Wang Hongwei , who was born in poverty, never thought that one day he would become a national music singer and appear on the Spring Festival Gala stage 9 times.
even more unexpectedly, because his career delayed his lifelong affairs, he married the "piano princess" who was 13 years younger than him home at the age of 40.
My wife is called Yang Shanshan . She has lived abroad and won a world-class piano competition award. She is a good person and looks very beautiful.
Wang Hongwei married his beautiful wife, thanks to his teacher Meng Ling .
If it weren't for Teacher Meng Ling's appearance, this marriage would not have been blooming in more than three months.
After getting married, Yang Shanshan and Wang Hongwei were very loving and were filial to their mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were like mother-daughter-in-law.
What charm does Wang Hongwei have? Let the wife of a talented woman born in the 1980s marry him and be willing to be the woman behind him?
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Wang Hongwei was born in 1968 and is from Wen County, Henan Province.
caught up with the tide of branch support. My father took his family from Henan to the northwest, and settled in the relatively remote Wenquan County.
Wang Hongwei did not have a deep impression of his father.
His childhood was unfortunate, and his father died at the age of three and a half.
He vaguely remembered that he lived in the "ground nest" by the river at that time.
One day, someone came to inform him and his sister that his father was seriously ill and needed to go to Shihezi as soon as possible.
Because the two places are more than 300 kilometers apart, the entire Corps only has one large truck.
Wang Hongwei, who was young and troubled, had been bumping in the car with his sister for more than a day, and met his father for the last time.
At that time, my mother was pregnant and had to pull up several children. Life was extremely difficult.
Grandparents took Wang Hongwei and his sister back to their hometown in rural Henan.
When Wang Hongwei and his sister have never met their mother for five years.
In the early 1970s, life in my hometown was not easy, and it was extremely luxurious to have a meal of steamed buns.
In order to prepare rations for the uncle who went to the field to work, grandparents put all the steamed buns into the basket and then hung them on the beam of the house with a rope.
It is lunch time, and the adults are still farming in the field. Wang Hongwei, who was over four years old, and his two-year-old sister were so hungry that she put a stool on the Eight Immortals table and then climbed on it to eat steamed buns.
Because of this, Wang Hongwei was beaten up by his grandfather.
When he was nine years old, his mother came back to pick him up and his sister.
Five years after leaving his mother, Wang Hongwei has become extremely mature.
hugged his mother who had been away for a long time for a while, then put down his schoolbag and ran to the field, helping her grandparents with farm work.
After seeing it, my mother felt sad and wiped her tears and said:
"You are by my side, even if you drink cold water, I will take you with you."
When the days are the most difficult, others buy candy and new clothes during the Chinese New Year and the holidays, but my mother doesn't buy anything.
The family has five children, and the monthly living expenses are 32 yuan.
She thinks that it is enough to eat vinegar and soy sauce during the Chinese New Year, because the money saved requires buying books and pencils for the children.
for them to go to school and make them promising is the biggest wish of my mother.
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Although life is hard, Wang Hongwei knows how to make fun of hardship and likes to listen to operas and songs played by loudspeakers in the village.
He was able to become a singer, a large part of the reason he was influenced by his mother.
When my mother was young, she loved singing Henan opera. Wang Hongwei, who was influenced by the influence, had the greatest interest when she was a child, was singing.
When I was in middle school, I was obsessed with singing duets.
"Song of Peony" is played every day in the school.
As long as the singing sounds come from the tweeter, Wang Hongwei will definitely hide in the corner,
listen quietly and learn silently.
Every time I go home from school, I have to walk along the river for an hour on the mountain road. That is Wang Hongwei’s happiest time.
He sang the song he heard over and over again on this road.
When the second year of junior high school, the school held an art performance.
First time I met a music teacher who had studied in Shanghai, I felt like I saw a beam of light shining into my life.
The teacher can play the accordion, play accordion , and teach basic sound practice methods. The three months of rehearsal in
benefited Wang Hongwei a lot.
After returning home, I became more and more obsessed. I went to Xinhua Bookstore to buy a book called "How to Practice Singing".
That was the first book he came into contact with, related to music theory.
According to the knowledge points in the book, Wang Hongwei often practices repeatedly by the river.
Even though winter is particularly cold, he enjoys himself and sings happily.
When you reach the age of 12, you can perform on stage.
15 years old, joined the army with the dream of art, and was specially recruited to the army as art soldier .
For various reasons, I became a movie projectionist and worked for three years.
He works hard while studying hard, waiting for the opportunity.
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In 1987, Wang Hongwei was admitted to Shanxi Army Academy and Urumqi Branch studied Uyghur translation.
He did not give up his dream of music, and he still looked for professional teachers to learn vocal music during his studies.
At that time, he had ten years left before he became a professional singer.
As a movie projectionist, once saw soldiers from the art troupe wearing dresses and pants with red bars, surrounding them with envy.
At that time, a bold idea emerged in Wang Hongwei's mind:
must be admitted to the military academy, and only in this way can there be more opportunities for development.
Wang Hongwei, who has a dream, was admitted to the Army Academy. After graduating from
, he became a cultural officer in the military car warehouse according to the assignment. His main job is to teach everyone to sing or schedule some small programs. He has worked on this job for seven years.
1991, the People's Liberation Army Art Academy faced the recruitment of grassroots literary and artistic backbones.
Wang Hongwei seized the opportunity and took the train from Urumqi to Beijing.
was successfully admitted to the Military Arts because of his excellent singing skills and began formal study.
This year, Wang Hongwei, 23 years old, met his teacher Meng Ling.
Wang Hongwei has a good foundation and good moral character, which makes Meng Ling willing to help him from the bottom of her heart.
A few years later, Wang Hongwei held a graduation concert.
Meng Ling asked her classmates Hu Bingxu , be sure to ask Zhao Jiping to watch the performance live.
At that time, Zhao Jiping was recording music in the recording studio and couldn't spare time.
And all the money for renting the recording studio is paid. If you go to the concert, it means that the money is wasted.
But Meng Ling's attitude was very firm, as if she had given Hu Bingxu a death order:
No matter what method is used, Zhao Jiping must be invited to the audience.
For Wang Hongwei, Meng Ling even threatened her old classmate like this:
"If this matter cannot be done, we will be left alone in the future!"
is fine, Hu Bingxu and Zhao Jiping are not in vain. After the performance of
, they directly bypassed Teacher Meng, found Wang Hongwei, and discussed going abroad for concerts.
At that time, Wang Hongwei was already well-known in the industry.
Surprisingly, after graduating from the military arts, he was assigned back to his original unit and continued to work as a warehouse officer.
After staying in the warehouse for another four years, Wang Hongwei suffered a lot and felt that he had fallen into the lowest point of his life.
During this period, he participated in various singing competitions, but it was extremely difficult along the way.
Until 1997, Wang Hongwei finally waited for the opportunity.
In this year, Wang Hongwei, who had been in the army for 14 years, joined the Xinjiang Military Region Art Troupe as he wished and began his professional stage career. After
, he won awards in various national singing competitions.
In 2000, Wang Hongwei's life ushered in a turning point again.
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This year, Wang Hongwei participated in the highly anticipated " Youth Song Competition " and won the championship in one fell swoop.
was also in this year. He returned to his alma mater to pursue a postgraduate degree as a student who was admitted to the school.
Wang Hongwei returned to his alma mater again, and Teacher Meng was particularly happy.The beds in the dormitory, as well as bedding and washbasin, were all handled by Teacher Meng.
Teacher Meng is like his mother, taking care of students' lives in every way.
But in teaching, Teacher Meng also has a strict side.
There is a small square window on the door of the piano room where the student practices singing. It is her "look-off mouth" for secretly checking whether the student is practicing singing seriously.
In addition, she also asked her students not to fall in love during college:
"Be my student, you must endure loneliness and hardship;
If you want to fall in love, don't be my student."
not because her thoughts are so feudal.
is because the learning time is short and there is a lot of content to master.
She also learned that many classmates are not from wealthy families.
From a relationship, you need to take energy and have considerable economic conditions.
For the sake of students' consideration, she set inhumane rules.
It is precisely because of this that several of Meng Ling's favorite students, Wang Hongwei, Liu Hegang , Zewangdoji , etc., got married relatively late.
Here I would like to introduce Teacher Meng Ling in particular.
She is a famous vocal educator in my country and studied under Guo Shuzhen .
Guo Shuzhen is a national treasure-level music educator.
As Mr. Guo’s first student, Meng Ling has outstanding achievements in vocal education.
So it is not easy to become her student.
This also means that if you want to be Meng Ling's student, you must abide by the rules set by her.
However, during the time I first entered university, Wang Hongwei had a small problem, which almost made Teacher Meng angry.
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23 when he first entered school, Wang Hongwei was young and handsome.
Once, I was distracted in class, and Meng Ling directly asked for guilt:
"Are you having a girlfriend?"
Wang Hongwei stammered and replied:
"It's not considered a girlfriend, but someone likes me anyway."
Teacher Meng's attitude was very firm and told Wang Hongwei solemnly:
"You go back and tell that girl, just say what Teacher Meng said, you are not allowed to fall in love during school."
This also made Wang Hongwei set a rule for himself:
As a man, you must first start a career and then get married.
and even when I was 40 years old, I was still single.
He has very high requirements for himself. He has been in the military art for four years and has participated in competitions and won big prizes during this period. He can make money by relying on his fame.
But at this time, he chose to settle himself and continue his studies.
At that time, he was already 32 years old and still abides by the agreement with his teacher and has never been in love.
Until one time I went to Xinjiang to perform, I met an old friend on the way back.
After the two chatted carefully, the other party learned that Wang Hongwei was not married yet, so they took the initiative to introduce him to his partner.
The daughter of the old friend who was young is a piano player and is particularly outstanding. She is a teacher at the Central Conservatory of Music.
Wang Hongwei heard that he was from the Central Conservatory of Music and felt that he should know him.
He did see that girl a long time ago, when she was only thirteen or fourteen years old.
After returning to Beijing, Wang Hongwei took the initiative to ask Teacher Meng to explain the situation.
Yang Jun, director of the Piano Department of the Central Conservatory of Music, is an old classmate of Teacher Meng.
Teacher Meng was particularly concerned and called Yang Jun to ask about Yang Shanshan’s situation.
Yang Jun received the call and asked Meng Ling:
"What are you going to do? Are you looking for a partner for your stupid son?"
Meng Ling said everything, explaining Wang Hongwei's situation.
With the help of Teacher Meng, Wang Hongwei and Yang Shanshan were combined.
The two people have known each other for less than three months and have gone to register and get their marriage certificate. They are considered to be the clan of flash marriage.
When the two met, there was a small episode.
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The contrast between Wang Hongwei and Yang Shanshan in terms of personality is very obvious.
Moreover, one grew up in the village and the other grew up studying abroad.
One is born in the 60s and one is born in the 80s.
After getting the phone call from the introducer, Wang Hongwei took the initiative to invite Yang Shanshan to have a meal.
Wang Hongwei is quite smart. He knew that Yang Shanshan had stayed abroad, so he agreed with his preferences and invited the other party to meet in an Italian restaurant.
That day, Wang Hongwei dressed very fancy and wore a floral shirt, which was extremely inconsistent with his usual dressing style.
After sitting down, Wang Hongwei spoke first:
"I love to eat arugula here the most."
After hearing this, Yang Shanshan couldn't help but say in her heart:
"Wow, the prince of folk songs is also very Western."
But Yang Shanshan never thought that that meal was specially prepared for her.
This is the only Western food they have ever eaten since they met.
When pursuing the girl you like, men always look particularly generous.
When "successful", most of them will become stingy, which is in contrast to the previous generousness.
At that time, Yang Shanshan didn't know Wang Hongwei, and didn't know what songs he sang, nor did he know what award he won.
In short, everything about Wang Hongwei is unfamiliar to her.
First of all, when Wang Hongweihong came, Yang Shanshan happened to study abroad;
secondly, what Yang Shanshan is concerned about is mostly related to her.
Although both Western music and folk songs are in the music category, they do not know much about each other.
This is like reading novels. Some people like romance novels , while others prefer martial arts novels. Everyone's hobbies are different.
Yang Shanshan’s first impression of Wang Hongwei was:
We have too big gaps, and we didn’t think about whether to follow others.
Although Yang Shanshan doesn’t know Wang Hongwei, her parents know Wang Hongwei very well.
As soon as Wang Hongwei was mentioned, Yang Shanshan's mother immediately reacted:
"He is the one who sang " West Song ".
After meeting, Yang Shanshan did not feel excited, but she felt Wang Hongwei's sincerity.
During the meal, Wang Hongwei would take out his mobile phone and show him the photos he took during his condolences in the disaster area.
He pointed to the homeless children and told their stories, but did not say what achievements he had achieved.
She felt the kindness from him and the love that was revealed unexpectedly.
When it comes to dating, Yang Shanshan feels that they are not people from the same world.
but the result is surprising.
No one would have thought that two people who looked unmatched had taken more than three months from blind date to marriage.
What is Wang Hongwei’s charm and touched Yang Shanshan? After that blind date, Yang Shanshan thought about this question countless times.
finally summarized this sentence:
"He is simple and sincere. He feels more secure when he is with such a man."
In marriage, what else is there to make a woman feel more important than a sense of security?
The introducer at that time told Yang Shanshan that Wang Hongwei was three years older than her.
After meeting, Wang Hongwei asked Yang Shanshan:
"Do you know how old I am?"
guessed, Yang Shanshan didn't know that he was 13 years older than him.
This should be the introduction, who intends to tell a kind lie to match them.
After getting married, Yang Shanshan has made a lot of contributions to the marriage.
Once she hoped to live a life of dink after marriage.
However, after four years of marriage, they have a lovely daughter.
They received their marriage certificate in 2008 and held their wedding in 2009.
has been working together for 14 years now.
Usually, they will quarrel over trivial matters, but it was not Wang Hongwei who took the initiative to admit his mistake, but Yang Shanshan.
As a woman, as a teenager younger than her husband, after having an argument with her husband, she always responds to the situation and actively resolves the conflict. This is a great wisdom when she manages her marriage.
Moreover, Yang Shanshan treats her mother-in-law very filial, and she takes care of her mother-in-law’s food, clothing and expenses.
The mother-in-law is also very satisfied with Yang Shanshan. Sometimes when the whole family is on the show together, the mother-in-law will always hold her thumbs up and praise her daughter-in-law.
My mother-in-law is also very sensible. Sometimes when students come to her home, she will always be busy with fruit plates or chocolates.
A student who has not seen him for several years appears at home again, and his mother-in-law will recognize him and say hello warmly.
The mother-in-law supports her work so much, and Yang Shanshan is also very happy.
After so many years of marriage to Wang Hongwei, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have never been blushed.
Every time the couple quarreled, the old man would always stand on Yang Shanshan's side.
She first criticized her son and then advised her daughter-in-law not to have the same knowledge as her son.
In addition to these, the common topic between the couple is the daughter's education.
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Because he experienced too much pain when he was a child, Wang Hongwei did not want his daughter to be like he did when he was a child.
Both the couple are particularly concerned about their daughter's education.
Every day, Wang Hongwei would get up early and prepare breakfast for his daughter.
20 minutes later, the daughter gets up and plays the piano for 40 minutes before breakfast.
After breakfast, Wang Hongwei will accompany his daughter to rest for half an hour.
During this period, they either read books or play badminton together.
The rest time is over, and my daughter will continue to play the piano for two and a half hours.
Whenever a child is looking for his daughter to play, she will always answer in a tender tone:
"No time, I want to practice the piano."
My daughter has allergic constitution , Wang Hongwei "fewer hair" and dare not dye her hair.
For singers, this disregard for their personal image comes from the deep love for their daughter.
When Wang Hongwei saw his daughter study hard, he felt very distressed and often comforted himself like this:
Don't want his daughter to lose at the starting line. Compared to the suffering we suffered when we were young, what is this?
Since having a child, no matter how busy he is at work, Wang Hongwei will take time to accompany his mother.
He felt that his greatest happiness was not to sing too many good works, but to accompany his family.
The mother is rheumatoid, and her son or daughter-in-law will put hot water for her, then take a shower and rub her back, and cut her toenails.
When you come out after taking a shower, blow dry the old man's hair.
The mother is kind and filial to the son, which is so enviable.
This is Wang Hongwei, the story with their family is ordinary and touching.
Conclusion:
Wang Hongwei has worked hard for his career and has experienced many ups and downs, but his life has been smooth.
Although I have suffered a lot of hardships, I see a rainbow after the storm. After achieving some achievements, he did not fall into fame and fortune. Instead, he calmed down and looked for shortcomings and made himself better.
He was unfortunate when he was young and his father died early.
When he grew up, he was favored by fate.
Although his career has gone through many twists and turns, he met a good teacher.
40 years old, with the help of the teacher, he married the understanding Yang Shanshan.
The mother and son are filial, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are harmonious, the husband and wife are loving, and the daughter is sensible.
Life is like this, what else can you ask for?
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