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Xiaofan came to see the doctor alone. According to her, she is 20 years old and has suffered from severe depression for 3 years. She has been treated intermittently and her mood has been unstable.
After chatting for a few words, Xiaofan took out his mobile phone and handed it to the doctor and said, "Doctor, can you call my mother? Tell her about my condition."
Xiaofan said, morning Two years ago, I told my parents that I had depression, but my parents ignored me and avoided the fact that I was sick. They even said bluntly: "You must be sick!"
"I don't want to be with them now. I think it's meaningless, they don't understand me, and whatever they communicate with me is not what I want to hear..." Xiaofan's voice became quieter as he spoke, and he even began to sob silently.
Case analysis:
Li Zheng, deputy chief physician of Zhengzhou Eighth People's Hospital, said that many children will actually send some distress signals to their parents in the early stages of the disease. If the family does not pay attention to this matter at this time, Ignoring this signal, or even thinking that the child is "moaning for nothing" may lead the child to think that his family does not accept him, and he may not even dare to ask his family for money for medical treatment. Then the child will think of other ways to solve his "unspeakable secrets."
Some children will cut down on their food expenses and skip meals or drinks to save money for medical treatment.
Li Zheng said that he often encounters many teenage patients in outpatient clinics. Before his family brought him to the outpatient clinic, he had already sought help from a psychologist or professional doctor. He had seen several consultations, and his parents gradually became involved later. .
If parents can bring their children to see a doctor in time and give them support in the early stages, perhaps the child's condition will improve faster.
Family support is very important for children. If parents provide effective support to their children, provide effective guidance and communication with their children verbally, and seek help from professionals in a timely manner, many subsequent problems will not arise.
On the contrary, if the child immediately sends a distress signal to his family and asks his parents to take him to see a psychiatrist, and the parents show an attitude of rejection or even resistance, or even say some unpleasant words, it will It causes great psychological harm to children. A child's first instinct is to think that their parents don't value them and don't like them.
Li Zheng said that many children are unwilling to tell their parents when their condition becomes very serious, and even develop serious resistance to their parents. "In this case, we first recommend that parents come to to accompany . First, because parents have direct custody. Second, we attach great importance to the child's family atmosphere. A good atmosphere can establish a good relationship between family members. Cultivate children with a normal mentality. "
Li Zheng said frankly that after a child becomes ill, a good family atmosphere can also play a very important role, and even to a certain extent, it can have the same effect as medicine.
