Since youth cannot be retained
Jinghua
This is the name of a movie.
Zhang Han and Chen Qiaoen starring.
If I were watching this movie in high school, my feelings would be different.
is here, I understand Sichuan dialect and have my goal to pursue.
Suddenly remembered the scene of drinking in the movie, which was so refreshing. I suddenly felt like I wanted to drink, but I am another person who doesn’t touch the drink. There is no way, so I have to think about my youth.
Since youth cannot be kept, since time cannot be kept.
In psychology, I am a person who can observe and self-hint .
I have been watching me grow up with me. Only one person can fully understand me, and that is myself.
Everyone has a moment of inspiration in their youth, but in this movie, it is teasing the feelings of youth in a sexual tone. I don’t know if youth is really so exaggerated. I just think I understand a lot of dialects in Chongqing, Sichuan, and I don’t know if it’s because I am in Sichuan.
The drama has not a high score, but I insist on watching it. I don’t know what I am obsessed with. During that time, I was reading an electronic essay called "Since Love Can't Be Keeped". I suddenly felt that what they wanted to express was the same. No one would pay attention to your past pain, and just see the glossiness on your surface.
The big boy who played guitar that year Wang Jinhui opened a small restaurant. That year, Zhou Hui experienced earth-shaking changes due to breast cancer. That year, Feng Song, who was full of turtle son, died of the oolong cigarette butt incident. In the years, they have experienced many things in their youth that have missed. Perhaps there is no such love or friendship in reality, but perhaps there are some deep affection we have at least had.
We don’t need to do anything, but when we are young, don’t let each other down the best expectations.
In the movie, I saw the warmth and coldness of human feelings. Perhaps when you are experiencing it, you don’t feel that the group of people around you are unlikely to meet again in your life, but you cannot deny that your youth was spent with them. I think people from Chongqing, Sichuan are simple, because Feng Song, although his image is not outstanding, has the enthusiasm and infatuation that ordinary people rarely have. Yes, in this drama, he is my favorite. He is an important figure in shaping the theme, friendship in college is his fuse, and reunion ten years later is the end of his knot. His life makes people feel that life is very warm, but his death is the lightness of life that cannot be endured by , which makes people unacceptable. So we should cherish the people around us. When Zhou Hui had breast cancer, his husband divorced her and chose to leave. I don’t understand why sometimes all people’s love and marriage are left with nonsensical sighs. From this, I remembered that whenever a newlywed couple becomes a husband or a pastor will ask them, are you willing to become a husband and wife with him, no matter how poor, rich, born, old, sick or dead? Everyone's answer is my willingness, but sometimes they fail to take care of their spouses and take the responsibility they should bear. Are people nowadays too cold or are we so numb that we can even abandon our lover. What our society needs is more warmth, so that the world will not be so cold and there will not be so many miserable people.
Since youth cannot be kept, then we should leave the seeds of love in our hearts when we are young. It is not attachment to feelings, nor paranoidness, nor unwillingness to accept it, but a sense of awe and respect for feelings and life.
We need warmth, and what we humans rely on for survival is also warmth. Only warmth in the world can save people from water and fire, so we should think about our current emotional life. It is not easy or noble, which will make us feel that life is not so rigid in the future.
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