According to statistics, as of 2020, the number of underage Internet users in my country has reached 183 million. With the increasing number of underage Internet users, it is not uncommon for children to steal their parents’ mobile phones to make large purchases.
Tonight in " What would you do ", we will simulate a similar plot: when a child "spends a lot of money" on the Internet, who bears the consequences? How can parents recover their losses? Tonight at 21:10 "What Would You Do" let's find the answer together!
The education of peers is more effective
"What's wrong with me just adding some money? It's only 8,000 yuan." "Isn't it possible to make money after spending money?" Seeing this scene, the people at the table stopped eating and looked confused. Full of attention.
Suddenly, a man in black sitting at the farthest table approached: "Take out your phone and be obedient." Faced with the child's reluctance to hand over the phone, the man gently persuaded: "Let's make friends, I can take you with me." You don’t have to put money into it to play together. “
The man patiently persuaded his children about the happiness brought by earning money from games. Men believe that they can have fun playing games without spending money, and winning or losing the game has nothing to do with money.
In the process of educating their children, parents need big brothers and sisters of the same age who can not only provide some guidance but also avoid the generation gap. In the end, the man helped his mother "win" the phone back, and at the same time carefully prepared a complete refund process to teach her to recover the loss.
I have no experience, and I don’t know how hard my parents are.
“What’s wrong with me just adding some money? It’s only 8,000 yuan, it’s just money spent.” Faced with the fact that the child has not established a correct view of money, the lady at the table next to her discussed with her daughter Children should be allowed to experience firsthand how difficult it is to make money.
When the mother was eager for her child to return the money quickly, the child said confidently: "These are virtual props, and they cannot be refunded after recharging money." The lady at the table next to her directly intervened: "He can refund the money because he is a minor. "In addition, the lady also suggested calling the police for help to recover the loss.
Later, the lady also used her daughter’s positive teaching materials on how to be diligent and thrifty to tell her children not to squander money carelessly. Faced with the fact that the children were still unconvinced and believed that money is only for spending, the lady’s daughter said directly: “Are you spending your own money? When you have the ability, can you spend it on your own after making money?”
Finally, Ms. Teach children in a slow voice that it is not easy for their parents to make money. They have no personal experience and do not know the hardships of their parents. At the same time, the lady once again emphasized to her children the importance of these eight thousand dollars to the entire family’s expenses.
Cultivating a correct concept of money is the first step to curb children's impulsive consumption. In the last set of observations, the two mothers at the next table seemed to have another trick up their sleeves.
The healthy growth of minors requires the efforts of all parties.
"You are my mother, isn't it natural for you to spend money on me?" "Can't all money be earned?" After hearing this, as a mother, neighbors A woman at the table had angry eyes.
"If you want to tell me like this, just get out of here." "Why, why should I make money for you?" The lady seemed to be educating her daughter, but her daughter was repeatedly accused of being innocent.
The mother took the mobile phone and planned to refund the money. The child shouted angrily: "Give me the mobile phone!" At the same time, he reached out and tried to snatch the mobile phone. The lady at the table intervened directly, and the two mothers cooperated tacitly to successfully transfer the mobile phone.
Later, the lady changed her previous anger and gently educated the child, and successfully reconciled the child with her mother. Finally, the lady provided advice to the mother: the discipline of the child should be in place, and the companionship and communication with the child should also be in place.
Children spend a lot of money on the Internet. This is due to loopholes in the supervision of online platforms and a lack of education and companionship from parents. Children living in the era of digital payment lack the experience of using banknotes. To them, money is just a string of numbers on their mobile phones.Therefore, the correct establishment of the concept of money requires more parental education for them. In addition, due to the lack of parental presence, children choose to play games. For them, they can find friendship and a sense of accomplishment in games.
Therefore, both online platforms and parents must shoulder their own social responsibilities. Only by joint efforts from all aspects can we better promote the health and growth of minors.
