Taoist Ayi, his profession is to send the dead to the last journey in the world.
Taoist Ayi and his cousin Azhuang had a night talk. While walking on the edge of a farmland, Ayi suddenly said, "Do you know what my real profession is?" Then he took out a manuscript of poetry and said, "I am a poet."
The people who have passed away all of them are rushing to their own rituals. Ayi is familiar with the old rituals and often is invited to go to places outside his hometown to the local area. For the villagers who died in other places for some reason, they call the souls of the people who left their hometown and bring the wandering souls of their hometown back to their hometown. This kind of profession should be compassionate and respected. This movie is the Taiwanese local film "Seven Days of Father" that won three awards.
The actor of Taoist Ayi is the Golden Horse actor Wu Pengfeng . He is called countless souls in the film. He returned to the real world and died suddenly at home on May 24 at the age of 55. I don’t know if there was a Taoist priest who helped him call him the soul and brought his sorrow back to his hometown this time.
"The Seven Days of the Father" stills
In recent years, Wu Pengfeng, who has lived alone, has starred in "The Seven Days of the Father", "The Return", "The First Gun", etc., and has won the Golden Horse male supporting role, Beijing Film Academy Award and Golden Bell Video Emperor.
Not long ago, when he was chatting with his crew friends, he found a treasured black and white photo of his youth.
The photographer was his French girlfriend when he was young, but due to his remote relationship or the influence of his original family, the relationship ended in failure.
At that time, I was young and I was no longer a teenager when I returned. Wu Peng is from Zhao'an, Fujian Province. He is a big shot in the film and television industry in Taiwan and has few scandals. Therefore, he is still alone at the age of 55.
He had passed the destiny and half-jokingly asked the photo to be used as a last photo, but unexpectedly he made a promise.
According to reports, Wu Pengfeng originally planned to go out with his family on the afternoon of the 24th, but he was separated forever. His niece had previously revealed that Wu Pengfeng mentioned that he felt chest tightness and , but he did not take it seriously.
Maybe one day, everyone will welcome the arrival of death and say goodbye to their own body. The only thing that is gratifying is that the agent said that Wu Pengfeng's expression was peaceful when he left, as if he was asleep.
This is the "posture photo" he designated by himself
When I was young, I always thought that disease and death would only visit others. But sometimes it suddenly comes to yourself, or perhaps to the relatives and friends who look very vivid.
For the former, we may have lost the opportunity to say goodbye, just like Wu Pengfeng's last journey of life, without anyone to accompany him; the latter, we can only regret it as bystanders.
Living alone and dying suddenly. These two words have almost become high-frequency words in recent years:
On August 23, 2019, a 39-year-old young online writer Liu Jiajun (ID: Night in the grid), died of a sudden heart disease; he was discovered ten days later because he was alone at home.
On September 3, 2019, the director and actor of Beijing People's Art Theater, , died of a sudden heart attack and died in the early morning at the age of 41.
On November 20, 2019, Xu Yong, director of the Special Report Center of Xinhua News Agency's International Department, died of sudden large-scale myocardial infarction at the age of 56.
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The sudden visit of the god of death is really just a sudden one? In fact, there are traces to follow. Many times, the body sounds the alarm, but it is ignored by us. For example: chest tightness, shortness of breath, headache, etc. I just thought I was slight discomfort, but I didn’t expect that this was the early call of the god of death.
Experts point out: Many people believe that sudden death occurs in the elderly. But in recent years, sudden death in our country is becoming younger and younger. In fact, compared with the elderly, young people are more likely to die suddenly when they have a sudden myocardial infarction.
After 12 o'clock in the evening, are your heart full of loneliness?
The hustle and bustle during the day, the bustle and bustle of traffic, and the tedious things need to be dealt with. There is a high probability that I won’t feel lonely, but the night is always difficult, especially the night when I can’t sleep.
Many of us go out and report good news but not bad news.Those young people living alone in big cities can only say that whenever their families ask about their families. Because it is hard to say it will only make parents anxious, and the distance water cannot save the near fire.
28-year-old young man Xiao He said that he was floating in the imperial capital alone and rented a basement of 1,200 yuan a month. He had a fever and dizziness for a while, so he sent the address to his good friend, saying:
"If I haven't posted on Moments for three days and don't reply to WeChat, please call me the police."
According to the "China Statistical Yearbook-2018", in the sample data of the national population change sampling survey in 2017, one-person household accounted for 15.6%, while ten years ago, this data was only 8.9%. Among them, Guangdong has the highest proportion of one-person households, at 26.6%, with about one in every four households. Following closely behind are Zhejiang, Shanghai and Beijing.
Every city has individual people living alone, and many individual residents do not attract enough attention to their bodies.
The popular loneliness rating table
The popular loneliness rating table was once popular on the Internet, but in fact, it is still within the scope of the ninth level, but to the tenth level: it is really too difficult for a person to undergo surgery.
33-year-old best friend Fangzi went to the hospital alone for 3 days to hang saline. After he came back, he decided to marry himself within one year. Although a year has passed, she still hasn't married herself. The flag she has established will probably be awakened again after she goes to the hospital alone next time.
"Everyone is always an individual, and no one will always depend on whom to live." Living alone is a choice, but we who live alone should also consider our bodies appropriately. For example, we can do these:
1. Regular physical examinations, see a doctor in time in uncomfortable places, and never drag it.
2. Set up an emergency contact person and press that number as soon as possible if you have any questions.
3. Participate more in mass activities and areas such as communities and communities. If you do not participate in the activities, someone can care about you and you will not die suddenly in 10 days without anyone asking about it.
In the sudden death of a young man, overwork and mental tension are an important cause. However, the pressure of reality has forced us to work hard and even "voluntarily work overtime", which has increased the load on our bodies.
Finally, what I want to say is that only when you are not pushed forward by life can you think wisely.
So living alone is a person’s active choice, but if you choose to live alone, you should also pay attention to your body and not be a "model worker".
