That is to say, Everyone will speak according to other people's opinions, rather than following the result they see by their own eyes. Psychologists call this the herd effect.
In life, we actually have this herd effect on many things. In the words of Chinese people, it is called following the crowd. For example, if you think a certain piece of clothing is not good-looking, you will say in unison, "Wow, this dress is too beautiful and fashionable." At this time, do you dare to tell everyone that I don't look good? Few people dare to say this.
Why do 3 people have such a herd effect? Sometimes, it’s because I can’t be sure, and I can’t be sure, and I’m asking if this thing looks good? Is this the right thing to do? How should I choose in this situation? When I am not sure, everyone will say, since you see others do it that way, then others will always have their own reasons. Then I followed others to do it, it was not easy to do it wrong, which was a kind of psychology.
There is another situation, that is, in my heart, I think that others are doing something wrong, or that they choose the wrong choice, but I still don’t dare to be independent. Because if a few people, or even many people may make a choice, there will be an invisible pressure in it. Sometimes there is even tangible pressure, and everyone will look at you, "Hey, are you doing something different from us? We have done this, don't you do it?" Everyone will feel that if you are different from others, others will dislike you.
Then some people will think at this time, even if I think this is wrong in my heart, I don’t want to offend others, right? I don't want everyone to think that I am a bit terrible, so I'm just as good as everyone else. So sometimes there may even be a situation where everyone knows that some method is wrong, but everyone uses the same method. That kind of mighty, like a trend, but I don’t know how many nurseries there were at the beginning, and then I chose the choice first.
Then, more and more people follow the crowd, and the more they are moving in a certain direction, it may be nothing more than that. So, A truly brave person can bravely not follow the crowd. Perhaps you will make fewer mistakes in what you do.
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