"I love learning,
Learning makes my mom happy!
My mom happy,
The whole family is happy!"
Recently, a short video of a student shouting the slogan "I love learning, learning makes my mom happy" was widely circulated online.
It is reported that this group of students came from Class 4, Grade 2, Haide School, Second Foreign Language School (Group) in Nanshan District, Shenzhen. At the opening ceremony of the school sports meeting that day, the students shouted the aforementioned slogans.
All the students shouted in unison the slogan "I love learning, learning makes my mother happy; my mother is happy, the whole family is happy", which attracted laughter on the scene.
The netizens who saw the video also smiled
said that this is fine
"Tell the voice of the vast majority of families"
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Indeed, the mother's emotions and temperament directly affect the child's personality and also determine the atmosphere of a family.
There is a "similar" psychology in psychology, which means that children will unconsciously absorb the mother's personality and characteristics as themselves and express them. Therefore, if the mother knows how to control emotions, the child will also see the beauty of life.
Happy families are all emotional leaders. If you have a peaceful mother, the family will become really comfortable, warm and longing for you.
Mother’s good emotions
Child’s good luck
Mo YanIn the article “Mother ”, I can’t forget that my mother, who was worried, was humming a small song in her mouth while working hard!
At that time, in our large family with a large population, the mother was the one who worked the hardest, and the one who was most hungry was the mother.
At that time, many women in the village committed suicide. Once when I came back from work, my mother did not answer my cry. I felt the most terrible thing happened and couldn't help but burst into tears. At this time, my mother walked in from outside. She asked me why I cried. I dare not tell her my concerns. My mother understood what I meant, and she said to me: Child, don’t worry, if the King of Hell doesn’t call me, I won’t go! Although my mother's words were not very vocal, they suddenly made me gain a sense of security and hope for the future. This is a solemn promise made by a mother to her worried son.
It is my mother's strength and optimism that has given Mo Yan the courage and confidence to fight fate since he was a child.
The good mood of a mother is the good luck of the child.
Only when the mother is warm and upward can she use love to ignite the positive energy of her child and lead her life to glory.
Mother's good mood
determines the child's temper
Among the three couples who are popular drama " Little Joy ", there is a very popular character, the gentle Yang Yang's mother - Liu Jing.
She doesn’t have many shots, but every time she appears, she gives people a very comfortable feeling, just like an old friend she has known for a long time, dignified and without a sense of distance. She is steady and generous in dressing and dressing, and she doesn’t talk much but can talk to the point.
The most important thing is that the tenderness in her bones is super powerful and infectious, and her emotions have been controlled very well.
When the other two mothers in the play were anxious about their children's grades, she calmly analyzed and gave suggestions with reasonable and reasonable basis, allowing the two mothers to begin to reflect on the fact that they put too much pressure on their children and try to change the way they get along with them.
is usually busy with career and rarely accompany your children. At this critical time of high school, I want to make up for it as much as possible.
This compensation is not money, but companionship and communication as much as possible, so that parents and children can slowly open their hearts.
Under Liu Jing's guidance, Yang Yang also began to understand the difficulty of his parents and took the initiative to wash his father's feet.
Yang Yang's father found that his wife was sick and went to the hospital to find her. He had tears in his eyes, but he kept holding back and did not fall. His voice did not change when he called the child, but he just didn't want the child to worry.
Liu Jing was diagnosed with breast cancer, and finally decided to tell the child the truth. The heartwarming Yang Yang ran to shave his hair and said he wanted to accompany his mother.
Although Yang Yang's grades in the play are not outstanding, they have the influence on his steady parents, especially his mother. Among his children, he seems more steady and heartwarming.
The good mood of a mother is the most important factor in determining a child’s good temperament.
Perhaps for the mother, if the emotions are vented, you can return to normal after a while. But in the heart of the child, emotionally unstable mothers are involuntarily scared.
The mother's emotions determine the warmth of a home, and also subtly determine the direction of a child's personality.
Mom’s good emotions
is the source of happiness for a family
Flom said in "The Art of Love":
Miscus symbolizes the first aspect of maternal love: care and affirmation of life, and honey symbolizes the sweetness of life, love for life and happiness in life.
Most mothers have the ability to give "milk", but only a few mothers can give "honey" in addition to milk.
In order to give "honey", she should not only be a good mother, but also a happy person, but this goal can only be achieved by a few people.
Only when the mother is a happy person first can the child be happy.
The impact of native families on children will accompany them throughout their lives. In a positive family, it is inseparable from the good emotions of parents. Only children who grow up in a warm and harmonious family will feel full of happiness.
How mothers manage emotions correctly
Mother's emotions determine the future of the child, but life is stressed and troubled, and it is inevitable that they will be unhappy and unhappy, especially when the child is disobedient, they may lose control of their emotions.
How can mothers under heavy pressure relieve stress for themselves, control their emotions, and create a happy and harmonious family atmosphere? Moms can try the following small methods.
1) Make an emotional file.
is prone to getting angry under what environment? Record it. In what situation, what kind of impulsive behavior was done because of what? Record five times in a row, then reversely do rational analysis and make an emotional file.
2) Leave the scene and calm down.
Even if you consciously manage your emotions, controlling your emotions is not easy and you cannot succeed in one go. The origin of conflict is not terrible, what is terrible is the escalation of conflict. It is the most appropriate to leave the scene at this time, calm down, and then find a solution.
3) Introduce third-party mediation.
If you encounter both mother and child are anxious, it is difficult to seek active communication from one party. In this case, communication requires a bridge, and family roles such as grandma and grandma are ideal candidates. Communication is only possible after the relationship between the two parties eases.
4) For children, slowing down
suddenly loses control not only does not help, but also makes mothers and children unhappy.
Many times, it seems much easier to be happy when you give your child more freedom, allow him to take his time and make small mistakes.
5) To yourself, be better
Leave yourself an hour every day to read books, run, insert flowers, and drink afternoon tea.
Give yourself a day off every week to beautify your body and mood, or ask three or five friends to climb the mountain and look into the distance. Even if you just leave the unchanging complexity for a short time, you will add a different landscape painting to your life. Adjust yourself and set off.
What kind of person do you want your child to become, you must set an example first. A mother who is emotionally stable and gentle and often smiles on her face will also cultivate children who are emotionally stable and gentle.
Doctor of psychology in Taiwan Hong LanMs. once said: "From the perspective of human evolution, mother is the soul of the family, mother is happy, whole family is happy, mother is anxious, whole family is anxious."It can be seen how important the good emotions of mothers in a family are!
Raising children is a practice, and emotional stability is a lesson that mothers must work hard for their whole life, and it is also the best gift and love that can give their children!
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