A while ago, controversial Coconut tree live Have you watched it?
The brand party found several graceful girls, wearing tights, black shorts, and dancing to sell goods.
Although the live broadcast was cut off by the platform in a few minutes, it caused up to 330 million discussions, and Sexy and vulgar was once again pushed to the forefront of public opinion.
Uncle found that once involves female gender temperament, public opinion is always chaotic and unbalanced .
not only live coconut tree, but also the previous 1saye photos. If you are a little longer, Reyiza suspenders, event kernel is different, but the solution is to get rid of sexy itself first .
When sex finally became synonymous with bad records and gradually lost voice in the public opinion environment, We seem to have gained some kind of freedom, and at the same time we put on new shackles .
Search for the word "sexy" on B.com. Only the sensuality of the screen appears. Uncle Oxygen believes that women face when they are sexy, it is time to be taken seriously .
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What is a sexy dilemma?
Simply put, it is We both appreciate the macrosexuality and resist individual sexy .
A typical social manifestation is that everyone thinks that beauty should be revealed, but when this exposure falls on an individual, it will be whipped vulgar .
To give a few examples, quiet wore a sexy dress when walking the red carpet at Golden Rooster Awards , confident and moving, but the comments were all about her being old and not reserved, very ugly and embarrassing .
Li Bingbing was reported by pediatricians in a deep V dress but failed. Many people chased her and scolded her for being not suitable for children and were shameless.
Yang Mi endorsed Victoria's Secret was also considered to be indifferent.
Of course, there are also people who take advantage of the situation. Soft pornography is sexy to fool the public, and involves private goods to change the concept, describing the "benefit for me and serve me" from the male perspective as "very beautiful and sexy".
When the boundary between sexy and pornography of becomes more blurred, and even celebrities retreat because of indiscriminate insults and accusations, it is even more difficult for ordinary people to choose to be sexy.
Dilireba Wearing a dress, she dared not relax for a moment, cover her chest and restrain her hands and feet
Swimsuit photos are considered to be edged
When talking about lifelike and fragrance, we always have to trace back to Hong Kong in the golden age in one breath.
In the echo wall, similar sounds are repeated in exaggerated or other distorted forms. We are tired of thinking and have difficulty answering in the sexy dilemma - is sexy and beautiful, but for women, it seems that it should not exist.
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Why does it cause a sexy dilemma?
Because the background of sexy is sex, and as written in the book, we don’t think that “women need this impulse, this right, this need” is the one that can gain respect.
specifically manifests as
① Sexual shame:
For example, big breast shame.
The second sexual characteristics that just developed when he was in school will become a joke for male classmates.Girls who are slightly better developed are afraid that others will see them, so they need a lot of courage to raise their heads and chests.
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For example armpit hair shame.
On the one hand, the Western industrial revolution in the 20th century prompted women to enter society, and the charm of sexuality flowed from the family to the society became a taboo, so women's armpit hair became the mainstream.
Kristen Hope once said: There is such a tendency for society to regard adults as men and confuse women with minors.
When society recognizes that young people are closely connected with women, armpit hair, which symbolizes maturity and sexual charm, will inevitably be disliked, rejected and removed.
The armpit hair was mature and sexy
②Aesthetic tightness:
Ueno Chizuko wrote: "The double standard of sex divides women into two groups, namely "wife and mother" and "prostitute", "marriage partner" and "play with partner".
Concrete this situation in today's society. The aesthetic scenes that can be seen are:
The younger the women, the better:
Desire is pure desire, white thinness is so thin that it is so young, white sweetness is so stupid... This aesthetic of getting rid of adult attributes is largely desexualization. Even if there is no sexuality, it at least indicates that they is ignorant to sex .
Beware of white thinness Trap, but it is not necessary to eliminate some aesthetic
. Once a woman with this image reveals her gender temperament, she will be attacked .
For example, Zhao Lusi accidentally exposed some breast stickers in a strapless skirt. The comment was "Isn't she pure? It's so vulgar."
html ml0Sun Yezhen wore a low-cut skirt to attend the event, and the comment was "the image of the goddess collapsed".
Female star just walked out of the rough male gaze of " Men's Dress " and walked into another aesthetic extreme of slut humiliation. It seems to be progressing but actually escaping in disguise.
The sexy past is an anchor point, and clicking may jump to slut, unclean, frivolous, shallow, The sexy now adds a new link - a charming man.
But if everything is judged as negative, it is a new shackle. It makes women no longer express themselves actively, so as not to be labeled negatively, such as the Reyiza of that year.
Sexy body cannot be on the table. Instead, the more restrained the desire and suppress the sexual tension, the more recognized it is , the virtuous wife and mother sewed the dress are praised for being cute. .
When our aesthetic nerves become more and more tense, the final point is Aesthetic missing .
The clothes and clothes that stars go on stage are the original appearance
③Nerative deconstruction:
than the cloak of sexiness With the abandonment of aesthetics, more phenomena are that bad money drives out good money .
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From an aesthetic perspective, this negative deconstruction comes from people who have no individual consciousness and independent thinking .
They dismantle the sexy beauty into simple sexual characteristics, cater to and weak , and turn Kitten and providing sexual fantasy is the ultimate goal, throwing yourself into exchange for worldly recognition, further reducing the real sexy living space.
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There are many people who believe that the boundary between and the boundary between sensuality and pornography is whether it is exposed generously and appropriately .
But uncle thinks it is not.Because some generous and decent nudity gives people the feeling of lack of desire and holiness, and the power to strike desire, such as the broken arm Venus dressed as Eva Green , such as the Fairy Sister.
Let us throw away the appearance and figure factors, just talk about the difference between sexy and pornography.
Really sexy, such as "Lust Caution" Tang Wei 's abstinence, such as Scarlett Johansson 's relaxation, such as Tita Wantis's confidence.
The expressions and expressions of their limbs are all related to me , full of The sense of offensive power , it is " I care, I believe, I want ".
The so-called state of edge-brushing porn is also related to me.
is just endless cares about self-pity : " Am I beautiful enough? Do I deserve you? Am I tempting? " I am not sexy anymore if I am sexually. What's more, they are willing to give up their equal status or belittle themselves spiritually.
In the deeper level, The former enjoys his own state, while the latter lives for his own sexual value in the eyes of others. After clearing the clouds and fog, the difference between the two becomes clearer.
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The real sexy kernel is the power
Looking back, the coconut tree has turned over because the purpose of this live broadcast negatively deconstructed the sexy.
Sexy is trapped by society, and due to the deep-rooted and outdated thoughts and the sexy field, true sexiness is stigmatized into the activity of "being kitsch to defame itself".
So, what exactly is true sexiness?
Uncle believes that it should not represent low-level, kitsch, or easy to obtain. Sexy comes from the mobilization of high-level power by women themselves.
For example, it is full of vitality of .
Qi and blood are the origin of life. Beauty who is good at sexy dares to use reason and sensibility to mobilize the power of qi and blood surging. The sparks are in the cold ashes. When you see them, you believe that no matter how cool the ground is, they can burn to the spring mountain ashes.
Tita Vantis has a strong absolute control over the body, and more than half of her fans are women.
does not care about the size of the eyes, does not care about the delicate or rough skin. The so-called body curves and hip contours are not ornaments for visitors.
That is the concreteization of the original beauty of human nature and the bodybuilding of wildness. It is Artemis, the mistress of the beast. It is the bloom of the original id that stores biological impulses and desires under the pen of Freud .
Why do you have to be ashamed of your nature? It is truly sexy to tell the world with its majestic body that the courage to express passionate desires in the world is a trembling and precious touching person.
Another example, the vigorous outward invasion.
Ishihara Sakimi is known for her expression management. In most cases, she appears with a very contagious healing sweet smile. She feels energetic, but she can't say she is sexy.
There are only a few scenes that too many people cannot forget for a long time because she mobilized her invasive eyes.
Eyes are a microcosm of psychology, telling the other party that she is outlining you, touching you, and controlling you in a eager attitude.
Even though the vigorous aggressiveness turns into a surging spring river, the impact and sexual tension are already charming enough: you can like me, but listen to me.
Many sexy royal sisters in TV series have taken this path, such as Wu Yongwei in , and html like a little fox Jin Minxi , Huang Ling .
The powerful female charm is not the charming man that has caused everyone to criticize.
Because the situation depends entirely on one's own strength, men are not charming referees, nor are they the root of teasing, restraining, or conquering the city.
The true sexy starting from this point is enough to make the tight social aesthetics loose.
Finally, the power of men and women is universal - intelligence.
Just like the classic lines of Detective Sherlock, Brainy is the new sexy.
A beautiful mind will naturally not passively deconstruct sexy. On the contrary, the sexy it can interpret is often shocking and speechless.
When "Sisters of Waves" was broadcast, Liu Lian became a hot search with intelligence.
Peking University graduated and became the director of Ogilvy at a young age. After work, he did music and variety shows. He always made correct predictions when he was a military advisor in the show.
Below the appearance, there is a rich inner world and great sexual attraction.
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Whether it is the rebellious woman Wu Yongshan I mentioned before, or the gold medal lawyer Amar who has the qualifications of a lawyer in the United Kingdom and the United States.
Women who shine in their own field and have achieved the ultimate brilliance, which makes people admire and shine.
Have you found it? What can break the current sexy dilemma is the real sexy itself.
and 's true sexiness is the beautiful power and charm emitted by women themselves. It naturally exists in women and does not belong to anyone's gaze or whose discipline.
