Praise the ones we love
1. When a person is recognized and praised by others, it can arouse his strong self-confidence and maximize his enthusiasm, so that what he does can lead to success. direction to move forward. Someone popularly summarizes the Rosenthal effect as: "If you are told that you are good, you can be good, and if you are not good, you are OK; if you are told that you are not good, you are not good, and you are not good either." Yes, evaluations from the outside world are indeed good for people. With such a powerful influence, this kind of evaluation can directly affect a person's aura. Konosuke Matsushita, the god of Japanese business management, once said: "Praise is more likely to make people successful than criticism." This is the law of motivation in psychology.
2. Praising the person we love can not only make the other person feel that you value him and encourage him to succeed, but can also enhance the emotions between each other and deepen the love between each other. In this case, are you still worried that your happiness will not increase? The affirmation and praise of others are a kind of psychological strengthener, which can give people positive psychological hints, give people a strong psychological motivation to succeed, and make people's aura instantly become very powerful. The famous psychologist Jess Lehr also said: "Praise is like sunshine to warm the human soul. Without it, we cannot grow and bloom. However, regrettably, most people just Tends to avoid other people’s sarcastic remarks and is stingy in giving others the warm sunshine of praise.”
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3. Don’t mistake the so-called love words for hypocritical language. Praising others is actually an expression of high emotional intelligence for oneself. He can convey beauty to everyone he wants to convey through words. In fact, when When we expect something from a person, that person will most likely become what we expect. In other words, if a husband wants his wife to be gentle and considerate, then his wife is likely to become a considerate, good wife and mother. This may seem incredible, but it is an indisputable fact.
