need to be changed, especially in terms of hygiene! In order to avoid rifts between him and his wife.
Tie Sao agreed to her son's explanation, and her grandson and daughter-in-law must have been taken care of by over 100 people! Make some concessions by yourself and sacrifice is what you deserve.
To be honest, this is the first time Tie Sao has come to her home since her son’s new house was renovated!
When my son got married, was he still rented a house? In order for his son to have his own happy nest, Tie Sao and Tie Brother gave their life savings - 400,000 yuan, a lot of money. Just this son needs to pay a mortgage of several thousand yuan every month! With the car loan, it seems that life in this city is not easy!
The daughter-in-law showed great enthusiasm for the arrival of Tie Sao, and mom was shouting at each other, making Tie Sao's heart sweet as if it was honey.
So, at my son's house, Tie Sao was very quick and clean. The food was made in a different way at home.
Not long after, my grandson grew a few pounds of meat on his body, and he stuck to Tie Sao's butt all day long, becoming Tie Sao's little follower. Sometimes, Tie Sao is thinking that this is probably the happiest day in life!
There is only one thing that Tie Sao is a little depressed, but she is embarrassed to say it, that is, since Tie Sao has been here for more than half a year, the tea, rice, oil, salt, vegetables, fruits, gas, and electricity bills at home were all paid by Tie Sao. But the son and daughter-in-law seemed to have forgotten this and never mentioned these trivial matters in life.
Although Tie Sao was mentally prepared when she came, it is one thing to give her living expenses or not, and whether to give her living expenses is another thing, this is a question of attitude.
So Tie Sao took the opportunity to mention a mouth to her son. The son's answer surprised Tie Sao, "Mom, you won't have money, right? In recent years, you and my father have earned about 100,000 yuan a year. I have been buying a house for four or five years. You and my father should have saved hundreds of thousands of dollars in their hands. Why do you still ask me for this little money? My mortgage loan is under a lot of pressure, so please help me again?"
My son's words made sense, and he does have a few dollars in his hands, so don't force the child.
Thinking of the mortgage, Tie Sao's heart skipped a beat. Everyone said that the interest rate of the mortgage is so high. She couldn't afford the interest rate even if she deposited the money in her hand in the bank. It would be better to withdraw the money and pay the mortgage for her son, which can be regarded as sharing some pressure for her child.
is just a matter of what happened, making Tie Sao feel like a thorn in her throat. She wondered if she should vomit this for Brother Tie, or if she should pretend not to hear anything.
That day, when Tie Sao passed by her son's room, she accidentally heard a conversation between her son and daughter-in-law. The son meant that he had been taking care of the children by himself for more than half a year, and he had been paying out of his own pocket to supplement the household expenses. Can you give Tie Sao 3,000 yuan a month in the future?
The daughter-in-law refused her son's proposal very simply, without any room for ease, "What did you say? Give her living expenses? Whose child he brought with him is the surname of? Isn't it the kind of your old Tie family? It's natural to bring your own grandson. Besides, you don't know our pressure. Although our salary is about 30,000 yuan, except for mortgage loans, car loans, and pension money for my parents every month, I wonder how many children are left in your pocket?
"You are so embarrassed to say that you give your parents three thousand pension money every month. Your parents are parents, so my parents are nothing right? "The son was so angry that his voice was dozens of decibels higher.
"What are you yelling about? You don’t know that my dad has been providing for me to study since he was a child. When I graduated from college, how much effort did they put in? I'm old, shouldn't I give them some living expenses? "The daughter-in-law fought back hard.
"I didn't say it shouldn't be, but the parents of both sides wanted to give it equal. I am also the college that my parents' hard-earned money paid. How much hardship did they suffer for me and how much sin did they suffer? Do you know? Besides, when we bought a house, the two elders took out all their coffins. "The son argued with reason about this matter, but the voice was much smaller than the one I had just heard, as if he was gritting his teeth and squeezed out these words.
"You still have the face to mention the house. Do I live in the house alone? Isn’t it what they should do to be an old man for their sons and grandsons? In short, don’t mention this matter in the future. She will take care of this child if she wants to, but she will not take care of her. If you secretly give your living expenses, we will have no way to live this life, so you can do it yourself! "I turned off the lights and went to bed!
There are many things, and if I don't know, there will be no barriers. Once I know, my mind will break apart, and it will be difficult for the family to twist in one direction.
Tie Sao is puzzled by all parents, why is the gap so big? The savings in Tie Sao's hand are more like a A hot potato, I gave it to my son, who will rely on to support me in the future? If I don’t give it to me, I feel uncomfortable when I see my son under pressure?
(The article is a bit too long. I didn’t write an ending today. I want all readers to give my own answers. What do you think about this single-phase retirement? If you are the sister-in-law in the article, would you be willing to use your pension money to repay your mortgage to your son? Welcome to discuss, criticize, and correct me!)
