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Xiao Wang is a child from an ordinary family, and his pocket money is only one or two hundred.
But last month, he spent 300,000 yuan.
This money is the study abroad expenses that his parents prepared for bankruptcy.
Because studying abroad requires capital verification, the parents put the money into the card in his name.
But the selected school has not yet started, and the money is squandered.
How did you splurge?
A pair of shoes, 8,000 yuan.
bar and KTV, 30,000 yuan.
massage shop, tens of thousands of yuan per night.
spends the most time on board games.
In a shop called "Maid Board Game", Xiao Wang had a great time.
The girls here are all wearing the most popular "Lolita" costumes, with sweet smiles and attractive voices.
every time Xiao Wang comes to play,I would find four beautiful girls to accompany myself.
One girl is one hundred dollars an hour, and four is four hundred.
If you play for ten hours, it is four thousand.
After ten o'clock in the evening, the cost per person per hour will rise to 160 yuan.
There is also a reward, 888 yuan per time.
In addition, there are tickets, private rooms and other consumption.
Xiao Wang went to play many times.
also added a few girls on WeChat, and sent extra red envelopes for rewards.
Under all kinds of "enjoyment", spending money is like running water.
When Mr. Wang noticed that, the 300,000 study abroad fee was not much left.
Annoyed that the child was not up to date, he went to the store where the child was spending, hoping to get a refund.
because the child is under 18 years old when he consumes.
Even at that time, Xiao Wang was only one month away, and he was about to celebrate his 18th birthday.
Can the store refund the money?
8000 yuan shoes, you wear them for half a month, which affects the second sale, how to refund?
bars, restaurants, KTV, massage shops,You have eaten, drunk, and enjoyed the service. How to refund?
The maid board game boss said that Xiao Wang is one month old to 18 years old, but he looks like his 20s.
And, there is no legal requirement that minors cannot play board games.
Our store clearly marked the price, without any compulsory consumption or induced consumption.
The girl in the store played with him for many days, more than ten hours a day, how can I cancel this service?
Mr. Wang took the reporters and looked for them from home to home.
Some bosses are willing to give some subsidies after knowing the whole story.
somewhat unwilling.
The maid board game is humanitarian and willing to refund 5000 yuan.
Mr. Wang disagrees.
02
In this matter, should each boss refund Mr. Wang?
lawyer said that the refund should be negotiated.
The Civil Code also says that minors are persons with limited capacity for civil conduct.His consumption should be approved or ratified by the parents.
Xiao Wang's consumption behavior is invalid.
Of course, in this matter, the parents have not fulfilled their guardianship responsibilities.
Therefore, how much money the operator wants to return needs to be further negotiated.
So in this matter, who is more responsible for the operator or the parent?
I think the responsibility of parents is greater.
Xiao Wang is about to be 18 years old, not eleven or twelve years old. He is young and ignorant. The operator can tell at a glance that he is a minor and he must discourage large consumption.
A person who is about to be 18 years old is about to be far away from his parents. Those who study abroad don't know how to spend money on a plan?
Xiao Wang doesn't know.
This is a family education issue.
Now many parents are frugal and give the best to their children. In the hot summer, they are reluctant to buy a bottle of water, but they refuse to make their children feel wronged.
For the sake of face and the dignity of the children, many families are gritting their teeth.
At the beginning of June this year, CCTV criticized Shanxi's luxurious birthday party.
in Taiyuan, Shanxi,Many elementary school students are 12 years old and have to go to the hotel to hold birthday banquets.
Any mid-to-high-end restaurant, a table of dishes costs more than 3,000 yuan.
Dishes include liao ginseng, raw oysters, abalone and so on.
20 tables, six to seven thousand.
There will also be host, sound, lighting, clown, magic and other performances, and multiple videographers must be hired to record.
All the expenses are calculated, and it costs two to three hundred thousand.
Not all families can afford it.
Ms. Li who was interviewed said that she is a working class and not rich.
But the child said that all the classmates in the school are doing it.
can only bite the bullet.
Although some gifts can be recovered, there are still tens of thousands of dollars in expenditure.
The money is the income of the family for several months.
A child who celebrates his 12th birthday in a luxury hotel, can you know that his parents are gritting their teeth to help themselves?
can know the money,Do I need a few months' salary for my parents?
Most people don’t know.
In their eyes, it is very easy for parents to give 500 yuan in gifts to their classmates on their birthdays.
It’s normal to spend two or three hundred thousand to hold a birthday party for my own birthday.
They never wanted to do it. It's hard to make money.
I don’t even know how much you can buy for five hundred dollars.
Two or three hundred thousand yuan, how much can you do?
03
Knowing that there are two problems, it is particularly meaningful to compare them.
One question is:
For junior high school students on their birthday, can they ask for more than 5,000 shoes?
There is a high praise comment:
Seeing this question, I was very shocked.
Young people’s pursuit of material things has reached this point.
I know this kind of thing,It depends on family conditions.
Wang Jianlin gave Wang Sicong one billion. No one said Wang Sicong was gnawing at the old and wasting money.
But most families do not have this strength.
also think about it, do you really need such expensive shoes?
You think "the family can afford this money", is it really capable?
How much shoes do your parents wear, do you know?
If their shoes are only two hundred dollars, why do you ask for five thousand shoes and say that the family can afford it?
Another question is:
If you are asked to kowtow to the person you hate the most and call grandpa, kowtow to give 10,000 yuan at a time, and you will kowtow to your friends circle. What are you doing?
The high praise comments are like this:
The live broadcast of the circle of friends is too much, this kind of thing really can’t be known, what if someone grabs a spot?
It is the children who are entangled in this matter.
I have been working for more than ten years. I haven't been doing this one day, and the money is still not so much.
Someone posted a picture.
is just a picture, without saying anything, got more than three thousand likes.
and I know the answer, @李小默, and wrote the reasons why everyone agrees with this statement.
Your boss is holding the file, in front of the entire company, shaking your face, and yelling at you with a dishevelled face
Are you still working
Back to the question_ span4span
Is there any essential difference between the two?
is all about exchanging dignity for money.
Kowtowing is not only easy, but the rate of return is even higher. Why not knock?
Is the mortgage too good, or is the child's tuition too low?
The betrayal of dignity for profit is too sparse and common in society, and it is not worth discussing at all.
As long as my body allows, I will keep knocking.
If you can withstand 100 knocks, you will have the down payment for the second suite.
If you can knock over 200, you can consider it when your child grows up to study abroad.
If we can knock over 300, everything will be improved for parents to provide for the elderly, wife’s car, and family’s quality of life.
if more...
is just sacrificing my dignity,It is much easier than sacrificing health to work.
Many times, compared with the pressure of life, dignity is not worth mentioning.
All the high praise comments are talking about a problem, the money is hard to make.
is too hard to earn.
However, many children from ordinary families do not know this truth.
Because of their love for children, too many parents gritted their teeth to make money and save money all the time, while saying to their children:
It’s okay, you have money at home, and you can buy whatever you want.
So many children have created the illusion that the family is rich.
There are some parents who never talk about money with their children, so that many people are almost adults and don’t know how much money they can do.
This spring, a 16-year-old girl in Mianyang, Sichuan played a game, recharged more than 300 times and spent more than 90,000 yuan.
This is all my mother’s savings for two years.
When the reporter interviewed, the girl said innocently:
I saw the SMS reminder, but I didn't realize that this was all the savings at home.
I didn’t know that the money was so big.
The game company is indeed responsible for this, but are the parents not?
04
One issue of the topic of "Wonderful Talk" is:
, should parents tell their children?
Fu Seoul said:
"Real inferiority complex is better than false self-confidence. Stones grow stubborn grass, but soap bubbles can't bloom
p0." I agree with her point of view.Many people worry about telling their children that if the family is not rich, the children will feel inferior and will not have a happy childhood.
will affect personality.
This is totally nonsense.
If family finances are really difficult, children can feel it. This is beyond the scope of discussion.
We are talking about ordinary working families.
This type of family has a house and a car, and has new deposits every year, but they cannot afford to buy big brands and have no strength and luxury to compare.
Such families must tell their children the true status of the home.
And I believe that as long as parents have a little patience and some skills, children can grow up confidently.
We can say to our children:
Thousands of dollars in shoes, big-name clothes, two- and three-thousand-thousandth birthday banquets, don’t follow suit.
This is not cool.
We can use the money to travel and see the world.
can use the money to invest, and take the kids to see how money makes money.
After children have a little knowledge of financial business, they will have a plan to spend money.
can also take the children to the vegetable market to see how much meat, eggs and milk can be bought for a hundred dollars, and how many delicious dishes they can make.
Take the children to the hospital and let them know that 100,000 yuan can save a life.
I believe that with these experiences, children will never squander 300,000 study abroad fees a month.
will not let the family hold a luxurious birthday party just to save face.
because they know that the money is of better use.
They will not feel inferior.
because, people who have seen the real world,The heart will not easily follow blindly.
will not be short-sighted.
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Hello, I’m Jiuchen, a full-time mother, using code words to lighten up life.
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