Source: Harper's Bazaar
"It's really ridiculous to take white and young thin as the standard!"
In the all-female talk show " Listen to Sister Talking " launched by Mango TV, the latest guest Fu Seoul directly criticized the aesthetic of "white and young thin".
Now facing the market and most men’s pursuit of women’s white and thinness, more and more female artists have come forward to speak out for women.
In the show, Fu Seoul said that she is the negative textbook for "white young and thin". She said that she is fancy, elegant and luxurious, and milfs. "If white and young are the standard, then I can only be a specimen."
She also said: "In daily life, there are many good friends who complain about me. They are all fashion bloggers and are very authoritative, but I never refute it because I know their evaluation of each other. They think each other is also very rustic. So in the eyes of others, what are we like, is it important?"
"The biggest regret in my life is that in my girlhood, I never felt pretty. No one told me what beauty is, nor did anyone tell me how to become more beautiful. I think many women of my age grew up like this. Today, I am thirty-eight years old. Sometimes when I see myself laughing, I feel from the bottom of my heart that this woman looks so beautiful, she smiles so brightly."
Fu Seoul finished this passage and everyone in the audience applauded her enthusiastically. Huang Xiaolei said to her: "Beautiful!"
"My appearance has never changed, but my mood has changed. Many people think that my greatest achievement in recent years is to become one of the most talkative women. In fact, my greatest achievement is that I finally learned to appreciate myself. I can move to forty with confidence. Finally, I want to answer a question seriously. How can a woman with ordinary looks live a wonderful life because this woman discovered that once you stop envious of others and appreciate yourself, there is no ordinary appearance at all."
Fu Seoul's words not only made us feel her confidence and beauty, but also to be generous. As soon as her words ended, many people applauded.
Another sister in the "Listen to Sister" program, Huang Xiaolei, also said that it is because Chinese people pursue skinny beauty and the aesthetics of "white and young and thin", which forces them to not even dare to eat meat all day long. In fact, they themselves don't like this, but in order to cater to the audience's aesthetics, there is nothing they can do. Zhang Lanxin, another guest in the
program, believes that this aesthetic is determined by the market. Reyiza also said: "If everyone is white and young, they will be like robots."
Yes, half of 2021 is almost over, so we should learn to appreciate ourselves and women of different styles, right?
When it comes to female celebrities who "do not take the ordinary path", they will nominate Huasha of Mamamoo. When she first debuted, she looked inconsistent with the mainstream "white and young" aesthetic, and netizens said that she was too dark, had a bloated figure, ugly appearance, and was even so bad that she asked her to quit the group.
(Washa on the right)
But Huasha would not be stuck by these voices. She ignored the opposition and kept looking for her own unique style, conquering everyone with her unique and personal voice and attitude.
Last year, a song "Mariah" was released. Huasha on the stage was beautiful and cool, and the typhoon was sexy and hot, like a female lion, making everyone look at her with admiration. With her confidence and strength, she demonstrated her strong counterattack and turnaround again and again, becoming the most dazzling "Queen" on the stage.
"Everyone has tried his best to hate me. What's the benefit if I destroy me?" The lyrics of "Maria" beautifully face other people's malicious evaluations of their figure and appearance. Sister Ba just wants to say that Huasha is good!
Maybe Huasha is not the best example of white and young in some people's hearts, but her frankness and straightforwardness are emitted from the inside out. Some people say that her thighs are thick, so she must show it confidently and boldly because there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Huasha previously participated in a Korean variety show called " I Live Alone ", showing her real life without any "idol burden". She looked like she went to her favorite restaurant to have a big mouthful and was very careless at home. She also ignited the "Huasha effect" because she ate too much, and she did not adulterate at all.
Are these real and unpretentious appearances much more precious than the stereotyped "white young and thin"?
We all know that the 19-year-old Bili can be said to be a recognized genius girl in the world music industry. Her debut is at its peak, and Bili has brought us many surprises now.
In addition to marveling at Bili's unique and unique dressing style, her unique and unique dressing style is also very popular among girls.
The personality girl Bili likes to wear some loose clothes. Whether it is the attention of everyone to come to the stage to receive the award or to dress up in private, she will always appear in oversize. However, in Bili's words, the main reason why I like oversize is that I don't want the outside world to use it to evaluate my figure, so I want to hide my real figure.
Bili was photographed on the street before. In the photo, Bili was wearing a simple and casual suspender skirt, loose shorts and slippers. As soon as the photo was released, it caused fierce quarrel among netizens. Black fans left messages saying that she was "bloated", "like an aunt" and "had a bad figure", and some people said she wanted to lose her fans.
Just when netizens were quarreling, Bili herself did not respond positively, but forwarded a short video on IG, saying in the video:
"Fat is normal, belly is normal, and chest sagging is also normal, especially after becoming a mother, those perfect body photos displayed on Ins are fake."
is just like Bili said in an interview: "You should have the right to choose to display or not show your body and skin, and you should not be denied respect because of making any choice!"
never deliberately cater to it, not easily defined, and stick to your attitude. Perhaps this is the real reason why everyone loves Bili.
When did everyone's definition of beauty become single, as if all other aesthetics should not be recognized except for "white and young and thin". When did we start to be so "treat others with strictness and discipline ourselves with lenientness"?
Looking at the European and American entertainment circles, there are not a few stars who are not "white and young" in the past. For example, the Selena Gomez , which has the iconic baby fat face, happens to be this slightly fat flesh that makes her unique and more recognizable.
Rihanna , which has outstanding results in all fields, needs no need to say much, everyone knows that she has dark skin, but does this prevent her from being beautiful?
There is also Scarlett Johnson , who was also ridiculed for "disfigurement in figure". Not everyone can play the "Black Widow" deeply, nor can everyone be a "sexy girl".
You can like the "white young and thin" aesthetic, there is nothing wrong with this, but please don't ask others to have an aesthetic, nor do you ask others to change yourself, because everyone is unique. Similarly, we should not change ourselves because of other people's eyes. The most important thing is to insist on what we like.
No matter at any time, we need comfort, health and happiness most, rather than blindly examining ourselves with other people's aesthetics.
