A person's life always alternates between suffering and happiness. Life will not always be unlucky, nor will it always be smooth sailing.
A 30-year-old female medical doctor from Anhui Province was paralyzed after pregnancy, with facial deformity and complete blindness in her right eye. After taking the risk to give birth to a child, her husband handed over a "divorce agreement" and the woman readily agreed.
She is a doctor, but she never imagined that the scene of "doctors who don't heal themselves will find it difficult to save others" would happen in her life.
Her name is Wang Lei and she was born in Huangshan, Anhui in 1982.
grew up in a family with a medical environment. My mother is a village doctor and often helps people in the village treat their illnesses.
Sometimes, Wang Lei would stay next to his mother and watch her heal her illnesses. Under the influence of his ears and eyes, Wang Lei's inner "medical dream" began to sprout quietly.
After going to school, Wang Lei told himself: He must become a doctor, treat more patients, and bring hope to patients.
Central South University Xiangya Hospital is a very good medical school in China. Ever since his medical dream took root, Wang Lei has been dreaming of one day entering the university gate of Xiangya Hospital.
In 2001, Wang Lei relied on his own efforts to get admitted to Xiangya Hospital of Central South University.
Here she completed her undergraduate studies.
After completing her undergraduate studies, she did not choose the school's postgraduate program, but chose the five-year doctoral training program.
She chose the difficult neurology field as the main field of study for her PhD.
Diseases such as cerebral hemorrhage and Parkinson's disease as we know them are all neurological diseases. Compared with other departments in medicine, neurology is very difficult.
After all, the brain is a very complex system, with thousands of neural networks distributed inside. A little carelessness may lead to irreparable consequences.
Wang Lei is a person who refuses to admit defeat and likes challenges. During the five years of doctoral training, Wang Lei obtained a doctorate in clinical medicine through his own efforts.
After graduating from school, Wang Lei was assigned to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Nanchang University. She was recognized by her seniors for her excellent professional knowledge and practical performance.
What followed was a continued rise in career. While her career was on the rise, she met her true love. The two fell in love and got married quickly. Shortly after the marriage, she became pregnant.
At this time, she was already 30 years old, with a successful career, a happy family, and a satisfactory job. Everything seemed so perfect.
The impending arrival of the child makes the whole family very happy.
The bad news also came at this moment.
bad news
On December 13, 2012, Wang Lei was on duty in the hospital as usual. Suddenly, I felt a fit of vomiting and ran to the toilet.
Looking at her own condition, Wang Lei subconsciously knew that the vomiting this time was not like the vomiting during pregnancy, but she didn't think much about it. She thought her reaction was caused by too many medical appointments and overwork during this period of pregnancy. .
The shift ended and he returned home as usual. When she arrived at the door of her home, Wang Lei's mother was cooking. When she heard her daughter knocking on the door, her mother hurriedly ran to open the door.
After opening the door, Wang Lei entered the house while talking about his physical discomfort. Before he finished speaking, Wang Lei fainted and was rushed to the hospital in desperation.
When he was sent to the hospital, Wang Lei had lost spontaneous breathing and was in a state of severe coma. After a quick operation by the doctor, putting him on a ventilator and doing a CT scan, the situation was under control.
Finally, the doctor diagnosed that Wang Lei had suffered a large area of brain hemorrhage, with up to two-thirds of the damaged area.
Brain stem hemorrhage What is the concept of ?
The brainstem is the life center of the human body and is responsible for important functions such as breathing and heartbeat. Once damage occurs, there are only two consequences: either paralysis or death. The degree of paralysis depends on the extent of brain stem damage .
In the case of Wang Lei with brain damage to both sides of her brain, surviving is the first difficulty she faces because she has damage to both brain stems.
Fortunately, Wang Lei raced against death and Wang Lei won. Vital signs are considered to be in a relatively stable state.
Where will the child go?
However, Wang Lei is now pregnant, and the fate of the child has become a worrying issue.
If he wants to have a child, Wang Lei's body will need a lot of medicine. Whether the child will be affected, whether he will be healthy after birth, and whether it will have an impact on the child's life are all unknown.
How would Wang Lei react when he woke up if he didn't want children? Can I still get pregnant in the future? Will there be resentment? This is also unknown.
Faced with this choice, Wang Lei's mother thought over and over again and decided to give birth to the child, because the mother knew her daughter's expectations for the child. After choosing
, Wang Lei started a series of conservative treatments.
When you have a fever, you use physical cooling ; when you can't eat, you take nutrient solution or eat through your nose.
Finally, in August 2013, four weeks before the due date, the doctor decided to cut out the baby early.
started a series of treatments.
Fortunately, the child was healthy after birth and had no sequelae. For this reason, his father named him "Siyuan".
Siyuan's birth caused her mother, who was already suffering from ischemia, to bleed again. This hemorrhage also caused Wang Lei to be completely paralyzed, and his right eyeball became necrotic.
Wang Lei also knows clearly that the chance of standing up again in this life is very slim, but she has no regrets.
Her experience is a true portrayal of "A doctor does not heal himself, but it is difficult to help others but himself."
Meanwhile, another ordeal was coming.
Divorce
Wang Lei was paralyzed at this time and needed care; the child had just been born and needed care; Wang Lei's husband chose to divorce her at this moment.
When Wang Lei's husband proposed divorce, Wang Lei readily agreed.
She knows: people cannot be retained, besides, who is willing to spend a lot of time and energy on a "waste person" .
Wang Lei agreed very coolly, but daily life became increasingly haggard.
My mother looked at her increasingly haggard face, feeling unspeakably distressed. In order to cheer up Wang Lei, her mother held the child in front of her many times, trying to cheer him up with maternal love.
Looking at the infant child, Wang Lei couldn't help but shed tears from the corners of his eyes while touching the child's cute face.
Yes, she is a mother, she must be strong!
Road to Recovery
After being discharged from the hospital, she and her mother returned home and began a long-term rehabilitation life.
At the beginning, she only had one finger to move, so how could she accept defeat?
endured the pain of Chinese medicine stimulating acupuncture points while training with the help of his parents.
html In 2006, with her own efforts and the love of her family, she was finally able to sit in a wheelchair by herself and occasionally move around on her own.
This is already a blessing among misfortunes!
There is a bright future
However, the medical dream of childhood did not turn into ashes in the fight against the disease, but intensified!
She is not willing to let her medical knowledge only exist in her head, and she is not willing to let her dream come to nothing!
She tried every means and finally decided to open an online forum to share knowledge about medicine and help others online.
In 2016, she taught herself programming, purchased a website domain name, and founded the Sixtieth Forum to provide answers to patients with various diseases.
Slowly, she also began to realize her medical dream of online medical treatment.
In her sixty-year-old forum, she patiently answers every patient's reply, but her speed is a little slower.
Because she only has one finger that can move, she can only type a dozen words a minute at first.
Even so, she still insisted on replying.
At first, some inquirers on the forum complained that the response was too slow. Later, after learning the truth, every inquirer stopped complaining.
In 2021, the reporter came to Wang Lei's home again. When the reporter arrived, Wang Lei had already started a day of consultation work.
She knew that a guest was coming and tried hard to turn her head to show courtesy, but her stiff body didn't allow it.
The infant child is now ten years old. In his spare time, he plays the violin to help his mother relieve her pain and distract her from her unhappiness.
In the little boy’s impression, his mother has been different from others since he can remember.
The little boy warmed his mother with his actions, and warmed his mother's frozen heart with the purest love in the world.
There is a saying that is particularly good:
No matter how dark the night is, there will be dawn. If you take a brave step forward, you may be able to see the blue sea and blue sky!
