Moreover, this maternal love is natural and does not require education. It does not require education. A mother says that because you should have maternal love, this is an important part of socialist morality. You do not need to educate her like this, and you will naturally love

2025/08/2623:47:35 psychological 1918

So when a pregnant woman, who has just given birth to a newborn mother, sees the ugly but very small, very weak and very delicate child, she will have a natural arousal. What is particularly strong is that I want to be nice to him, I want to protect him, I am willing to do whatever I do for him. Such a strong emotion is called "primitive maternal love concentration". It is the physiological and biological reason that naturally causes the explosion of maternal love.

But have you noticed that this kind of original maternal love is generally not allowed to persist for a few years, and it still works in the years when the child is very young. When the child gradually grows up, the mother will change her mind.

is not the same as the feeling when a child was first born, saying that I should wholeheartedly serve the child. I don’t care about anything myself, I can sacrifice anything, and I am willing to die for the child. This kind of energy is gone and I start to get annoyed. "Oh, why is my child so annoying? It's so clingy. I want to run out to play by myself." I will start to feel this way.

When the child is older and he is in school, the mother will say, "Oh, it's been quiet, but I don't have to worry about him." If the child's academic performance is not good, the mother may be very annoyed, saying why the child is like this and does not study hard, and then an unknown fire pops out of her heart and wants to beat him up.

Think about it, when you become the mother who saw that the child was not doing well in his homework and wanted to beat him up, you think back to the scene when he saw the nurse holding you that little baby a few years ago. How big is this gap?

The reason for biology is very simple, because the hormones are gone, and the environment in the heart has changed. For animals, this is actually very necessary. It is just animals. If they grow up a little, the female beast will drive it out, right? You can't live your own life here all day long, right? There is no food stored at home, and you eat your fuck here every day. So what is your mom eating? So I have to drive out.

so from the instinct of zoology, after the original maternal love was lost, she instinctively annoyed the child and wanted to drive him away from her.

Then we know such a knowledge, can we change it? It probably won't be fundamentally changed.

is the feeling that you liked when you first gave birth to a child. When the child grew older, especially after going to school, you would often feel the rebound. It’s useless for you to blame yourself, it’s like that. But after we know this principle, we can make some adjustments.

For example, when the child does not do his homework well and makes you angry, you just tell yourself, think about the past, think about what I said a few years ago? What am I thinking? Alas, then at least you can adjust the reaction brought by biology so that it will not be so exaggerated, and make it transition smoother to a smoother extent, which is also better for children.