In daily life, we will inevitably encounter some annoying things and some disturbing things. What should you do if you encounter something like this?
needs to enable some self-management methods. Self-management includes time management , mentality management , communication management , selection management and many other methods.
Mentality Management
Mentality management is very basic and very important.
I remember there is a song by Zhou Huajian , which sings about this irritable state. The wife discovered that the secretary’s skirt was very short, he bought earrings worth 8,000 yuan, the daughter was too fat, the son refused to eat, the car was too bad, there was no money in the bank, right, he had to work overtime all day long, and only half of his hair was left. There are so many things to worry about and so many things to worry about. What should we do at this time? Let’s take a look at what the master does when he encounters something disturbing.
Let's tell a story about the Three Kingdoms. In the early spring of 208, the park was very cold. Liu Bei took Guan Yu Zhang Fei to Wollongong and went to Longzhong to invite Zhuge Liang . This time it was three visits to the thatched cottage . It was getting cold, and when we got outside, the child said that my husband was taking a nap and could not see you. At this time, Zhang Fei became anxious.
Because he didn’t see anyone the first time he came, he was rejected the second time he came. This third time he came, he was actually sleeping. My eldest brother is a big shot. I came to see him sincerely. He is so arrogant. Don’t be particularly angry. He wants to light a fire to burn out Kong Ming . Look at Zhang Fei’s reaction when he encounters something disturbing. Just get angry, and then relieve your hatred.
Zhang Fei
I think many people think this way, but Liu Bei is an expert and he doesn't do this. Can Liu Bei's mood be good? I think he visited the thatched cottage three times and was rejected again and again. He must have had some mood swings, but what Liu Bei thought was that the facts cannot be changed, and Kong Ming was like this. How can I invite him to come out in this situation? should show more sincerity and be more humble and low-profile . As long as he comes out to help me achieve a career and achieve dominance. The little emotions and grievances I felt before me were nothing.
So you see Liu Bei’s idea is to isolate his emotions and find a way out.
In order to come up with a solution, instead of relieving hatred and venting bad temper like Zhang Fei, let's make some summary of . should solve the problem without resolving hatred, and find out that should not vent it. When a given place cannot be changed, we should find a more reasonable way to solve the problem. This is 's standard way for experts to deal with troubles.
