If the subconscious pathological memory is not reorganized, but only the wrong cognition is corrected, the pathological memory will be activated by certain factors in future life, causing emotional and behavioral problems to reappear. This is what we call relapse.
The memory of A Sheng is a shrewd and capable young man. He was previously diagnosed with depression due to frustrations in life. He carried out the intervention of cognitive therapy at the local psychological counseling institution. He felt that the effect was good at the time. He ended his treatment and went home
Two years later, his business failed again, which stimulated his pathological memory before, causing emotional breakdown and unable to suppress the thought of self-harm. His sister made a special trip to Beijing to find the center.
At the beginning of December, A Sheng's sister called me and said that my brother had failed in his business. He was very self-blame, low self-esteem, relapsed from depression, refused all social interactions, refused to go out, and had serious self-harm thoughts. Occasionally when he was taken out by the whole family, A Sheng was still very sensitive and suspicious. He always felt that others were staring at him and even felt that they were talking about him.
"If this continues, we are worried that he will go crazy!". The whole family of A Sheng was very anxious and wanted to find a local expert, but A Sheng trusted me very much and he still insisted on coming to me for treatment when he learned that I was in Beijing.
Within a few days, my sister came over with Ah Sheng. A Shengyi saw me, maybe out of a sense of trust, he thought his condition was hopeful, and his mood was obviously stabilized.
However, in the conversation with A Sheng, he quickly sobbed, "Liu Chengluo, I...I...I don't want to live anymore, I've self-harmed... several times", he I cried while talking, crying harder and harder, inhaling loudly and constantly, completely uncontrollable.
A Sheng is very burly,Such a tall man couldn't stop crying in front of me. I knew that his heart must be very painful, so I had to comfort him first and ended the first face-to-face consultation .
I asked A Sheng’s sister, and she said that the symptom of the younger brother started after the business failed. Due to lack of experience and ability, he caused great economic losses to the family. He was very guilty and suddenly became crying. As long as you talk to others, you will soon shed tears, and even cry for several hours.
In the beginning, family members would come to comfort him and help him calm down; but Ah Sheng cried too often and too much, and later his family avoided him for fear of talking to him. A Sheng also felt that the crying problem seriously affected his life, but even if he couldn't control it, he closed himself even more, almost desperate.
Before the memory reorganization, I asked Ah Sheng to understand the situation and explain the precautions in the memory reorganization, but after only 15 minutes, I couldn't talk anymore—A Sheng started to cry again.
I directly did memory reorganization for Ah Sheng the next day, looking for the psychological trauma behind the symptom of crying. A Sheng was very cooperative, and his sensibility of memory reorganization was also very good. Under the deep memory reorganization, A Sheng "seeed" his young self.
When A Sheng was 2 and 3 years old, his father was often on business trips, and his mother was busy with housework, and her two sisters took care of her. However, the sisters did not like A Sheng at the time, because he was the only son in the family, and the adults always favored him, which made the sisters very dissatisfied.
Therefore, the two sisters always bully Ah Sheng, such as deliberately making him hungry, often choking him, and locked him in the room after crying, so that his mother will not hear. This situation lasted for two or three years.
Later, as he grew up, the relationship between A Sheng and his sister gradually established, and the sisters never bullied him anymore, and treated him well.This experience was completely forgotten by A Sheng. According to the current understanding, it actually entered the level of subconscious memory. I dealt with these traumas.
After A Sheng was awakened from the reorganization of his memory, he himself was happy: "Oh my God, my sisters bullied me like that! No, I must find them to settle accounts when I go back!" Tell me something interesting about your sisters getting along with him.
I couldn't help but interrupt him: "Why don't you cry?" A Sheng suddenly realized: This is how the crying problem has been solved!
The next problem is much smoother. I have given A Sheng a series of cognitive therapy for the emotional problems caused by business failure, and even shared with him based on my own mental journey of starting a business in Beijing:
I went to Beijing to start a business, and in just two months, I broke through the memory reorganization technology and quickly turned this experience into wealth. Through my sharing, A Sheng's view on the failure of his business has also changed.
I will reflect on his shortcomings together with him, and put forward my suggestions for his follow-up business again. In this process, Ah Sheng's ability to withstand stress has rapidly improved, and his emotions have become more and more stable. After a month and a half of treatment, he left, and then completely withdrew from the medication within a month.
So far, Ah Sheng has not relapsed. The furniture business is getting better and better, and his ability and mentality are very positive and healthy. He was very grateful to me and promised to sponsor me office furniture if I needed it in the future.
The most notable thing about A Sheng's case is that his psychological trauma is buried in "subconscious memory", and the healing of memory reorganization is very precise and fast.
As we do more and more cases, our understanding of brain memory is getting deeper and deeper. Simply put, brain memory can be divided into "external memory" and "subconscious memory".In many cases, we cannot find obvious traumatic events at the level of the patient's explicit memory (that is, the patient reports that there is no trauma in the memory).
Patients and their families are often very confused, thinking that they are suffering from depression for no reason, even thinking of genetic factors, and this situation was often diagnosed by psychiatrists in the past. endogenous depression.
However, we found that under deep memory reorganization, patients often remember or even "see" some psychological trauma, that is, pathological memory is hidden in subconscious memory.
Some readers may be wondering. After I found A Sheng's pathological memory and reorganized it, his crying problem was instantly healed. It's amazing, isn't it true?
At the beginning, I also found it very magical, and I couldn't figure out the truth, and A Sheng also reflected that when he was crying, he did not remember the experience of being bullied by his sisters when he was a child. Now, as our memory reorganization experience and cases continue to accumulate, we have a clearer understanding of the mechanism of psychopathological memory.
For example, after a business failure, A Sheng had feelings of despair and fear, and this emotion was similar to the mood when he was bullied by his sister when he was a child. Therefore, although the depression relapsed, he did not arouse his sister to bully him. However, he activated a similar emotional memory in his heart, showing similar emotional reactions and crying behavioral reactions.
Now we are increasingly discovering that patients’ bizarre behaviors, severe negative emotions, distorted cognition and even paranoid personality problems may have corresponding psychopathological memories behind them; accurately find the pathology Sexual memory and reorganization will quickly solve the corresponding problems.
This is what I call precise memory reorganization, and I also said that we may have found the main cause of mental disorders.
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