Someone has put forward this view: ordinary people have a small disaster every five years and a big disaster every ten years.
Life consists of several decades. Those with better luck can live for ten years and end at a hundred years. This is a person with great blessing. And those who were less lucky left before they were fifty or sixty years old.
The number "ten" is not solely a "level" that indicates "perfection".
20 to 30 is a level, 30 to 40 is a level, and 40 to 50 is also a level. The end of the old level and the beginning of the new level are all related to the number "ten".
, however, there are small levels before the big level. And "Five" is precisely the embodiment of the small levels.
Take the ten years we are familiar with from the age of 45 to 55. From the age of 45, people's energy has become poor and they have begun to decline. 50 is a big sign. When we reach the age of 55, everyone thinks that the test of life is over. Who knows that this is just a little hardship before his later years.
You will finally understand that after a person is fifty-five, trouble comes to your door. If you can't avoid these points, your old age will be worse.
1. The relationship between making money and saving lives must be handled well.
Is money important or life important?
In the eyes of rich people, life is definitely more important. Without a long life, you may not even be able to enjoy a good life. Of course, the view of the moneyless person is exactly the opposite.
Since ordinary people don’t have much money, even satisfying three meals a day is a problem, so they will fight to make money without caring about their health at all. This way of being a person will not last long.
To put it bluntly, no matter how hardworking a cow is, he will be tired and lying on the ground. Money is endless. There is no end to the official. Only lifespan is limited.
I have met some rich people who are trying hard to make money. Who knows the end of "Man is in heaven, money is in the bank" . Ordinary people leave because of excessive hard work, leaving only their relatives miserable and miserable.
So, no matter when, you must balance the relationship between money and life. If the balance is really not good, let’s focus on “life” first. At least, if you are healthy, you will save a lot of money.
2. Never lose your temper with your loved ones.
Someone has investigated that people who like to be angry are actually not young people, but middle-aged people.
Middle-aged people are under great pressure, their lives are relatively hurrying, and their lives are more painful, so they will have a particularly strong temper and their hearts will be particularly irritable, as if they are like the "powder barrel" that is about to break out.
For this, we might as well think about a question: Will middle-aged people vent their temper on outsiders or on their families?
Most middle-aged people dare not offend outsiders, so they can only vent their anger on the people around them. Because they know that their families will forgive them, they will become unscrupulous.
This kind of practice of venting anger at relatives is "retribution". In middle age, you hurt your loved ones. When you reach old age, they will come to hurt you. This is "repay for one return."
Even if we don’t think about it for our later years, we should think carefully about our current life. Stay in harmony with your family and lose your temper. Maybe our lives will be smoother and our mentality will be better.
3. Try to reduce desires and calm your mind.
In recent years, there has been such a lifestyle that is popular on the Internet, that is, the "leave the left" lifestyle.
The so-called "resignation and separation" is explained literally, which means to eliminate unnecessary distractions, give up people who have nothing to do with you, and stay away from things that have nothing to do with you.
And its core is actually "low desire". people, once they have low desires and no longer have high requirements for life and do not care about anything, they will naturally clear their worries and achieve "quit their worries".
Middle-aged people who are fifty-five years old need to have this concept of "low desire". Don’t worry about the so-called money, fame, fortune, status and position, it’s meaningless.
No matter how rich you are, you may not be able to take it away. No matter how strong you have status, there will always be the day when you retire and the moment you leave. money, just enough. If you have a status, just don’t have much.
In our daily life, we should eat well, sleep well, and spend every day casually. That's right.
4. Don’t go to extremes, take the middle path.
The older a person is, the worse the temper he has, and the easier it is for people to go to extremes.
When you see a child not listening to you, you feel that it is useless to raise him and impose your own ideas on him. You also told him that if you don’t do this, you are an unfilial son.
You see others earning millions, but you only earn hundreds of thousands, so you feel that life is meaningless and think life is negative. Finally, even if you have no worries about food and clothing, you will be in great pain. The key reason why
is that people are "going to extremes".
What children do, just let them do, as long as they don’t make mistakes; how much money others make is someone else’s business, as long as we live well, it is enough. Why go to extremes?
The most wisest attitude towards life in middle and late years should be semi-smart and half-confused. Don’t worry, let it go, use the best, and be content with the situation. This is the right way.
text/Shushan Youlu
