My name is Lin Hongmei, my ex-husband is my senior fellow student, and we are the same graduate tutor. His name is Guo Xuefeng, his family is in a remote mountainous area in the south, and he has two younger sisters.
He worked everywhere, worked and studied, and earned his own tuition and living expenses. He still refused to eat well and ate steamed buns and pickles every day.
Although he only has two changes of clothes, he is always washed and neatly dressed, and his hair is combed meticulously.
He is handsome and handsome, with a melancholy temperament. He can play the recorder with tears in his eyes, and he can also sing lingering folk songs . He studies very hard and always gets scholarships.
My family background is good. I am an only child and my parents are both civil servants. I became curious about such a hard-working boy.
I approached him deliberately. During the meal, I bought braised pork, braised fish , lion head , and ate with him. I said I wanted to try his pickles.
He understood what I meant. He was a little inferior, a little cold, and rejected me thousands of miles away.
I am fire and he is ice. This love has been unequal from the beginning. I paid more and he passively accepted it.
I am the blooming red plum, he is the cold and arrogant white snow. We complement each other and still come together.
At first, my dad didn’t agree with this marriage, saying that this person was cold-hearted and had no warmth in his eyes. I might have to endure hardship in the future!
Young girls are always blindly confident! I thought our love would last forever! My dad had no choice but to sigh and help us find jobs!
Guo Xuefeng didn’t have any clues, follow me to my city! Our parents have prepared a 120-square-meter wedding room for us.
My parents used all their connections. I entered a local university and he entered a state-owned enterprise.
After we got married, we had a sweet and cute daughter. Her parents were not used to living in the city. When they came to my house, they were at a loss. My mother brought up our daughter!
My mother has a strong personality and is a bit too controlling! What nutritional supplements should children take? How to educate? How to live? All day long, nagging.
So what? In order to take care of my granddaughter, my mother checked out early! She doesn’t have time to dance in the square and pay to take care of her granddaughter!
Guo Xuefeng never mentioned giving my mother living expenses, and I didn’t take it seriously. Ever since I was a child, I have never been short of money and I have never taken money seriously!
I want to give my mother money, but my mother doesn’t want it and lets me keep the flowers for myself. She always gives money to help us buy vegetables and meat, milk powder and diapers for our daughter.
Even so, Guo Xuefeng was still a little dissatisfied, maybe because he thought I didn't bring my parents-in-law. When he came out and went in, his face was as heavy as water, and he didn't even call out for his mother.
Every time after finishing his meal, he put down his chopsticks and turned around to go into the bedroom. My mother was so angry that she said that I married a wolf!
The house belongs to my family, and my parents found the job. My son-in-law is not grateful at all! In those days, he even ignored me, and I had to coax him to talk.
I was really obsessed with him at the time, and I loved him very cautiously. I was afraid that he would be wronged, so I made my mother cook all the dishes he liked!
I always buy him the most expensive clothes. His work has just started to improve and he can't lose face. I also iron the clothes neatly and hang them on the hangers at the door.
In the morning, as soon as he goes out, he can put it on casually. My heart and eyes are full of him, and I always say, Mom, don’t hurt his self-esteem. My mother said I was a stupid girl!
can tell that he doesn't like my mother taking care of the children. Okay, I'll let my mom go back to her home!
invited my mother-in-law here for a month, and everything was messed up. My mother-in-law doesn’t know how to use a gas stove or any electrical appliances. He spoke a lot of local dialect, but my daughter couldn’t understand it.
My mother-in-law was not hygienic and chewed food to feed her daughter. It was so unhygienic. I stopped her and she was very unhappy!
My mother-in-law lost her temper and left, and my mother continued to take care of the baby. After a few years, my daughter went to elementary school, and my mother finally stopped getting involved in our lives.
However, there seems to be a crack in our relationship. Or, it was always my wishful thinking. I found him to be very selfish.
I was busy evaluating associate professors, writing papers, and working on projects. However, I don’t have to work and do all the housework!
Like all housewives, I go to the vegetable market and think of ways to cook in different ways to increase nutrition for the whole family.
I don't care about dressing up. I am busy every day, doing laundry, cooking, washing dishes, mopping the floor, and tutoring my daughter with her homework. After finishing a lot of work, I can prepare lessons and do scientific research.
His career is also on the rise and he is constantly getting promoted. He started to smile a little and seemed high-spirited. He had more and more social activities and came home later and later.
I always pay for him, and I also have my own career! I was promoted to associate professor. If I want to go further, but my academic qualifications are not enough, I want to get a doctorate.
He was noncommittal, frowning and said, "You are almost 40, why are you still studying for a Ph.D.? Who will do the housework? Who will take care of the children?"
I was a little annoyed. I always sacrifice myself. Why can't he work hard for 4 years?
I said, "If you are busy, your daughter can go to my mother's place for dinner. Give me 4 years and I can get a PhD." He reluctantly agreed!
Studying for a Ph.D. is no joke. The pressure is too great. I wish I could hang my head and pierce my buttocks. I would soak in the library every day and my hair would fall out in handfuls.
Once I get busy, I only go home once every six months. After returning home, things changed, and I felt like I was farther away from him, hazy, as if there was something between us.
Someone gave me a hint and told me to be careful. What should I be careful about? I don't believe he would betray me!
However, every time he comes home, his eyes are twinkling and he makes love to me, very reluctantly and in a hurry, as if he is fulfilling his obligation!
Madhaha like me also started to pay attention and found that there was a long, curving hair on the bed. It was chestnut color and very soft. My hair was very hard, so it was obviously not mine!
My heart sank, I forced a smile and pretended to go back to school. At night, I found a young woman entering my house...
I opened the door with the key, and they got up in a panic. The woman screamed and huddled up! The bed was rumpled, obviously the sheets had just been rolled out!
I laughed, and a tear rolled down from the corner of my eye! My infatuation was paid by mistake after all! Over the years, I have fallen in love with loneliness.
He knelt down and begged me, "Xiaomei, forgive me! I just couldn't bear the loneliness. After I was drunk, she sent me home and climbed into our bed."
The woman screamed, "Brother Guo loves me, He said being with you is very depressing! He doesn't love you! "
I don't want to see them acting, so I said calmly, "This is my house, get out!"
By the way, the property certificate is in my name! It was the house my parents bought for me! Guo Xuefeng has been enjoying his success, and I haven't even received his salary card.
Over the years, he has been subsidizing his parents and two younger sisters in the countryside. Although his salary is 9,000 yuan per month, there is not much left.
Since we are a family, we naturally want to help my husband's family. I think money is something external to me and I never care about it.
My heart felt so cold, as if I had fallen into an ice cave, and I was shivering all over. The scorching sun could not warm me up.
I decided to divorce! My daughter followed me! Anyway, he, as a father, has not fulfilled much responsibility, and his daughter has no feelings for him.
I gritted my teeth and finished my Ph.D., telling myself that men are not everything! I will live a more wonderful life without a man!
His affairs were exposed, he was criticized behind his back, and he seemed to have some financial problems.
He was promoted from a management position to an ordinary employee. Fortunately, he was not fired and his salary was reduced a lot.
The funny thing is that the woman who keeps saying she loves him runs away faster than a rabbit! He became a loner!
He is like an eggplant beaten by frost. I heard that he rented a house and lived in a mess, unable to recover!
He came to me more than once and wanted to remarry me! I threw a mirror to the ground and said with a smile, "Can a broken mirror be restored to its original state?"
He was dejected and murmured, "Xiaomei, you have always been so good to me, why can't you forgive me once?"
I sneered and said, "A broken mirror cannot be reunited, and a cold heart cannot be warmed! Don't come back again!"
He staggered away. My heart is as cold as iron.
Someone advised me to find another one, why bother? It's enough for a woman to be injured once. I put all my energy into my daughter's education and work.
I passed five levels, defeated six generals, and became a professor. My daughter is also very motivated. She was admitted to a 211 University and successfully secured postgraduate qualifications.
My daughter is very resentful towards her father. I educate my daughter and say, "This is between me and your father. No matter what, he is your biological father."
I do not prevent him from visiting my daughter. I hope that my daughter's heart will be filled with love and warmth and not to plant thorns.
Gradually, the relationship between his daughter and him eased. They occasionally ate together, talked and laughed, and he regularly gave his daughter living expenses.
He has not remarried, and there is no hope of remarriage. He was not used to not having a woman take care of his life.
When he was 50 years old, a woman lived with him without a certificate. He told his daughter, and she told me.
The woman is 40 years old and has a son. She doesn’t seem to have a stable job and works in a hotel.
The woman was very good at talking and took good care of him. He paid for her to raise her son. I heard that salary cards were also given to women!
After her daughter graduated from graduate school, she stayed in the capital and no longer needed the living expenses provided by her father.
Guo Xuefeng became proud when he saw that I was alone all the time. He had a woman to take care of him, but I had no man to protect me...
Once, I met the two of them on the street. Guo Xuefeng put his arm around the woman's waist in a demonstrative manner, held his chin up, and demonstrated to me...
Haha, do you think I'm surprised?
Husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes, let alone a couple halfway through? The winter of
2022 is very extraordinary. My prediction came true. He became yang, dying, and the woman ran away!
He actually called me...
Am I going to die without saving him?
(to be continued)
