has been disturbed for a while, and the Fan Xiaohui incident has settled.
She recorded a video to tell everyone the results.
. She and her husband divorced, and her son's custody belongs to her.
2. The husband was punished by the unit and he was likely to have to carry his backpack home.
3. The third sister wanted one million mental compensation, but the plan was gone.
4. Someone threatened her with some pieced together videos and asked for 2.4 million yuan, and she defended her rights.
5. Bogo made a mistake and could not be promoted to a group. He is just an isolated case, and most people are good.
6. After divorce, I will take my son to live a good life and have no plans to remarry for the time being.
I have to say that Fan Xiaohui did a pretty job and solved the problem by cutting the mess quickly. Only the face that was so thin that she was able to see the pain she suffered.
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When it comes to Fan Xiaohui, many people will think of two words: virtuous.
Boge is in the unit all year round, and she takes care of the elderly and children, and finds ways to make a living.
Fan Xiaohui was abandoned by her parents since childhood and adopted by a grandmother. Her grandmother's family was poor, but she was really kind to her. The fourth uncle and fourth aunt who appeared in her videos many times were the relatives who adopted her. When Fan Xiaohui encountered difficulties after marriage, she provided her with shelter without reservation.
met Bo Ge, and they were all students at that time. Bo Ge was also kind to her. Once, he gave her 800 yuan in his pocket, which moved Fan Xiaohui. She was sincere and sincere. Later, she paid the student loan for the other party.
Boge's family is also in the countryside, but because it is the only college student in the village, his mother has high expectations for him. She feels that Fan Xiaohui's background is not worthy of her son, so she has never accepted her.
After Fan Xiaohui had children, when she lived in her husband's house, her mother-in-law was always indifferent to her and said a lot of unpleasant words. Fan Xiaohui could only hide her grievances in her stomach.
Later, when she returned to the side of the fourth uncle and aunt, she had a smile on her face. In order to support her family, Fan Xiaohui found a way to sell boxed lunches. The dishes she cooked were very affordable, with large pieces of braised pork and free drinks. They were welcomed by migrant workers, and someone introduced her to the business.
Make boxed lunches very hard, you need to calculate the time accurately. You go too early, the workers don’t get off work, the food is easy to get cold, and when you go late, no one is waiting for you. Fan Xiaohui works quickly. She is not afraid of hardship, but she is afraid that her children will suffer from grievances. After a period of busyness, she has a stable income.
The videos she shot were also loved by many people, and fans rose rapidly. Fan Xiaohui simply often shot cooking videos for everyone. She is very smart and can always make new tricks of simple ingredients. Looking at her smile gives people a healing feeling.
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Fan Xiaohui always cared about her husband in her heart.
She was worried that the other party would not eat well, so she bought a large piece of beef, made into jerky beef and wrapped it into pieces and sent it to her husband.
Knowing that my husband likes to eat melon seeds, he peels the melon seeds one by one, then vacuum packs them to serve as snacks for her husband.
She didn't know that these carefully made snacks were forwarded to another woman, and also showed off online, saying how good her boyfriend was to her.
This woman is the third sister. From her video, we can see that she and Bo Ge have been together for several years. The two have a child. Bo Ge has given her salary, and they both ran over to accompany her during the vacation.
Some careful netizens discovered that once Boge came home, there was a shadow of the third sister in Fan Xiaohui's video. From this point of view, it can be seen that the other party knew Boge's situation, and he had a strong desire to control and did not hide his ambitions.
Bo Ge rarely goes home. Fan Xiaohui said that she only met twice in three years. What’s ridiculous is that when Bo Ge came home, he had a strawberry print on his neck. This was done by the third sister deliberately, just to give herself a sense of existence.
Fan Xiaohui couldn't bear it anymore, so she chose to divorce. The man disagreed at first and proposed to fight for the custody of the child. This was unacceptable to Fan Xiaohui. Her son always followed her and could hardly recognize her father when she met. Can she give the child to the other party?
Besides, Bo Ge has a new love and the third sister has her own child. Can it be good for her son Dandan?
In addition to children, there is also economic division. Boge has no savings, and he gave all his money to his third sister. However, Fan Xiaohui has been busy for several years and has some savings in her hands. If she divides the property of the couple equally, she will definitely suffer a loss.
Once the relationship between husband and wife ends, the selfish side of human nature will be revealed. . Of course, Fan Xiaohui has to fight for the interests of herself and her children. She stopped updating for a while and devoted her energy to dealing with private matters, but the result was still good.
From Fan Xiaohui's experience, we also give us some inspiration for marriage.
First, women can be virtuous, but they must grasp the principles.
We appreciate virtuous women, but sometimes virtuous people do not bring you good luck.
Fan Xiaohui is virtuous enough, but her husband and her husband didn't cherish her and did such a bottomless thing to her. Fan Xiaohui's sincerity can be said to have fed the dog.
Sometimes you are too nice to someone and may give the other person an illusion that you are excellent and that you cannot live without the other person, and he can hurt you unscrupulously.
Fortunately, she knows how to stop the loss in time and does not try to keep the other party. Since you don’t know how to cherish it, then I will not waste your youth with you. Both sides will part and be good to each other.
Second, women must have independent confidence.
Fan Xiaohui is very independent. She is capable and never thought of relying on her in-laws’ family to live.
Seeing that her mother-in-law has a bad attitude towards her, she finds ways to make a living. Through years of hard work, she has accumulated millions of fans and her own store. No matter what she does, she can bring a good life to herself and her children.
This is the confidence to be independent. After a woman gets married, don’t think she has a support. Luo Zijun is so beautiful, she is not abandoned by her husband. When she comes out to work, her ex-husband will look at her with admiration.
When women plan their lives, they must have more foresight and find pillars that can support their lives, so that your life will not collapse when they encounter problems.
Third, treat yourself well and don’t get entangled with scumbags.
Some people are not worthy of your love, and the other party makes a mistake, it is not your problem.
Some women are very kind. Although their husbands are betrayal of their feelings, they are reluctant to leave each other and work hard to maintain their families for their children.
Little do you know that your tolerance will become an excuse for the other party to hurt you.
If the other party does not cherish you, you must also learn to let go. Only by letting go of the wrong person can you have the chance to win the right life.
In this life, we will eventually find that in the second half of the life, you have the ability to live independently and a healthy body, and you will take the initiative in life for the rest of your life.
