What would you do if you were born without arms? Maybe you will say it doesn't matter, I can use my feet instead. Although
is inconvenient, it is also helpful in life.
What if you have no legs? You will say that you can crawl on the ground with your hands, or wear prosthetic limbs.
You always have a way to survive.
But what if there are no limbs?
You may be thinking how unlucky that person is!
But this possibility exists. He was born in Australia and was born without limbs.
This is a disease called seal limb disease, but now he is worth over 100 million and has given birth to four children.
Born with a disability
Many people's disabilities are not born but acquired.
Because for a person who is born with a disability, he will be exposed to malice from all sides since he was a child. Therefore, children who are born with disabilities generally die at a very early age.
However, the children who survived must be very strong.
In 1982, the son of a nurse in Australia was born. During her pregnancy, she did not miss every pregnancy test.
But the moment she saw the child, she was still scared. The child she was looking forward to had no limbs and only had something like a "foot" on the lower left side.
After seeing the child's father, he couldn't accept that this was his child and started vomiting directly.
The doctor gave a more professional explanation, but this does not prevent the children's parents from feeling scared.
As a mother, or even a nurse, her child is like this, and as a mother she feels very guilty.
His parents understand that disability is never the child's fault, but the cost of raising a disabled child is very serious.
His parents are in a dilemma. Let’s not talk about whether the child can still live a normal life, but whether the child can be raised. Will the child have psychological problems after being raised?
These are all worries as parents.
After several days and nights of thinking, the couple reached a unified opinion.
My own child is born with a disability, which is already very pitiful. If a parent gives up on him, his life will be really pitiful.
They chose to raise their child and named him Nick Vujicic .
The couple tried to raise their child. Even though their child had no limbs, the parents still cared for him like a normal child.
They took their child around to see doctors, trying to find a way to help him live a normal life, but there was really no way to deal with such a condition.
Husband and wife often come here in good spirits and return in bad moods. Gradually, they come to accept that their children will grow up in such a posture.
As a result, his parents raised him up with all their heart and gave him love and care.
Special education method
Compared with the doting of some parents, in the eyes of outsiders, his father's education was inhumane.
His father put him into the water to learn to swim when he was more than one year old. It was right or wrong to put a child without limbs into the water to learn to swim.
This is the uniqueness of father’s education. In the eyes of outsiders, this is a very dangerous thing, and normal children of the same age may not be able to complete it.
But his father knew very well that this was what he had to experience. His father did not relax his requirements because he was a disabled person. In his heart, his child was a normal child.
He had no arms, so around the age of six, his father taught him to type using his only toes.
In his childhood, he was not protected by airtight. He learned to swim, play ball, write, and even brush his teeth with his toes like ordinary children.
His parents will help their children study at home. When they reached the appropriate age, they also sent their children to school with other children.
He has lived with his parents for eight years, and he has never felt sad because of his physical problems.
But the school life that every child has to go through made him deeply aware of his own differences, and it almost killed him.
Facing humiliation
When he went to elementary school on his first day, like most children, he was full of expectations for campus life.
But after arriving at school, without the protection of his parents, he was faced with the malicious intent of the students.
The children felt particularly curious when they looked at the body that was different from their own. After being curious, they laughed at him.
Children's words may be unintentional, but their words are also the most hurtful because they are the most intuitive feelings in their hearts.
Faced with the ridicule of his classmates, he could only choose to remain silent, but what he got in return was their arbitrary behavior.
Because of his differences, he became a target in the class.
He couldn't sit in a chair in class. He could only stand on the table. In order to bully him, his classmates said that he was blocking his sight, so he was "exiled" to the last row.
even had a fight around him after class. A group of children would consider anyone different from them to be "alien". His school life was not as beautiful as he imagined.
Long-term campus life made him no longer optimistic. His psychology eventually developed due to long-term bullying.
He began to become taciturn, sensitive and had low self-esteem. He had no way to stop the unfair treatment of his classmates and was unable to make changes.
When he was ten years old, Nick, who was desperate, had the idea of suicide. He shouted to his mother that he did not want to live anymore.
He even took action. He couldn't understand the meaning of his survival.
On that day, when no one was at home, he filled the bathtub with water. The height for a normal person to take a bath was enough to kill him.
He entered the water and clearly felt that the water level was up to his head.
After a few seconds, he began to be unable to breathe. His body's instinct made him start to struggle, but it was useless. He could not climb out of the bathtub by himself.
He choked several times and his consciousness began to blur. At this time, his mother rushed in and rescued him.
Their parents finally realized that their son's psychological problems could no longer be ignored.
This was his first suicide. He wanted to give up his life many times in his subsequent life, but failed.
His parents try their best to guide him, but the damage has been done and there is no way to make up for it.
With the help of his parents, he continued to go back to school to complete his studies.
Life Changes
In the process of studying, because of my own specialness, I will inevitably be criticized by others.
He once told a story when he was giving a speech. He recorded that twelve people laughed at him one day.
So, he thought that if more people laughed at him tomorrow, then he would give up on himself.
After school was over the next day, he was about to leave the classroom when a girl stopped him. He felt very rejected in his heart, and he was afraid that he would be laughed at again.
The girl came over. She called his name and told him that she liked his smile very much and that he looked very good today.
For a moment, his heart exploded and he felt great.
Someone suddenly told him that he was good-looking. He knew that he was finally accepted by others. He didn't care at all what the twelve people who laughed at him thought.
Later, when he was thirteen years old, he saw a report about disabled people. The protagonist in the report, although disabled, had become successful in his career through his own efforts.
This allowed him to see a glimmer of light, and he also understood that his life could not be immersed in pain forever, and his life had to change.
His mentality also began to change. He began to discover that he had a talent for speaking, and he began to move towards becoming a speaker.
He began to write his own speeches, incorporating his own personal experiences into stories, using himself as the best example to add to his speeches.
He began to develop his expressive skills. He practiced over and over again with his own manuscript, and he enjoyed it even if there was no audience.
When he was in school, he did not share his works with others. He kept polishing them, trying to make his works more powerful, turning words into sharp blades and awakening lost people.
He focused his audience on students. He had received ill will from his classmates and also had adolescent impulses. Because he had personally experienced similar pain, he could empathize with students .
When he was nineteen, he wanted to give lectures and make phone calls to colleges and universities, but he was neither a knowledgeable scholar nor a successful entrepreneur.
He was ruthlessly rejected as a joke.
However, he has experienced so many hardships, how could he give up easily? The phone calls came one after another. On the fiftieth time, he was finally accepted by a principal, but the principal only allowed him to speak for five minutes, and the reward was Very few.
He was very excited and thanked the principal for giving him this opportunity. The two of them set a time and he started to prepare.
's first speech lasted only five minutes. Every word he said had to be carefully polished and every word considered.
The first time he stepped on the stage to give a speech, he had some stage fright at first, but he gave strength to the students like a friend, and he thought it was about to end.
But after it was over, there was a burst of cheers from the audience. When the students looked at him with eyes full of admiration, he knew that he had succeeded.
Later, he officially started his speaking career, and he began to use his life experience to enlighten people who were confused or had gone astray.
He began to let more students understand the importance of life and make them more determined. For children facing campus bullying, he told them not to give up on themselves.
His speech warmed many students, and his reputation began to rise. The principals who once rejected him now come here because of his reputation.
As his reputation grew, he began to perform in other places. So far, he has been to 35 countries including India, the United States, and China.
His audience is getting bigger and bigger, and his deeds are seen by the whole world. People are greatly inspired by his speech.
His acting time is no longer limited to five minutes. When he stands on the stage, the spotlight follows him and the entire stage is his.
His deeds have also inspired more people like him. His life has changed from muddled to sunny, and it has also allowed more children to find the direction of life. After
graduated, he established his own company. His reputation grew and his net worth began to rise. He turned a bad hand into a king.
Encountering love
During his lectures around the world, he also successfully met a girl who he fell in love with and became his current wife.
He finished his speech as usual. While he was talking to others, his friend brought a girl. He couldn't help but be stunned.
His heart fell in love with just that one glance. When they were about to leave, he mustered up the courage to leave his email address, but the girl said that she could ask a friend to get it.
So, like most boys, he refreshed his mailbox every day, hoping to get a message from him.
He looked forward to it every day, but a long time passed and he didn't receive the message.
He really couldn't stand it. He wanted to see the girl, but when he actually stood at the door of the girl's house, he was the one who was so brilliant on the stage, but he became nervous.
He began to dislike himself for not having a normal body. He was afraid that the person he liked would hate him. What would he say if he got in?
Love is indeed a magical thing.
The girl brought him into the house. He originally thought that the girl did not like him, but during the conversation, they both had a crush on each other.
This made him very excited. The two met their parents. The girl's parents also knew about his deeds and were deeply attracted by him.
Their love soon received the blessings of both parents.
This ill-fated man has become extremely smooth in love. From falling in love to getting married, it was like God was trying to make up for his debt to him.
In 2012, the two held a wedding. Nick Vujicic and Kanae Miyahara officially became husband and wife, and the two souls finally found their home. After
, he continued his speaking career, while his wife rarely exposed herself to the media, and she was content to be a good wife.
Although many people on the Internet have questioned their marriage, this does not affect their love for each other.
A year later, the couple welcomed their first child, a first-time father who celebrated by posting photos of the child on social media.
After that, his wife gave birth to another son and two daughters for him. Now he has two sons and two daughters, and the family is very happy.
However, as a normal person, many people have defeated him since birth, but they quit midway, having no goals in life and being confused.
Only after seeing his deeds can we truly understand that there are really people in this world who can win the day, and there are really people who can play bad cards like a king.
Everyone in this world has unhappy things. There must always be some hardships on the road of life to make life wonderful.
If you think you have reached a desperate situation, don't give up and try again. Maybe there is still a way to go. When you get out of the desperate situation, there will be light.
Don't let yourself go into the darkness, let alone give up on yourself easily. A mayfly shakes a tree, and you do it knowing you can't do it. Isn't this the most fascinating thing about "people"?
