Seimei Abe: "What do you think is the shortest mantra in the world?"
Yuan Boya: "The shortest mantra? Don't make me think about it, just tell me."
Seimei Abe: "The shortest mantra in the world , is the 'name'."
Source Boya: "Name?"
Abe Seimei: "Yes."
Source Boya: "Like you are Seimei , I am Boya, this kind of 'name'?"
Abe Seimei: "Exactly. Names like mountains, seas, trees, grass, insects, etc. are also a kind of mantra."
Yuan Boya: "I don't understand."
Abe Seimei: "The so-called mantra, in short In short, it is bondage. A name is a thing that binds the basic appearance of things. If there is something in the world that cannot be named, then it is nothing. It might as well say that it does not exist."
Yuan Boya: "Your words It's hard to understand."
Abe Seimei: "Take your name 'Boya' as an example, although you and I are both human beings, but you are bound by the curse of 'Boya', and I am bound by the spell 'Seimei' The person bound by this spell.”
Source Boya: “If I don’t have a name, it’s just me, am I not in this world?”
Abe Seimei: “No, you still exist. It’s just that Boya disappeared.”
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name of "Onmyoji" is a symbol, but it has extraordinary meaning for everyone.
was born along with people, and also came to this world. Even after some people die, his name still exists in people's hearts.
In people's communication, the first information of other people is often the name. When we hear the name of the person we have a crush on, we will feel shy; when we hate someone, we will write down the name of the other person when we are pricking the villain; when we take the exam, sign the contract, and register, we will write down the name... ..
The existence of a name is basically equal to the existence of a person.
If my name is "Wang Ergou", this unpleasant name will hurt my self-esteem; if my name is "Liu Mingxuan", then I must have more confidence: my name is nice; if my name is "Xuan 靐龘", Then I must be very troubled...
If I have the same name as someone else, what kind of emotion will it produce?
My name is " Jay Chou ", but it doesn't mean that I can also become the king of music. The phenomenon of duplication of names can be seen everywhere, but the trajectory of life is completely different.
name. It is ambiguous, but it cannot be easily shaken off. When people see people with the same name and surname as themselves, they subconsciously feel awkward and uncomfortable. Because you will subconsciously make comparisons.
is like two radishes in front of you, you will definitely compare which one is bigger and more hydrated. If
has the same name and surname as an idol star, scientist, or corporate celebrity, when others hear the name, they will have expectations of it and set higher standards. The more you can't compare with the other party, the more others will be disappointed by the gap, and then conclude that this is just a counterfeit with the same name.
"The name is a battle for the first strike. No matter whether it is a bad name or a good name, as long as you become famous first, you can occupy the name." Although
feels a bit harsh, it seems that it is true thing.
is like a bunch of big radishes, and I want to be the most eye-catching one.
But what happens if you have the same name as the criminal?
NetEase's " Nishuihan " was influenced by Wu Yifan's public opinion, the official gave out a wave of name change posts to all IDs with "Wu Yifan" for free. It can be seen that the net name and nickname will affect a person, let alone in real life Woolen cloth?
"No one has ever seriously thought about how painful it is for a person with the same name as a serious criminal. Even if the person with the same name confides, we will feel that it is no big deal. Let me give you an example, the pain of the victim and the victim's family, everyone You can imagine it. Recently, the pain of the families of the perpetrators has also received attention. Reports and special issues of magazines will focus on them. But what about the person with the same name as the criminal? This is a real pain for the parties involved, but the public is completely unaware of it."
"Association of Victims with the Same Name and Surname" tells such a story: A tragedy that shocked the whole country happened overnight. Anyone with the same name and surname as Dashan Masaki was suspected of being the murderer, and even became the object of wanton venting. From From the social network to the real world, they are forced into a desperate situation with nowhere to escape.
Different people are bound together because of the name "Dashan Zhengji", and have suffered all kinds of non-physical violence: sarcastic comments from others, rejection from colleagues, Lost the opportunity to find a job....
I never thought that some people hate this name because of the crime of "Dashan Zhengji", but some people thank this name for getting rid of the shackles they once had.
villains get rid of people's attention , needs more evil people to appear. Good people lie down because of this.
As an ordinary person, the only way to get rid of this curse is to try to make yourself better and change the negative impact of the name.
If Hiding behind the name, what can we do?
"Association of Victims with the Same Name" Some people killed people under the name of "Dashan Masaki" and told a big lie but no one found out.
As ordinary people, we, But we can vent our dissatisfaction with the name in the online world.
We wear the mask of "nickname" and hold the scepter of "justice" in our hands to attack anyone who thinks differently from us in the online world.
Although we hate keyboard warriors and trolls, we will always be rhythmically led invisibly and become a part of the torrent of language violence.
"Association of Victims with the Same Name and Same Surname" is an original reasoning of socialism , which attracts people Think deeply.
There are always people who are eloquent and attack when they see "bad" phenomena.
What's even more ridiculous is that everyone shouts angrily that "verbal violence is also violence", but they continue to carry out This kind of invisible violence. What exactly is
justice? What criteria should be used to determine it?
What should we say? What should we say euphemistically? What should we not say?