[Patient letter]: It has been more than a year, and it feels like we have no sexual interest between us and our lives have no interest. He is always anxious and depressed. The more he does this, the worse it will be. Then he is always worried that someone outside me will have depression ?
01
If the couple has a bad relationship, is separated, and is not satisfied with their sexual life,
and widowed, divorced, family death, love breakup, cheating, sudden illness, etc., these negative sexual life events are all the "fuses" that cause depression or recurrence.
On the contrary, patients with depression will have no feelings for their families and no interest in couples' sex life.
Therefore, intimate relationship between husband and wife and depression are also mutually causal relationships, which will form a vicious cycle.
02
Men are depressed, and are irritable and irritable. They do not tell others and expect to solve their own problems. This is a signal of men's failure and incompetence.
Women are depressed and self-denial and blame themselves. This is a signal that women need help.
and the sexual function problems in the depressed state have nothing to do with the relationship between husband and wife and the organ function.
is related to their psychological emotions and psychological states. Therefore, helping their lover improves their depression is the fundamental.
So, if your lover is depressed, don’t blame him, because the depressed person is already very guilty.
03
Biology and genes affect the occurrence and development of depression. The concentration of dopamine , such as norepinephrine, and other monoamine neurotransmitters in the brain of depressed people changes, and
will affect their psychology and cognition.
So accompany him to do something he is good at to increase his sense of accomplishment and pleasure.
: Involving physiological activities will promote the production of dopamine and increase mood.
As the depression improves, sexual function can also be restored to a certain extent.
04
"Husband has depression", a Japanese love movie, the protagonist of
unfortunately suffers from depression, so his wife goes to experience the husband's daily route to work.
The wife said to her husband: "The tram is so crowded, you can really bear it for so many years. You won't have to ride it from tomorrow."
The husband said: "Do you really think so?"
The wife said: "I mean it, thank you for your hard work all the time, my husband is so great."
The wife always encourages her husband so much. It is this kind of family therapy that has formed a strong support and positive effect on the protagonist.
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