Many children were excellent when they were young. If they continued to develop normally, they could become good students who were excellent in almost all aspects. But at a certain age, I started to stop moving, my studies were severely declined, and I was even infected with some bad habits in society. After equal communication, they found out that they had a control parent who could only give instructions, speak realistically, dissatisfied, and be full of energy. However, the other half of such parents is cowardly and incompetent, and can only endure silently and do nothing.
So in such a family, it is wrong to do well, and even more wrong to do poorly. Working hard is always considered to be not working hard enough. You must be stared at everything you do, and you will be criticized while denied while not teaching the correct method. It seems that many things must be born.
For a long time, being powerful has become a terrifying thing. The inferiority and insecurity given by the family were like an inexplicable deterrence, forcing them to go outside to find care.
Some people are lucky, and their efforts are rewarded, but they are also looked down upon by friends and don’t care; some people are unlucky, meet bad guys, and are deceived to do all kinds of bad things; some people are sometimes good and sometimes bad, struggling in the quagmire of pleasing and inferiority, looking for the key to unlock their heart lock.
So, are you really powerless in the face of powerful phobia?
In fact, there are at least several aspects that can help you clarify your ideas and face it again.
1. Don’t care about your relatives and friends who are malicious about your strength.
They are inferior and incompetent, so they control everything and are selfish, wanting everyone to revolve around themselves. Stop moving forward in order to such relatives and friends, in fact, is sacrificing their own life to make malicious concessions, which is itself indulging in malice! This is not what a good person like you should do!
2. believe that you deserve to be so powerful.
's own strength is achieved through one's own efforts, and the help of others is minimal. Everyone has the ability to win many beautiful people and things through hard work, win greater wealth, and achieve themselves.
This is a vision that everyone can pursue. No one will be sorry for anyone who is strong.
If there is really, it must be that the strength of good people will compress the space for evil people to act. As a good person, you are doing good things when you become strong.
3. Don’t think that you are strong will cause a great impact or harm to people or things.
You should know that there are many people in this world who are stronger than you. Even if you reach the strongest look in your ideal, you still need to know how to be humble.
After all, the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, the more people you can help, and the boundaries of goodness can be endless, let alone you have not reached the strength of your ideal yet?
4. It is common for everyone to understand how to pursue strength, but everyone's way of expressing it is different.
Some people will hide their strength and show their ordinary side; some people will show their strength all the time; some people will be strong but still humble, and will discover and learn from the strength of the people around them all the time.
Everyone is pursuing strength in different ways and methods, but their expressions are different.
Therefore, you should also realize that it is no big deal to pursue strength by yourself, and you don’t need to feel guilty. If so, then you should realize that something is wrong in your environment.
Such a powerful person, you either adapt to the environment, change yourself, or even change the environment; or rely on your own efforts to enter a positive environment that is improving every day and become a part of it.
If none of the above points touch you, you are just procrastinating, without a plan, and giving up halfway, then you may think about whether you are procrastinating.
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