article: Xiaoxin
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This is a very sad story.
My name is Wang Qingqing.
Three years ago, I met Li Yang from the same county town through an introduction. The two felt that the conditions were the same and the age was appropriate, so they started dating.
Li Yang's family is quite complicated. His parents are divorced. He also has a 5-year-old sister. Both of them live with his mother.
Because his father cheated, he was the party at fault. Li Yang's mother tried her best to get custody of his two children, so his father left the house with nothing.
At that time, it was agreed to give at least 2,000 yuan in child support per month, but after his father divorced, he soon married the woman outside and moved out of this small county town, and basically no one was found.
child support has never been given on time, and it is not enough to transfer it once occasionally.
Li Yang has been working in a factory at a relative's house in Shenzhen. His mother wants to take care of her sister, so she can only earn a little money by doing odd jobs in the county town. Li Yang's burden is relatively heavy.
has no advantages in other aspects except that Li Yang himself has similar conditions.
At that time, my parents were worried that I would be under great pressure in the future, so they advised me to think carefully.
I didn't think too much about it. I just felt that I was close to my parents and had a good impression of Li Yang. Although I had concerns in my heart, I still got along with Li Yang.
Since Li Yang works in Shenzhen, we cannot meet frequently. After chatting on WeChat for more than half a year, we put the talk of marriage on the agenda.
After marriage, I went to Shenzhen with him. I thought I could live a peaceful life like this, but I didn’t expect that the cruel tests in life came one by one.
02
Li Yang and I were newly married, and there was no major conflict. It was found out that we were pregnant within a few months.
But before we could experience the joy of being a parent, we received a call from Li Yang's mother and asked us to go back quickly. After
arrived home, we were greeted by my mother-in-law with red and swollen eyes and a diagnosis of cervical cancer .
It turned out that my mother-in-law gave birth to a daughter at an age. She found that her uterus had a tumor during a caesarean section. After the test, she said it was benign, so everyone felt relieved.
But in recent years, my father-in-law has experienced the accidents and blows of divorce, my mother-in-law's psychological depression and poor emotions, which has triggered cancer.
Li Yang sat next to her mother-in-law with a heavy expression, but my heart was mixed and I began to think about how to live in the future.
even thought about whether life can be lived?
After all, with such a big disease, it is impossible for us families who are already at the bottom of the class to afford it.
What's more, I still have a life that is about to be born in my stomach, and Li Yang also has a young sister.
My mother-in-law's illness is in the middle stage. The doctor said that after the operation, after a few more chemotherapy, there is hope for recovery, so that we don't feel too much psychological pressure.
surgery and chemotherapy costs were collected by Li Yang who had not slept for several days and nights and borrowed all his relatives and friends.
was still tens of thousands short of them in the end. It was my parents and I who spoke to us that we barely managed to get through this level.
Looking at my growing belly, my mother sighed and said, "How can you live your life in the future?"
Actually, my mother doesn’t need to say that. The anxiety in my heart has long made me feel restless when I eat and sleep. Even after I knew that my mother-in-law had cancer, she had the idea of aborting the child.
is Li Yang said, this is our first child and must be kept.
He also said, I know our family has dragged you down and I have suffered with me. If you relax and take good care of yourself, I will work hard to make money and support this family.
I feel sorry for Li Yang, but in the face of this cruel reality, I feel unbalanced. This imbalance of
also laid a huge hidden danger for the ending of Li Yang and me.
03
After my mother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer, she revealed to me and Li Yang that she wanted to give Li Yang sister to someone.
She knew that she would not be able to raise her in the future and did not want to drag Li Yang down.
The most important thing is that she is afraid that I will have an objection and that we will not be able to live our lives in the future.
was also because there was a distant relative with very good conditions at that time, and had no children for many years, so he was willing to take Li Yang's sister over and raise him as his own child.
Li Yang expressed his opinion at that time that he would not give his sister to others. He had no father anymore. If he gave his sister to others, this family would be even more like a home.
But I was moved.
I tried to convince Li Yang that instead of letting my sister suffer with us, it is better to find a good family to adopt her. A good family environment will be more beneficial to her future growth.
Now the family owes huge extra debts, and my mother-in-law's illness still needs continuous treatment. I am a pregnant woman with a big belly and needs money everywhere, time and energy to take care of her. Li Yang alone can't hold on.
My words did not convince Li Yang.
After my mother-in-law's condition stabilized, she left me alone to Shenzhen and said that she would come back when I was about to give birth. She asked me to take good care of myself and help my mother-in-law and sister.
His monthly salary is used to pay off his debts and buy medicine for my mother-in-law.
I face my sick mother-in-law every day, and a ignorant child. In addition, I have a serious shortage of money. The already unstable mood during pregnancy is even more anxious and my resentment is getting heavier.
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The depression in my heart had nowhere to vent, so I started to make trouble for Li Yang, quarreled with him, got angry, and said some very unpleasant words.
Li Yang probably felt that I didn't let me live a good life and was about to give birth. He was tolerant of my unreasonable attitude towards me and never had a head-on conflict with me.
But he made me feel like I hit the cotton with one punch, and I couldn't get an effective response. I became even more violent and said without any restraint that he was incompetent and said that his family was incapable of being incompetent.
This state continues until I give birth to a daughter, and I even borrowed the cost of hospitalization from my mother.
html During the 3rd month of the year, Li Yang and I had a fierce quarrel.
Because of my negligence, Li Yang's 6-year-old sister cut my daughter's nose out of blood.
After hearing my daughter's strange cry, I ran back to the room from the bathroom. Li Yang's sister's hand had not left her daughter's face.
The moment I saw the blood, I slapped her without saying a word. The slap fell on her face and suddenly became red and swollen.
The mother-in-law and Li Yang who heard the sound protected their sister when they saw this scene. The mother-in-law showed unhappiness, but she didn't say anything.
Li Yang pointed at me and cursed, "You are crazy, why are you doing so hard?"
I was also angry and slapped him in the hand pointing at me. I was crazy and was forced by your family. You say, what kind of life do I live every day after I marry you?
At this moment, all the grievances erupted. I cried loudly despite my illness during the confinement period.
That night, my mother-in-law called Li Yang to her bedroom with red eyes. I pretended to be passing by in the bathroom, and put my ear on the door and listened to a few words.
Mother-in-law choked and said, "I thought about it and I'd better give your sister to someone." My health has not been very good recently. Your wife just gave birth, so I couldn't help much, and there was another girl who followed her to make trouble."
The family has good conditions and no children. They will be nice to your sister. They will definitely enjoy more happiness in our family.
As soon as Li Yang called out to mom, I pushed the door and rushed in front of Li Yang, saying, "I agree."
05
Before Li Yang could refute, I said again that giving my sister to someone is for the sake of her sister's good and for our family's good.
As for the current situation of our family and our mother, you can consider it yourself, what is the most beneficial?
Li Yang almost glared at me and said, no matter how difficult life is, he cannot selfishly want his sister. As long as I am still alive, my family will have her to eat.
I was just about to get angry at Li Yang when Li Yang's sister cried outside the door, and she heard what we said.
She cried and said, I will never cause trouble for you again, don’t want me.
The mother-in-law turned her face aside and cried until her shoulders trembled.
crying and saying, "It's all useless, I deserve to die."
I returned to the room and wanted to cover my head and cry.
Three old and young women each cried their own miserable life that was helpless.
06
Before I could finish my confinement, Li Yang returned to Shenzhen to work. The family was so expensive, and every penny he earned was life-saving money.
After his sister's affairs, he always felt that I was cruel and selfish, and just thought about myself. His attitude towards me became much colder, and our relationship became apparently worsened.
Occasionally talks on the phone and will quarrel for various reasons.
My mother-in-law not only saw it, but also remembered it in her heart.
Then, she did something that everyone unexpectedly did.
That day I came back from my mother's house and found that my mother-in-law was the only one in the house. I thought Li Yang's sister was out for fun, so I didn't care too much.
At around 8 o'clock in the evening, Li Yang suddenly called me and asked where my mother-in-law was?
I said my mother-in-law has gone into the house to sleep.
Li Yang forwarded a message to me, and it was sent to him by my mother-in-law.
The general idea is that she arranged Li Yang’s sister, and she didn’t have to worry about it in the future, so she let Li Yang live a good life with me.
Li Yang anxiously asked me to go to my mother-in-law's house to take a look, and I remembered that Li Yang's sister had never come back.
Fortunately, the door handle in my mother-in-law's house had already shown signs of loosening. I called my mother-in-law outside a few times, but after getting no response, I directly knocked open the door.
I saw my mother-in-law lying on the bed with tears in her eyes, with an empty bottle on the head of the bed.
When she saw me coming in, she said weakly, "Don't save me, I'm a damn person long ago. If you live a good life with Li Yang in the future, I will have no regrets."
I realized that my mother-in-law took sleeping pills.
The mother-in-law, who was already weak, was sent to the hospital for stomach washing. After a while, she stayed in the hospital for another half a month.
Li Yang's sister was sent to the distant relative's house by her. After Li Yang, who rushed back from Shenzhen, learned the truth, he wanted to find her sister, but was stopped by his mother-in-law.
Mother-in-law said, Qingqing is right, in our current situation, giving your sister to someone is the best choice. Don't look for it, it's good everywhere.
I know that when my mother-in-law said this, her heart hurts more than anyone else.
I felt guilty again and again, feeling sorry for Li Yang's sister.
can live, it is really difficult.
07
Li Yang did not go to find his sister, but I could see that he felt bitter.
Because the child is young and because my mother-in-law needs someone to take care of her, Li Yang and I have been in different places.
After my sister was sent away, I thought life would return to peace.
But a few months later, when Li Yang came back again, my marriage disappeared.
He brought back a woman.
I held the child in the living room, waiting for him to introduce me to who the woman was.
Li Yang sat opposite me, the expression on my face made me unable to see through, there was sadness, pain, and something else.
He said, this is the woman I looked for outside, let’s get a divorce.
To be honest, since my mother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer and was struggling, I have thought about divorce more than once.
But I know Li Yang is a good man and he is worth my endurance.
But now, he left no room for me to tell me that he had an extramarital affair and he said he would divorce me.
My heart was cramped, tears gushed out, tears blurred my gaze, but I still stared at him and asked, why?
He rubbed his hands and whispered, "I know you dislike my family. I have had enough of you, and I will only quarrel with me, and I don't know how to understand me at all."
I thought my mother-in-law would say something for me, but she just sat in the corner, crying drop by drop.
08
I listened to Li Yang's accusation against me, wiped away tears on my face, and went back to my room to pack my luggage.
called my mother again and asked her and my dad to pick me up.
When my mother arrived, she asked Li Yang what happened and slapped him twice when she went up. You are a heartless thing. My daughter is suffering and exhausted with you, but in the end she is divorced by you.
Before leaving, I told Li Yang that the divorce agreement has been written and I will sign it.
When my mother took me out, her mother-in-law burst into tears in her room.
And I, after leaving their door, almost collapsed to the ground, trembling all over.
After we left, my dad came out for a long time. I thought he was trying to vent my anger, but I didn't notice the heavyness on his face.
09
I have been sticking to my hard marriage for two years. It seems that I am divorced very easily, without any tearing or disputes, the child belongs to me, and there is no property to be divided.
But Li Yang still left me 20,000 yuan and told me that I would give child support monthly.
The pain caused by divorce is fatal, and I recovered for a long and difficult time.
Later, I heard that Li Yang took his sister back and took his mother-in-law to Shenzhen.
Later, my mother helped me take care of the children. I had my own job and met my current husband.
On the eve of my current husband's marriage, my dad told me a secret.
That day at Li Yang's house, my dad wanted to wait for me to go out and beat Li Yang up. Before he could do anything, Li Yang knelt down for him first.
It turns out that cheating is just a lie made up by Li Yang, to force me to divorce.
He thought about it for a long time. In the past, he only thought that I was selfish and wanted to send his sister away, but from my perspective, I was the one who endured the most.
Knowing that the days ahead will be difficult, he couldn't drag me selfishly, so he decided to let go.
He told my dad, I can’t take good care of her, I’ll return her to you, please forgive me.
My dad said that kid is a little responsible.
I finally understood why my mother-in-law didn't say a word for me at that time, and didn't try to keep me.
They have agreed to give me freedom.
I cried again and sent a message to Li Yang: Are you okay?
He replied: OK.
Is mother-in-law okay?
He replied: OK.
Is my sister OK?
He replied: OK.
I know that he cannot be good, he will always have a heavy burden on him.
I also know that as long as he shoulders his responsibilities and moves forward, his heart will be at peace.
I believe that suffering will eventually pass, and Li Yang will eventually get his happiness.
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