On October 31, Yu Minhong said in the live broadcast room, "More and more college students have become egoists, and to put it bluntly, they have become refined egoists. They are far from paying attention to what is happening in the world. They pay more attention to the matter between virtual space and classmates. To put it bluntly, they do not have enough ability to have a sense of family and country." Yu Minhong said that this is his personal feeling, and perhaps the judgment is wrong.
This question once hit the hot search for Zhihu , but a former teenager with a sense of family and country wrote this way:
Looking back on the past, as the only rebellious boy in the village who took the college entrance examination, it was like the sun would definitely rise from the West, and I was destined to become the top scorer in the village. So, I'm very inflated. I once frivolously believed that I only had one ministerial position before governing the country, only one listed company before capitalists, and only one white, rich and beautiful person before life winners. Every year I care about GDP. What I care about is agriculture, what I care about is Chinese football. I am confident that I have a strong sense of social responsibility and a strong sense of family and country. I sympathize with the elderly in the nursing home. I went to condolences volunteers. I never hugged my parents' hands, but I held up the feet of strangers under the camera. I sympathized with the poverty of children in the mountain village. I went to teach far away during the summer vacation, leaving behind my mother who had not graduated from junior high school and taking care of my nephew who was equally poor alone; I couldn't stand my classmates' suffering. I ran to raise funds. In order to set an example, I personally asked my mother who was lying on the hospital bed for 200 yuan. Today, I will ask if this is the so-called broad sense of social responsibility? Is this the so-called sense of family and country? My heart was so big, but who will my own, my parents, and my relatives appear in whose sense of social responsibility? Whose family and country will they lie in?
I think Yu Minhong's original intention is to express that young people should have more sense of social responsibility and look at their family and country from a broad perspective. Then this definition of selfishness has hurt many young people who love their small family and country.
In human philosophy, it itself is accompanied by the discussion of the issues of "self-interest" and "social responsibility". In ancient China, "self-restraint and rebuilding rituals", but it will also tell you that "rights and responsibilities" are equal. For example, in the " Loyalty Sutra" in the Han Dynasty, there was a saying: "Therefore, only the rule of the king, practice filial piety and kindness in his family, and serve hard work to serve the king's duties. This is the loyalty of the people." The "tag people" here refers to " Tumen ", which is the vast majority of ordinary people. What does this sentence mean? Simply put, "abiding by the law, being filial to parents and brothers at home, working hard to pay taxes and serve (the ancient tax and corvee system) is loyalty." In the book "Loyalty", the book of the feudal era, it also mentioned that the imperial literati and officials at that time needed to provide a stable social environment and a certain social welfare system and guarantee, while the common people only needed to abide by what they should do.
Look at the post-70s, post-80s, post-90s, and post-00s, idealism is gradually fading away. Whether it is three views or workplace performance, it is becoming increasingly popular in the real self-interest in Yu Minhong's mouth. More reality is that most ordinary people need to work hard for life every day and carry the burden for three meals a day, so "self-interest" has become the instinct of life.
It is inevitable to have the world in mind. We do not laugh at idealism, but we should not be inferior to and focus on reality. Build your own small home and embrace the country and everyone. No matter what method, feelings or actions you use, this is also a kind of patriotism.
