Through the entertainment industry, you will find a cruel truth. If a male star gets fat, people will at most joke "Time is feeding pigs", and there is nothing else.
But if it were female celebrities, people would attack them in various ways, saying that they were not dedicated, saying that they did not know how to manage their figure, etc.
So, the female stars on the screen you see are all thin, so this trend of leanness as beauty has also begun to prevail in real life.
Some girls will feel like they are facing a great enemy when they see the growth figures on the scale, and feel that a little fat on their body is a sin and a symbol of not being beautiful.
Just, is the thin figure that women try every means to hope for really the aesthetic standard of the male group?
regards thinness as beauty. Is it the mainstream aesthetic trend?
TV series " Dear Love " must have attracted a lot of attention. The love story between Han Shangyan and childhood in the play made many viewers unable to help but exclaim.
said that she also wanted such a sweet love, and the heroine Tong Nian has also become the object of imitation among female groups.
is different from the heroine of traditional idol dramas. The actress who plays Tong Nian Yang Zi itself is not a thin physique, she has cute baby fat.
has a fleshy figure, and this shape completely subverts the image of the heroine "melon-shaped face, pointed chin, weak willow and support the wind".
But strangely, such a cute image has been loved by many male audiences.
Before this, the character of Xue Shanshan in the TV series " Shanshan Comes to Eat " also had such a fleshy figure that is not a paper person. Xue Shanshan in the play is a foodie, and there are scenes of her eating seriously with her cheeks in almost every episode, which is very lovely.
In recent years, the heroines of idol dramas have gradually deviated from the category of "paper man", but are more inclined to those slightly fleshy and slightly fat figures that are both slightly fleshy and emitting healthy and fat.
When your eyes are focused on real life, you will find that bloggers from major social platforms have also begun to post photos of slightly fat bodies. Their figures are not the same thin, but they are also well-proportioned and healthy, exuding vigorous vitality.
From this point of view, in today's society, taking thinness as beauty is no longer the mainstream trend aesthetic.
Men’s true inner thoughts about slightly fat women
Of course, the slight fatness in men’s eyes and the slight fatness in women’s eyes are completely different concepts.
On Weibo , there was once a topic about "What is the definition of slight fatness in the eyes of men and women". In the comment section, you can see that slight fatness in men's eyes refers to a well-proportioned and healthy figure, which can be fleshy but not greasy.
is the place where there should be meat, and the place where there should be thinness is thin. Such a figure is usually inseparable from self-discipline, and the slight fatness in girls' eyes is only fat.
In 2017, Japanese NHK TV station conducted a survey on the "slightly fat craze", and the results showed that the male group's love for slightly fat girls increased from 40% in 2015 to 73% in 2016.
There are also male netizens on Zhihu who published an article titled "The benefits of having a slightly fat girlfriend": Imagine that when a slightly fat girlfriend is unhappy, you can pinch her chubby face, then take her to buy a cup of milk tea, and then rub her belly, so that her unhappiness will disappear and your bad mood will be cured.
In the thinking concept of male groups, it is generally believed that slightly fat girls get along better than thin girls, because a slightly fat figure is actually a gift from years of exercise in adulthood, rather than a greasy feeling without curves as we imagine.
Sports Meeting makes people secrete dopamine , which makes people feel happy. Therefore, this is also the reason why people think that girls with slightly fat are easy to get along with, and it is also one of the reasons why male groups like girls with slightly fat.
Every life has the right to pursue the ultimate bloom
Scholars die for confidants, and women to please themselves. In daily life, each of us hopes that we can have a beautiful body, but beauty is not a synonym for restraining us.
The main viewer of beauty in our eyes should be ourselves, and secondly, others should be others, because there are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand readers.
The definitions of beauty in everyone's eyes vary greatly, so when you blindly cater to other people's aesthetics, you will be so tired that you are the only one.
"Every life has the right to pursue the ultimate bloom!" This is a sentence said by the host Dong Qing in the "CCTV Host Competition" about the definition of life.
It is true that each of us has only been in dozens of years. In this, we should be desperately trying to bloom our unique charm, rather than blindly pursuing other people's aesthetic identity.
We should live the way we like, first go to to please ourselves, and then please others, so that you will have full confidence in your heart.
. When you have confidence, you will find that you have never been favored by the opposite sex as you are now, because in the eyes of the world, confident women are the most beautiful.
