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In 2020, a new female top star was born -
Liu Mintao's song "Red High Heels", which sang herself to the top spot in the hot search.
Netizens commented: "The number one person who sings in immersive style."
"What I have is not holding a Mark, but a shaking red wine glass."
Many netizens speculated, is my sister drunk?
She quickly responded: "I'm really not drunk."
The implication is, don't doubt it, this is the "real self".
Yang Di exposed it in an interview. Sister Mintao, who seems to be serious, has the most comedian potential.
Hears very hip-hop, "yo yo Yang Di!"
Many people shouted, "Sister, come in the C position of the girl group!"
"Genius expression, tens of millions of straight shots, sister circle top-scene and sensitive!"
poster designed by Weibo netizens
This time, she completely subverted the dignified image in the past screen.
Someone said: "People's artist Liu Mintao, I didn't expect that she would become popular with a song."
"Qianmen Tower Nine and Nine"
44 years old, an age where many people think they should be steady and mature, but she let herself go without any scruples.
How many peers can be as cool and confident as they are?
However, if you know the real her, you will not be surprised by this "decent" this time.
was once a "good girl" who followed the rules and regulations
In the first half of life, Liu Mintao has always been a good girl in the standard sense.
is a "rebellious insulator" in her own words.
17 years old, I applied to the Central Academy of Drama after listening to my family and followed the rules and regulations in my life.
She once recalled her student days in an interview with "People":
I think it is the greatest filial piety. At that time, you can wear whatever your mother told you to wear. Unlike today's children, they still look in the mirror to make flowers and hairstyle for themselves.
I will also arrange my life in a regular manner like a good student, and do not allow any disruption of the plan. I have a notepad that records what I have to do every day, and it is clear one by one.
I think it is the greatest filial piety. At that time, you can wear whatever your mother told you to wear. Unlike today's children, they still look in the mirror to make flowers and hairstyle for themselves.
I will also arrange my life in a regular manner like a good student, and do not allow any disruption of the plan. I have a notepad that records what I have to do every day, and it is clear one by one. "People"
After graduating from the Central Academy of Drama, she acted in several big dramas, all of which were virtuous traditional female characters.
For example, Zhang Jiazhen in " Fugui ":
Nie Xiaoqian in " Ghost Love ":
Kui Juner in "Qianmen Tower Jiuzhangjiu":
Although she is in the rising period of her career, her life plan is still inseparable from the public's expectations for "standard women".
Compared with strong women who work hard in the workplace, a good wife and mother are the standard answers.
0 in her early 30s, she handed over her own answer sheet and became a good wife.
However, can you ensure happiness and perfection by living a life of standard meaning?
Love seems charming, but it is actually full of various variables.
A few years after entering marriage, the husband worked outside all year round and the two were separated.
Marriage has gradually become an empty shell with no meaning of existence.
"Southern People Weekly" Liu Mintao interviewed
As a full-time housewife, she is penniless and has no right to do anything at home.
Traveling to Japan with her husband, wanting to buy a matcha ice cream, but even this little wish cannot be realized.
"People" Annual Women's Power Ceremony
She recalled in her speech:
"I lived humble and pale in my great years when I should have been full of spirit."
became a good daughter, a good student, and a good wife, but I did not become myself.
She has not been asleep all night and has been staring at the ceiling.
seems to have another self jumped out, looking down at the self in a difficult situation.
At that moment, she felt her loneliness and unworthiness.
Only live once, why not face your inner voice honestly?
At dawn, she made a decision to end the marriage.
no longer lives in the "standard life" defined by others.
She untied all the constraints on her body and began a "rebellious" adventure.
Do what you want to do, return to the entertainment industry you love, and explore unfamiliar fields.
"I want to try where my limit is."
returned to the screen and successfully created classic characters.
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"Sound into the Scene" Season 2
She slowly regained herself and regained control of her life.
A few years after the divorce, she went to Japan specifically and bought the matcha ice cream she wanted to eat back then.
At this time, she no longer suppresses herself for other people's eyes.
The ice cream that she has always remembered in her heart is the "scent of freedom".
The prerequisite for enjoying rebellion is to treat yourself well
Many people believe in a principle: "When you reach what age, do what you want."
When you reach the age of marriage, you should start looking for a partner quickly and don't always think about working hard for a career.
When parents are old, put children first and don’t always think about yourself.
Many "should and should not" are the main sources of anxiety in contemporary people.
, but Liu Mintao was "disobedient" and never abide by these rules and regulations.
In life, she often lets herself go and releases the little girl in her heart.
Go to the amusement park to play carousels:
joke that you also have a loli heart:
Put on your school uniform and play the role of a little girl on campus:
Try short hair styles and backless outfits that you didn’t dare to have before:
2019 National Drama Festival Award Ceremony
This time, she became popular with the song "Red High Heels".
Everyone regards her as a source of happiness and envies her for living a chic life.
"It's not the C position, but it's better than the C position."
"I hope my 43-year-old can live so freely!"
Someone said: "The next wave may still be basking in the sun, but the previous wave has already started to surging against the wind."
Liu Mintao, the "first wave" in the entertainment industry, is the best example.
She proved with her actions that middle age is not only fatigue and numbness, but also rebellion and freedom.
Many people think that rebellion is just a privilege for adolescent children.
In fact, it is everyone's self-aware awakening.
Many modern people may be lost in their nine-to-five jobs, do not know what they want, live a life that goes with the flow, and are lost in a vague identity.
"Tokyo Women's Picture Book"
A psychological counselor said:
"When a person truly has self-awareness, it marks the birth of the self, which depends on whether a person can truly have his own right to choose and whether he can give him selectivity to every behavior of his own."
Middle-aged rebellion is not to be an enemy of whom, but to reexamine himself.
As Liu Mintao summarized: "Treat yourself well, treat life well."
"A little idealism, coupled with appropriate self-centering, will form an elegant and rich aura."
This belated rebellion period is a gift left by time.
It is not just a lone courage, but the crystallization of wisdom and courage.
Just like what she said in her speech:
"As abide by your words, you don't need to go too far. "
" And doing what you do, it requires the dual blessing of judgment ability and courage. "
Someone asked her if this rebellion came too late?
She answered calmly, everything is the best arrangement.
The energy of women has never been the same
A while ago, Da Zhangwei kowtowed Jia Ling in "Ace vs. Ace":
"I rarely see a girl laughing on stage when she dares to laugh, she can laugh loudly in public. "
I don't know when the image of celebrities has become the same:
speaks carefully, dare not laugh, dare not argue with others; professional expression management, generous and decent, and elegant manners...
The same is true for middle-aged actresses.
The public's stereotypes of "middle-aged women" are inseparable from "good wives and good mothers", "gentle and generous", and "follow the rules" Tags.
Liu Mintao said that this singularity and repetition made her feel anxious.
In her opinion, middle-aged women are actually a very complex and story-based group.
However, there is still a lack of shaping such groups in China.
"Many 40-year-old women have dreams and execution ability. Their lives are much broader than those in TV series, including family and small love. ”
Do you still remember the popular Korean drama "The World of Couples" this year?
The actress who plays the heroine Kim Hee-ae , and is already 53 years old this year.
She has created a flesh-and-blood single mother with her superb acting skills, which makes people see the rebellion and energy of middle-aged women.
"The World of Couples"
Experience the purity of youth , after the years of precipitation, middle-aged women have countless interesting stories worth telling.
They no longer live in the world that others "expect".
is not gentle and unacceptable, but instead do whatever they want and let themselves go.
Even if they are regarded as "anomal", they have the courage to be themselves, and live a transparent and clear life.
Some people say: "At the age of 40, some people wear red feet, and some people are still wearing red high heels. "
There is no standard for female charm, there are many possibilities.
Intellectual gentleness is a kind of beauty, vitality and ostentatiousness is also a kind of beauty; implicit elegance is a kind of beauty, domineering side leakage is also a kind of beauty...
Everyone has a unique color and does not need to be defined.
Just like Liu Mintao wrote to his daughter:
"Your life is full of passion, be a unique self. ”
"Hello Mom"
Many people will think that I am already at this age, will it be too late to make changes?
For Liu Mintao, age is nothing, and there is no need to frame myself within a certain age range.
She once said mischievously in her speech:
"I always feel that I have not grown up yet. Rebellion is not because I am afraid of aging. "
This kind of confidence comes from the wealth and strength in the heart.
Whether you are 30, 40 or 50 years old, it will never be too late to change.
As she said:
"Don't be afraid of losing wealth, don't be afraid of losing emotions, and even don't be afraid of losing your past self. "
" The most important thing is, don't regret not doing what you want to do, don't leave any regrets. ”
Only when a life without limits can there be a broad and free future.
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