University graduation season means that college students need to prepare for employment. What kind of career should choose ? It is the first question that every employer needs to consider.
If the family conditions are superior, Children will naturally dare to have more challenges . After all, with the financial support of the family, they will not be under too much psychological pressure, and the family will always be their solid backing.
But what about those children with ordinary family conditions? Do they choose stable and down-to-earth jobs like most people? The answer is yes. Most people think so. If there are some mistakes in choosing a career, they don’t have much chance to start over.
Some time ago, a topic sparked heated discussions on the Internet: Why don’t children with poor family conditions take the civil service exam? What exactly causes this phenomenon? Is it because they don’t know that the salary and benefits of civil servants are good? This attracted everyone's attention.
Why do children from ordinary families rarely take civil service exams? After learning the reason, I felt sad and realistic!
In some families with poor family conditions, children are helpless. Although I envy many things, I may not be able to get them. This is extremely incomprehensible to those children who have been pampered since childhood. They have to do various calculation costs since childhood. Once they exceed their abilities, reason will tell them that this is absolutely not allowed.
In their growth process, there is always a truth, that is, only knowledge can change their destiny, reading can make them stand out, and only then can they change their poverty status quo.
But They ignore the importance of career planning . Especially after graduating from college, many students began to be confused. They had no plans for their future careers, which led to many people struggling in society for many years before finding the path that suits them. Perhaps only they themselves can understand the sufferings they suffered during this period.
Maybe I am really scared of poverty, Many people have been determined to make money since childhood . Of course, this is also affected by the family. Finally graduated, which means that they can finally create wealth for the family and share family responsibilities with their own hands.
Civil servants This job is a popular for many people . Its salary is relatively stable, its social status is also good, and it is also a staffing job. However, for children from poor families, such income cannot bear their high living expenses. So it is not that they do not take civil servants seriously, but their actual situation does not allow it.
If possible, who doesn’t want to find a decent, stable and relatively easy job? After all, if the family conditions are not good, the two mountains of cars and houses will be overwhelmed, because some of the good classmates in the family have prepared their parents before graduation. In this way, the gap between the two will be huge.
Moreover, these children have been instilled by their parents since childhood, " don't care about anything, just study hard, and other things don't care about ", which makes them not understand how to get along with others after entering society, and interpersonal communication is an obvious weakness.
And affected by the growth environment when I was a child, some of these children are more inferior, and they don’t like to open up to accept others. Of course, they know less or late about some popular topics in society. These will more or less affect their understanding of the civil servant’s work.
Survival is the first problem they need to face . What's more, the competition among civil servants itself is very large, so in terms of thought or reality, they always believe that civil servant positions are beyond them.
Civil servants are not easy to prepare for the exam. It takes at least one year in time. Some even have to apply for such study classes and buy a lot of study materials. This is a lot of expenses. Do they have the energy and strength to take such risks? The answer is definitely not .
They want to try to apply for the exam, but they won’t invest so much. Most of them just use the time of their senior year to prepare for the exam. If they didn’t get ashore in the year of graduation, will never waste too much time on it. They must find a suitable job to ensure their source of life.
A netizen shared online: " Children from ordinary families always tell us how much money we spent for us, which led to the fact that they just wanted to make money as soon as they graduated, and they became workers without planning their lives. " Many people below said that they had also had the same experience, which led to different career choices.
But they have never complained about living a life and are still working hard in all walks of life. Everyone’s life trajectory is different. The so-called success and failure cannot be used to measure anyone who is struggling hard. No one has such qualifications because they are also creating value for society.
Conclusion: Everyone will have different opinions on the public examination, and everyone should choose according to their actual situation.