There is a cry in " Dream of Red Mansions ": Embarrassing people are bound to be embarrassed, Yuanyang Women swear never to be lovers.
What is said is that Mrs. Xing of Rongguo Mansion was not favored by her mother-in-law, but she didn't know the heights of heaven and earth. She even rushed to pluck the girl from her mother-in-law's heart and make her a concubine for her husband. What was the result? It was so embarrassing, the kind where I was so embarrassed by my mother-in-law that I couldn't even find a crack in the floor.
This actually shows a problem, "Embarrassing people tend to encounter embarrassing things" , One's own identity and situation are obviously not very good, but if you still don't know it, then you will inevitably encounter something embarrassing.
There are such people in real life, such as the 74-year-old "Millennium Crown Prince" Charles of the British royal family. That is an embarrassing person.
Why do you say this? In fact, we can start from his birth.
When Charles was born in 1948, his mother Elizabeth II had not yet ascended the throne, so he lived a happy life for two years.
My mother loves me, my father supports me, my grandpa the king dotes on me, and my grandma the queen loves me. It’s like being surrounded by stars.
In 1952, the king's grandfather George VI suddenly disappeared. Now that his mother took office, he, the first prince of the royal family, immediately changed his identity: became the first heir to the throne.
Some people think that this is Charles' good luck and his reincarnation skills are extremely high.
But only he knew it, because he suddenly became a prince from the royal darling, and his status soared instantly. His father Prince Philip disliked him.
Why? Prince Philip himself is very affectionate with the Queen, has a loving wife and young children, and lives a happy life as a child. But suddenly he became the queen. He had to kneel down in front of his wife and became the man behind the queen from then on.
If you change anyone, you won’t feel comfortable, right? Prince Philip was already feeling uncomfortable, but his son happened to be a head above him: the future King of England.
This question is subtle. As a prince, if his son inherits the throne, do you think he should worship his son and be loyal to him?
Although Prince Philip just felt unhappy at the time, he was not jealous of his four or five-year-old son.
html Twenty-six years later, his wife officially awarded the title of crown prince to 10-year-old Charles. Now he was completely confused.
What a sweet and happy little family suddenly turned into a structure of wife, queen, and son, crown prince. He himself became the one who listens and drinks. This is simply too frustrating.
As a result, Prince Philip began to dislike Charles's son in various ways, and he was picky and picky. It is said that as long as Charles and his sister Anne do something wrong together, the person who will be punished and disciplined will definitely be Charles.
Prince Philip doesn’t care whether Charles is the crown prince or not. When he was still giving orders to his son, he almost did it.
For this reason, the relationship between Charles and his father is very tense.
As for sending his son to a private school to strengthen his will, it goes without saying. Even the mother-in-law can't stand it anyway.. It wasn't until Charles went to Australia that he truly got rid of his father's "difficulty".
Do you think Charles is embarrassed like this?
There must be ten thousand elephants running in his heart: He can't blame himself if his father can't become the king. It's his own choice to kneel down and worship his mother, but he wants to take it out on himself, and he can't say anything. This is really embarrassing. .
But who knew that Charles would meet Camilla again at this time? How could a woman who only wanted to catch a rich son-in-law and never cared about her personal image be qualified to enter the royal family?
In this regard, the royal family's decision represented by Prince Philip directly affected Charles' confidence . In the end, he could only insincerely marry Diana , who was more than 10 years younger than him.
But everyone knows the result. Charles and Camilla, who did not forget their old love during marriage, had various connections, and even the "phone scandal" was exposed.
As a result, embarrassment in capital letters was written on his face, and Charles could not avoid being embarrassed in his life.
Sure enough, after the "call scandal", he was unable to truly draw a clear line with Camilla. In the end, Diana faced the problem of "too crowded a three-person marriage" and let the public know who Charles was.
When the royal family was exposed, the queen naturally took care of it. She ordered her son and daughter-in-law to be divorced.
But this is just an operation to quench thirst by drinking poison. Once Diana divorced, Charles's personality collapsed.
Especially when Diana died in a car accident the following year, Charles became the target of public criticism.
Do you think this is embarrassing?
In fact, there are too many divorces in reality. Because he is the crown prince, it has become a major matter of national concern. Moreover, Diana's death actually had little to do with him, but people just insisted on blaming him. Who was offended?
Of course, this is not the only thing that embarrasses Charles. He is determined to marry Camilla . This is an embarrassing thing in itself: he can't see clearly how much he weighs.
Camilla quietly entered the royal family. Even though her name was justifiable, the British people just didn't recognize her. Moreover, after many years of marriage, she can only have the title of duchess. Doesn’t it sound awkward for a crown prince to marry a duchess?
Although the Queen intends to support Camilla to prepare for her son to ascend the throne in the future.
But if we think about it carefully, we will understand this question: Can the Duchess be directly promoted to Queen?
This is probably an important issue. The Queen has taken the lead in defending Camilla, asking everyone to face up to her ability and identity and become the queen in the future.
But to this day, Camilla is still a duchess, and status cannot be promoted, so the chance of her becoming queen is very doubtful. Who knows what will change in the future?
I’m afraid Charles is used to being embarrassed, right? He couldn't even think about these things. Because he is already big enough. He has been the crown prince for more than 60 years. If my old mother still does not abdicate, I am afraid that he will pass through the position of crown prince, right?
To be honest, just thinking about it makes me sympathize with Charles.
If the person who has been a prince for the longest time in history breaks such a record, then Charles will have to embarrass himself to a new level.
Even so, Charles was not treated well, and the British people almost "forced" him: Multiple polls have shown that Charles' support for the throne is always behind his son.
Just after the Queen's Platinum Jubilee celebrations, William's polls showed a counterattack: Domestic support for William's accession to the throne reached 64%, and even Kate's support rate was 60%.
With this support rate, how can Charles and Camilla compete with others?
Isn’t this just like hitting an egg with an egg? Faced with this situation, Charles probably just wanted to compose a poem: Oh, embarrassing people are so embarrassing, they have been like this since childhood... Most people can't understand so many embarrassing feelings, and they can't empathize with them.
Charles can only slowly taste this embarrassing life by himself, and then when he has time, he and Camilla can discuss specific ways to deal with the embarrassment. Anyway, Camilla is also the embodiment of royal embarrassment. An old couple just happens to be a couple. They should have quite a common language when talking about this issue, right?
