Why do adolescent children prone to inferiority and sensitivity?
Parents, teachers, and classmates accidentally say a word and look,
Children will repeatedly think: Why do he say that? Do you look down on me? ...
Children with inferiority sensitive should be closer, and they are unwilling to communicate with teachers and classmates at school, and their personality is withdrawn and their grades are reduced;
They are prone to self-doubt, fear of socializing, and avoiding problems, and it is difficult to achieve great success.
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Why do you care about other people's comments?
First of all, parents should realize one thing: cares about other people's evaluations is human nature .
In order to survive, creatures in every place have the nature of cooperative survival! Even Antarctic, which has no creatures, is no exception.
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In order not to make life "southern" more difficult, Emperor Penguin rely on group warming to overcome the cold and seek survival.
Animals are like this, and humans understand the benefits of cooperation and survival, but if humans want to cooperate, there is still a prerequisite for them to cooperate -
has been recognized by the team!
For example, in the ancient times when crises were everywhere...
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Whether a life is guaranteed is often determined by the team's recognition:
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The nature of seeking recognition has been passed down from generation to generation as people reproduce.
and so far, many people will instinctively care about the evaluation of others.
Why do you care more about evaluation during adolescence?
The question of
also has to start from the beginning...
Chapter 1 There is a "goose" in the child's head, and its name is the frontal lobe.
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As it grows, children's understanding ability is also developing.
The development of understanding ability can be roughly divided into three stages -
Stage 1: Don’t want anything
Before the child was 2 years old, the frontal lobe was also a baby and could not do anything, so the child had almost no understanding.
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Stage 2: Simply think about
When you reach 2 to 8 years old, the frontal lobe begins to develop slowly. Children can roughly understand what others say, but they are not able to understand what others think of themselves.
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At this time, children often focus on themselves and are not very concerned about others' evaluations.
Stage 3: Think too much
When you reach adolescence, the frontal lobe begins to grow rapidly, and children can understand other people's emotions more and more, but if you do too much reading comprehension, will over-interpret if you are not careful.
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For example, as the frontal lobe develops, children gradually start to think too much, and they all have very different interpretations of the same sentence.
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In short, this shows that the child:
has grown up and his mind has also been opened!
Why do children care more about the evaluation of the opposite sex?
Let’s talk about the ancient times, when humans had two ultimate goals - in addition to survival, they were reproduction.
Therefore, there is a hypothesis: At that time, men would constantly show their strengths in order to attract women.
In order to give birth to better offspring, women tend to choose better spouses, and the selection process is actually to give different evaluations to the other party.
So, this instinct to desire attention and get praise from the opposite sex has been passed down from generation to generation.
And during adolescence, the child's body and mind begin to develop.
Sometimes it feels confused about the opposite sex and becomes more concerned about the evaluation of the opposite sex.
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How to guide children to correctly view other people's evaluations?
Now parents understand that it is human nature to care about other people's evaluations,
. Children are prone to inferiority and sensitivity during adolescence because of the rapid development of the prefrontal lobe in the brain, and they will over-understand if they are not careful.
If you want to guide your child to view other people's evaluation correctly and stay away from inferiority complex,
can give this "Half-hour comic adolescence: Psychology" to your child and let him try the trilogy of the monkey brother.
Adolescent is the golden period for children to grow up.
Smart parents will not fight head-on with their children, but can guide them correctly and help their children grow into outstanding adults.
If you are embarrassed to say something, but children should know that
might as well let this book "Half-hour comics Adolescence: Psychology" helps children solve their puberty problems with smiles!
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